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 msblueeyes44

Joined: 11/17/2008
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Dont contact me anymore some advice on that
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:52:20 AM
You say this like you have experience in doing this. I guess you are like the rest of us and that you have learned from your past mistakes on what not to do.
 whenwillthiswork26

Joined: 11/13/2008
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Dont contact me anymore some advice on that
Posted: 7/4/2009 3:35:19 PM
I would politely and briefly contact her. Say you miss her friendship. Leave her a message. And wait to see if she responds. If you get no response give up.
Don't confront her or demand to talk to her. Just leave a message, brief and polite.
 SimplyKendra

Joined: 5/22/2009
Msg: 53
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Dont contact me anymore some advice on that
Posted: 7/4/2009 4:49:09 PM
This is where the line is drawn between ex who wants you back and "Stalker"
 railrunner

Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 54
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Posted: 7/4/2009 8:47:57 PM
OP,
Do you remember the saying:

If you love someone, set them free
If they come back, they're yours.

Well, this situation is a little different, it goes as:

If you don't love someone, set them free.
If they come back, set them on fire.

You're playing with fire and very easily can get burned in a situation like this. I mean, if the told you to not contact her anymore, then easily the next step if you do, will be a restraining order. Or just a flat out arrest.
 readyornot57

Joined: 1/19/2008
Msg: 55
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Posted: 7/4/2009 9:59:19 PM
OP, go out and get a solid job........send her a card that says
"Hey (insert name)! I make $XXXX a week now at (insert name of company)!
HA HA! By the way, how is it going with Ashton Kutcher?"
 FoolMoon

Joined: 3/26/2008
Msg: 56
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Dont contact me anymore some advice on that
Posted: 7/5/2009 4:35:53 AM
You should of given her stuff to Goodwill. LOL This new guy shes with he will end up dumping her. Wait and see and I hope you move on better then I have and meet someone who really cares about you.
 ewacat38

Joined: 3/28/2009
Msg: 57
Dont contact me anymore some advice on that
Posted: 7/5/2009 8:45:42 AM
Everybody has been affected by the economy/job market in one way or another. Being laid off too much, etc. had little if anything to do with it. Simply put---She's Just Not That Into You.

Or better yet---She Isn't Into You AT ALL.

You chasing her only ruins your dignity and increases your chances of being dragged into court. In the end, she will get the last laugh with a restraining order.

Is that what you want? If so, keep bugging her.

I knew a guy (F.B.) who had one served against him. It isn't just a simple document telling you to stay so many yards away from her. She will file an affadavit asking for you to compensate her for lost wages at work, emotional pain, and her attorney's fees. It will cost you several thousand dollars.

Don't Contact Me Again means just that. It is not a game or a bluff. And remember this: do you REALLY want her back anyway? The second time a woman breaks up with you hurts way worse than the first.
 deejne84

Joined: 4/6/2008
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Dont contact me anymore some advice on that
Posted: 7/5/2009 9:25:12 PM
dont contact her, bad news... stay away... look out for yourself...
 SFX Group

Joined: 2/20/2008
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Dont contact me anymore some advice on that
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:03:08 AM
never contact her again.
 BeeGee56

Joined: 11/1/2007
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:31:17 AM


Women are funny creatures, they want a man to be strong, not for them, but because of them. They don't want a man to be nice so that they can be with them, but because that is really in his nature. A woman doesn't want her man to work because that is what she needs to help have a family taken care of, but rather because he wants to work to take care of the family.

There are few things worse in a womans eye, then a man doing things he THINKS will make her happy, therefore he's doing them... She wants a man to do things because that is what makes him and the family a unit as a whole happy.


Thanks ;)
I just might print that out and put it up on the wall.
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