| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 10:00:41 AM | | Hey Vanni I'm not trying to sound negative, but my opinion is, on the internet you're looking for love in all the wrong places. How many people do you know online, that can truthfully tell you that they have found the person of their dreams online and are planning a future? I can see posting a pic if your looking for something like that, and believe you can find it on here. All I can say is, do what you think will make you happy!!!! | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 10:18:38 AM | I have to agree with Bronson4
They send a pic and I find that I/theyare not physically attracted to me/them (words are not enough, and I believe there must also be physical attraction). This makes things very awkward and I/they do not with to pursue this any further with me/she also feels down because her/my pic is disappointing. This is a no - win situation which could have been avoided by just having a pic on the profile in the first place.
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 10:36:09 AM | I do think you can find someone online, people do it all the time and some make it work and sometimes just like in many relationships it dies out. If you are seeking something there is a good chance you will find it. I am totally open to online love or whatever and I am defiantly not in it for meaningless sex, I would much prefer meaningful sex, with lots of spankings and naughty talk. But moving on.
You always have people badmouthing this or that, and claiming it's "the way it is" or whatever, who gives a rats ass? Not me that’s for sure.
You get to meet people online that you would never otherwise know existed and some of them are not more then 50 miles from you, that's pretty neat.
Now all I need to find my 'special lady' take her out to a nice night of McDonalds in my mercury villager and top off the evening with some irrelevant nerdtastic movie quotes that no girl ever gets because for some reason only my guy friends get them.
Yeah, that's right, she knows I mean business when I pull up in my mini van with the crack in the windshield. You better believe the mojo's working baby.
I'm like David Bowe in the Labyrinth, only my codpiece is smaller.
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Loukus
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WS6TA
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 1:24:10 PM | Loukus:
If I recall correctly: They were water farmers?
I don't recall ever seeing any crops?
So "Solo's" quote is sort of out of place isn't it? | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 1:33:51 PM | Scorpio , whats the difference with going to a bar hooking up with someone , datting etc... Me personaly i think the internet is the same u chat with ppls u dont know , talk on the phone , meet up , spend more time together etc... Y couldn't it work , its not finding love in all the wrong places... Am not saying everyone will find love on here but internet is a hell of alot easy now then going out and meeting ppls.. :) But i do agree with ya a lil what ever makes ya happy:) | |
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Loukus
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 1:37:05 PM | mm, perhaps part of his uncles business was to actually grow some sort of produce, with the moisure that was farmed...
Dunno.
Either way, Han was a little busy when he said that, he might not have thought it through. | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 2:29:59 PM | Of corse most want to see a pic on profile here. It seems we have a lot lof ladies too that dont post pics.. and of corse we have some pics posted that look like they were downloaded from playboy's site.
I think what pic people choose to post can make a diference too. I may be wrong, but I get the feeling the ladies want to see the guy's face mostly. | |
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WS6TA
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 2:56:52 PM |
Jammer: It seems we have a lot of ladies too that don't post pics..
Yea, what's up with that? Do they have something to hide? Or is it that they are ashamed of the way they look? I'm not afraid of the way I look even if I don't fit anyoe's fancy; I would never hide my idenity... Plus if the woman has no pic's I'll send no e-mails.
and of course we have some pics posted that look like they were downloaded from playboy's site.
What's the deal with that? That really confuses me? That must take some really sick individual to do something like that? | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 3:16:49 PM | | I don't understand that either. As much as I'd like to give someone an opportunity from a profile, It is hard to discern who to respond to, profiles can be complete bs. So in order to save myself hours of responding.....no pic, no response. | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 3:55:54 PM |
WS6TA: "That must take some really sick individual to do something like that?"
I take it your thinking of that POF member that was recently deleted after he admited he was a guy that had female model pics on his profile and was toying with the guys here.
