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 ~Lucy~Lastick~
Joined: 11/1/2008
Msg: 26
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Not a chance!

Kissing is THE biggest turn on...........well for me and by the looks of it loads of others too.The hanky spanky wouldnt even happen if i couldnt bear to kiss him forever.

What i cannot understand is........ after you kissed him and thought 'urgh!' how the heck did the guy entice you to bed? or wherever it happened
 Seren~dipity
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 27
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 1:56:43 AM
I Hate Politics ~ ha ha ha, you're a star! I was with this guy for two years, lived with him too. We had a fabulous relationship, everything else was as good as it gets. To start with the kissing was ok, but as the relationship went on, I realised I wasn't really that much into kissing him, sad isn't it... perhaps that's where the relationship went downhill and ended.

As for the joys of mechanical or battery operated objects, yuk, no thanks, give me the real thing any day of the week!
 Seren~dipity
Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 28
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 2:04:08 AM
Cheeky! Cheeky....
 Alf Hucker
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 29
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 3:14:00 AM

My friend was appalled and said I couldn't possibly love him enough to stay with him then, she was right.

Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?


Yes....I would be happy with blow jobs and the occasional hump

Isaac hunt
 JCL1 SEQUEL
Joined: 8/18/2008
Msg: 30
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Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 4:02:13 AM
Yea.... My ex-wife was so ugly that I used to take her to work every morning . Because I couldn't bear the thought of kissing her goodbye.
 Loumoos
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 31
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 4:12:10 AM
aha JC .

I am a fan of Kissmet and glorious loosing yourself kissing techniques in a man...

 LincsYellowBelly
Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 32
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Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 6:29:42 AM
No, no, no and no some more

Kissing is fantastic and I think the 1st kiss tells you so much. I love kissing my boyfriend and yes he's fantastic all round but all that wouldn't make up for bad kissing.
 scintillation1
Joined: 8/17/2008
Msg: 33
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 6:31:39 AM
But if the guy is great in many other ways, would you try to teach him how you like it, or would you dump him? And would you tell him why?
 josh1uk
Joined: 11/22/2008
Msg: 34
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 7:53:15 AM
Kissing is so important to a relationship, very special and intimate even to some, but I was just wondering , turning this around, would any of you snog someone you didn't fancy or someone you did that was stranger that may not even be single, someone you aren't in a relationship with and have no intentions of being.
Bet most would. Not so intimate and important after all then!
 brown-eyed-gal
Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 35
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 3:37:07 PM
Yes, I was in a relationship with someone I didn't like to kiss for a long time. It can happen and doesn't necessarily mean you don't love that person but sharing a passionate kiss with someone you enjoy kissing....whether it's an act of lust or love (or both if you're lucky) is heavenly. Personally, the sort of kisses I prefer are the kind which gives me butterflies in my tummy... but that hasn't happened for a while now.
 Bigfella57
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 36
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Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 3:41:51 PM
No way, couldn't do it, kissing is the gateway to so much more and is a very much underrated part of fore play, kissing can be just heavenly......unless she was loaded of course, then yes no probs!

Joke!
 Taralaraa
Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 37
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 3:51:39 PM
could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?


...mmmm... maybe...

If I fancied him SO SO SO much I might try to ignore his bad-kissee attempts and just kiss him like I want to be kissed in the hope he kissses me like I am kissing him....

follow....?

If his kisses were a set piece - 1 of (maybe)8 things in the relationship I may or may not be happy about and everythng else I wanted was 7-10/10, then my ansa is YES. I could work on this... I think.....


vvvvv


Delicious kissing is the best, you can try and educate a bad kisser but sometimes it's a no-win situation so you have to cut and run.


Absolutely but if one thing is missing... I'm not going to ignore the rest...

I wish there was a baby .... bath water.... throw any... analogy/icon here.... but ho hum....

 Cleverkitten
Joined: 5/17/2008
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Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 3:53:25 PM
Delicious kissing is the best, you can try and educate a bad kisser but sometimes it's a no-win situation so you have to cut and run.


Kissing in public is acceptable whereas sex in public isn't
 Sexytrish36
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 39
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 3:58:31 PM
Wat the hell is the point of bein in 2 relationship with someone who did not please you with their kiss?
No way would i even think of stayin with someone if i didn't like their kiss.. Ewww thats just wrong.
 Cleverkitten
Joined: 5/17/2008
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Posted: 4/10/2009 4:12:05 PM

Absolutely but if one thing is missing... I'm not going to ignore the rest...



