| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/3/2009 9:47:18 AM | ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ that's just wrong!! lol
I have been know to be a little bit of a screamer(esp when drinking ) | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/3/2009 10:04:58 AM | Definite turn on but there is a point of too much/too fake/too porn-like. When it comes naturally it shows she's into it, into me, etc. I've been known to make a bit myself.  | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/5/2009 4:23:16 AM | you know wots annoying if you get gagged when you are uno having an orgasm....I thought if you almost screamed you were actually letting your partner know you were really enjoying it...not faking it....but mate to get a gag.... | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/18/2009 9:46:18 AM | | mmm its a turn on. im really loud, i make mhim moan as loud as possible its kinkier and makes it more fun ;D | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/18/2009 10:36:09 AM | Wow....my ex barely wanted to hear me breathe....and I'm pretty vocal too. He actually said "all that isn't necessary...say something if I'm hurting you".... My last sexual partner not only got turned on by it...but was vocal as well. I much prefer someone that can handle it and doesn't mind joining in too. | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/18/2009 3:24:14 PM | I can get very vocal at times and do enjoy hearing from my partner. I find that vocalizing what I'm feeling heightens my orgasm and like wise from him. It's a real turn on when you know by his sounds that your hittin the right buttons, he tells ya faster or slower, and when he's just about to cum.....that way if I want to turn him on by letting it spray all over my face while licking my lips...I can pull him out just at that moment!! Yeah, a definite TURN ON!!!! | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/18/2009 4:17:25 PM | The short answer...it depends. Moaning and "cooing" are an absolute turn on, AND have the added benefit of letting me know EXACTLY where she is in the "arousal cycle", and what I'm doing right. Louder noises, to the point of screaming, can also be a turn on, as long as they're genuine. If she's pretending to be a porn star, it's a total turn off. Had a funny thing happen one time. My SO had a gf from out of town visiting; she was sleeping on the couch in the living room. I walked in and they were talking, and it became apparent that she had heard us "being intimate" the night before. I laughed and looked at my SO and said, "You shouldn't scream so loud." She shook her head and said, "Oh NO...she heard YOU!" Apparently there was a primal groan during orgasm that carried a bit further than I had appreciated.  | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/18/2009 6:31:51 PM | yes, why not who wants someone jus sitting there. I like the moan of a man whips, chains, spanking, choking, handcuffs and u fantasize the rest. have any more suggestions.  | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 9:41:48 AM | Moaning is a good thing. I like to know when I am doing a good job. Screaming at the top of your lungs? Well I guess that would depend on where you are. I would hate to be interupted by the S.W.A.T. team LOL I had a g/f once that was very quiet,but she did say "Thanks I needed that" Ok I guess, but I would prefer a few moans lol  | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 10:13:23 AM | HUGE TURN ON.......the more I hear him, the more he'll hear me!!! I just can't be quiet.......especially when its that good!!!  | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 11:14:54 AM | | screaming..NO, excited, passionate, coming out naturally and not forced..YES. I too am vocal with talking and noise making or whatever sounds I make( am not really listening to myself ususally, am listening to him) and am not sure of how I "loud" I get when I get to THAT point. | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 11:28:39 AM | | Definately a turn on! The more noise the better,that way I know my partner is enjoying. | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 3:23:16 PM | I haven't made that much noise during intercourse or oral sex, the guy I was with at the time, didn't turn me on that much.. He wanted me to make noise, so I faked it..
I haven't met anyone yet that I felt comfortable enough to let go.. I don't like guys expecting you to make noise.. If you aren't enjoying sex, then you are wasting your time with the partner.. | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 3:41:03 PM | | as long as it is natural....huge turn on.... | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 8:32:19 PM | Right after I broke up with my ex, I had a tiny efficiency apartment that was in the back of this lady's house. When she talked on her phone, I could hear every word if I'd wanted to. And I assume she could hear me too.
I had a couple of ladies visit me, and damn it, they just wouldn't be quiet! Even though I explained to them that the lady was a devout Jehovah's Witness.
At least she didn't evict me. She even met one of the ladies and didn't say anythinb about it. | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 9:01:47 PM |
So do you find it annoying or a turn on?
It depends on the particular woman. Some women moan nicely, and some are screechers. I kiss screechers to quiet them during sex. | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 9:28:43 PM | I'm usually farely vocal during sex...but when I'm just about to cum, I'm quiet. I don't know what the deal is. I hate it cuz it feels sooooo good during sex and I can't help but express it, but when I get close to cumming I shut down. Being quiet during that little stretch of time just makes the orgasm that much more intense when it comes! And then because I quiet down, the guy thinks he's doing something wrong, when, in fact, it's going OH SO RIGHT! So, I try to say, "Don't stop." or "I love that" just before I get quiet so the guy knows he's doing everything right. Softer, quieter whimpers or moans slip out of my mouth until I scream with climax. I love to hear him express how good he is feeling too. And talking dirty is a REAL turn on for me! | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 10:45:22 PM | | The noisier the better. It gives your partner stuff to feed off of as well as making the sex rockin' | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/19/2009 11:55:30 PM | OP-
I also get very turned on when my partner makes noise. I have never been with a guy that is especially loud but I love moaning and talking. Lets me know I'm doing something right!
I totally agree i love it when the guy makes nosie whether it be moaning or talking but anything is better then nothing...i was with a bloke once that made no noise... it was the worse sex ever!..he was fantasic lover but sex with out noise just doesn't do it for me...
I think the reason why it's such a turn on is because i not only know i'm doing something right... but because i enjoy sex more knowing that my man is getting off and enjoying it as much as i am... | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/20/2009 1:28:56 AM | Being loud is a definite turn on for me. But don't stop there! Don't scratch, claw me all up. You got teeth? Feel free to bite all you like.
I'm quite vocal myself. I tend to get really quiet at that point of no return, choke, and roar aloud at climax. It always freaks em out. But then they really get concerned when the convulsions kick in during the after-shocks. No I'm not epileptic, but it sure looks that way.
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/20/2009 7:33:56 AM | | My experiance is that if you moan and talk to your lover,they will make sure to concentrate on what they are doing and appreciate the input.Do not teach,you can do that later,this is about 'cheer-leading'.Sometimes it is soft talk and sensual and others ,let 's get graphically dirty. | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/21/2009 11:17:50 AM | I do whatever comes natural...I tend to moan, whisper "sweet or naughty nothings" in my partner's ear, I tend to be an ass grabber as well...it DEFINITELY adds flavor/spice to the situation!
I once dated a guy who was from Amsterdam...it was a major turnon when he spoke Dutch when we had sex...of course, I had NO clue what he was saying. Once during a mutually intense moment of lovemaking, he was speaking his native language when all of a sudden he exclaimed "p*ssy" mid-sentence! It startled me and excited me at the same time...I think it startled him too! Needless to say, I knew he was satisfied!
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/21/2009 12:00:04 PM | Turn on when it's genuine, turn off if it sounds fake. Screaming before I've entered her, is definitely faking  | |
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| Noise during sex? Posted: 6/21/2009 6:01:02 PM | It’s a turn on!!
If she isn’t making noise I feel as if I am useless, good way to teach your man, the more you moan the better is , if I guy listens to all the right sounds then he will know how to please you!! I am not a screamer, but if it feels good I am defiantly letting my partner know how damn good it feels! | |
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