I hear ya ther man!! I will never understand people like this, it's goes way beyond being sick. These people are either gay or almost gay. Why would anyone think doing such a thing could ever be funny? | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 3:57:31 PM | | I should note that Im not against gay people. I just feel gay folks should just say who they are and never lie about thier own sex. | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/27/2004 4:14:49 PM | Jammer:
Yes and no. Yes I was refering to them (Note: they have not removed their profile) But "No" that is not why I stated that. That has been my belief since the very begining. If one can't be truthful about who they are then they are a sick individual...
As for homosexuality: I think it will always exsist it's been around since the begining of time. I do not agree with it nor am I Homophobia. I have no fear of it! I just see it for what it is a sickness or a cancer. If it was to be that way then nature would not have bothered make seperate sexs. | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 10/28/2004 2:19:22 PM | | I don't have the stuff I need to post the picture at this time, I haven't had a problem I have several women friends on this site, but if you muct know I look alot like Jerry Garcia, only I'm alot bigger I don't have many teeth so I actually look like a giant hillbilly Jerry Garcia, with bird legs my nick name I like to wear shorts all the time I wear glasses that make me look.....ahhh o.k....o.k.....I'm ugly! o.k. there you gotta it outta me! Are you happy? I hope your happy. | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 11/8/2004 11:19:31 AM | that's hillarious ^^^lmao... Some people are just not comfortable posting a pic. The thing is if your not going to post a pick, your not going to get as many responses. You could make yourself sound like the best person in the world, but if there ain't no pic, you go the next one. It's just easier that way. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so just be brave and post a pic, no biggie. | |
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| i have a suggestion to likeaparasite Posted: 11/9/2004 5:44:24 AM | you don't need to have a photo on your profile to generate replies. i don't and get mail everyday.
my suggestion, liven up your ad - redo it. instead of saying all the usual crapola people always say about themselves, tell it the way it is, or did you? PUT YOUR PERSONALITY AND FLAIR INTO THE PROFILE LIKE YOU'RE UP FOR THE BIGGEST ROLE OF YOUR LIFE IN A MAJOR HOLLYWOOD BLOCKBUSTER AND JULIA ROBERTS WAS PASSED OVER FOR YOU!
am i getting through to you?
if you can't get into it go rent school of rock and let yourself out, then go rewrite your ad!
as for why guys or women, either one, do not display their pic it's usually down to personal choice isn't it? i met one person who if they had put their picture up many fellow actors etc would have recognized them. i have my reasons, too. personally, for me, i want to generate interest based on my personality reflected in my profile and posts, not my wonderfully funny and sweet good looks (that was me being sarcastic)
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| i have a suggestion to likeaparasite Posted: 11/9/2004 6:31:08 AM | | I do agree with you in some way, but people want to see the whole package, that is the way society works. Any relationship is based on chemistry. You can get to know the person first but hey why not just sell yourself completly. | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 11/10/2004 4:07:15 PM | I don't post my picture becuase of a botched facelift. I have to strain to produce a somewhat tolerable expression on my mug. My tongue permantly dangles, when I speak I need a chalk board to express my words and my feelings like this :( ......
So you understand why I prefer to play it safe and make sure that the person I meet in person will have depth and be attracted to me without eyes. I won't post my picture but I have it on file just in case I want to scare off all the shallow ones that would otherwise hurt me :( | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 11/12/2004 2:36:19 PM | Thats because maybe they are married and don't want to be caught. Or they are super famous and do not want you chasing them for their money. Or...they are so ugly that this website will not allow them to post their pic.
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 11/12/2004 2:38:32 PM | Well i am a female transvestite and im trying to attract chixx who like chixx in drag.
LOL...............LOL..............
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 11/13/2004 3:06:53 AM | May be we got some aliens or witches (if at all it's true that their images don't get captured in a photo) Anyway, don't know, i guess it's personal preference, may be he could have dissed you and you meet him up somewhere and slap him | |
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| Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 11/13/2004 3:22:36 AM | | Jackson, in your "any help" thread it was clearly stated that it's the situation with your pic and it appeares as though most people agreed on that, Change the pic and smile for the camera this time. | |
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