Kissing is important to some.


Conversation is important to some.


Respect is important to some.


Should I continue ?
 Taralaraa
Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 41
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 4:37:07 PM

Should I continue ?


If you want to... if you must...

but I think we agree here....

I wouldnt dismiss a fella who ticked all the other boxes except the kissing one. Especially as this is one I think we (male or female) can usually adjust in the other party.... I know I have said to another kissee... oh hmmm not so much in my mouth... around my mouth is soooo goood...... an on an on an on.....that type of thing....?

And after that had a few (few.....???)kisses I wouldnt dismiss....
 cosmopolitan71
Joined: 5/21/2008
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Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/10/2009 4:40:50 PM
I only ever kissed one guy that really didnt have a clue & have to say it put me of even trying after that, completely lost all interest!

I do love a bloodly good deep sensual, teasing snog....cant beat it!
 angelbrighteyes
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 43
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/11/2009 3:30:11 AM
kissing for me would bring on passion and then things would flow into, perhaps sex, which in turn would lead into a relationship.
If I felt I could not enjoy kissing, I would not kiss him and there for it would not ever go into any more than a friendship with no sex.

Kissing someone who it works with sends thoughts to the brain and from the brain to the other erotic parts of the body.
When we enjoy kissing someone, it can be the most important act of loving the physical part of the relationship. It stimulates passion.
 brown-eyed-gal
Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 44
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/11/2009 5:39:38 AM
You can love someone and not love their kisses but when you are IN love with someone, you love their kisses too.
 josh1uk
Joined: 11/22/2008
Msg: 45
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/11/2009 6:11:01 AM
Er you do have to tell the other person what you like you know. each persons likes and dislikes are different and the way they kissed an ex could be totally different to the way you like it. I've told girls what I like asked what they like and I've only had one mediocre kisser so far.
 +joe+
Joined: 3/31/2009
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Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/11/2009 6:43:17 AM
nah IF i cant enjoy an embrace then wots the point .............Its horrible though when you really fancy someone and the kiss just dont work or theirs a sence of was that it ...no bonfire andno fireworks aimt my idea of fun...........^^^^^^^josh cant you enjoy the individual merits of each woman than trying to mould them into what you want,sounds a bit controlling ,,,,personally i prefer women with a freespirit and natural passion and that you dont interfere with you just enjoy
 JHparkes
Joined: 3/16/2009
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Posted: 4/11/2009 9:52:16 AM
Nah, I couldn't.

I was seeing someone once who liked to bite my lip when he was kissing me and suck on my lower lip, to the point where it actually hurt big time. I had to say "Owwww" in the end cos he kept doing it. Needless to say the relationship didn't last long.
 Dark-Angel
Joined: 8/22/2007
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Posted: 4/11/2009 10:18:42 AM
Nooooo...

I love kissing.

How does anyone cope in the early days of a relationship, you know, that stage where you just want to be somewhere that you can feel comfortable with your faces attached at the lips, if you don’t like kissing that person?

I’m not sure that I would want to get to the next level in a relationship if the kissing left me cold.

I hear what Josh is saying about expressing each other’s likes... But... I don’t think I would be totally happy that I was being told how to kiss. I tend to kiss someone the way I would like to be kissed and that should work, shouldn’t it?? I mean, you either fit... or you don’t.

So far I have only ever had compliments on my performance. Kissing wise.


 january-2009
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 49
Could you be in a relationship with someone you didn't like to kiss?
Posted: 4/11/2009 10:32:18 AM
Absolutely not!!!!

Kissing is the most important attribute of good love making, how can you make love to someone if you don't like the way they kiss, but I do think you can train 'an old dog new tricks.' If you guys will excuse the phrase.

It goes both ways and I am sure the way I kiss would not suit everyone I may kiss or have kissed. So it is individual, but to have someone searching for you last meal is a real turn off.

big yukkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
 NubianPrincess25
Joined: 3/28/2009
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Posted: 4/11/2009 12:12:49 PM
For me the simple answer is no. Urrggghhhh....just thinking about makes me feel ill
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