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 Irish Eyez

Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 226
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 6:09:54 PM
I don't miss it simply because I never used it.

I did turn it off as I was literally being bombarded by chat requests and having so many 'windows' open was a nuisance, so it was of no use to me.
 jph6

Joined: 4/17/2009
Msg: 227
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BRING BACK IM
Posted: 4/17/2009 6:21:31 PM
seriously though, its so hard to communicate now. Big Fish i have no idea why you would say the sight is a lot more effective now. with the IM i could easy get a convo going, now i send a message and hope the people i send it to dont sign off or are to just to lazy to right up and email. THIS IS SO LAME!
 ace4669

Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 228
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/17/2009 6:33:54 PM
im glad im not the only one haveing this prob its boots me every time i try hope they git it fixed soon
 crazymomnmilw

Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 229
Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/17/2009 7:00:27 PM
Think he needs to change the PUT YOUR CREDIT CARD AWAY in the top of the main page and under the LOGO of TOTALLY 100% FREE DATING WEBSITE because its all he's asking for now a days!

Don't understand why people just can't be happy with what they have and KNOW how many people they are bringing together FREE to us. I host so many events and pay A LOT out of my own pocket for decortations and little things for people to take home as a token of THANKS for coming to the event and there is no better reward for me than to see the smiles on these peoples faces who attend the events I host and how APPRECIATIVE they are of all the hard work put into hosting.

Can't Marcus just take the MILLIONS he is making and APPRECIATE the fact WE APPRECIATE his kindness in giving us a site we can come to and ENJOY a conversation INSTANTLY without having to wait for someone to email us back? Guess not.. too much to ask for huh?

Just wait.. I'm sure sooner or later he is going to make it so we can not even VIEW EMAILS without paying! Not to mention not even send out a mass email NOTIFYING US OF THE CHANGE But that's okay, I'll be long gone before that happens!
 100scorpion

Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 230
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 7:07:51 PM
what do you care anyway
what goes around
sometime down the way--ull wish you had turn the IM back on

BUT
itll be to late
 blondandsingle1

Joined: 4/17/2009
Msg: 231
Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/17/2009 7:17:32 PM
My im is saying online but not im user?? What is going on is it because I got a differant cable company. Never had this problem before??
 100scorpion

Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 232
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 7:21:06 PM
IM going to leave the IM off
its your site--so i guess ur entitled to BUT
why dont you care about all the people that put you in the place that you can say
IM GOING TO LEAVE THE IM OFF

you probably wont be sorry because people like you dont have a concience
 christian0317

Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 233
IM works
Posted: 4/17/2009 7:36:35 PM
didnt he say that it was discontinued?

and tonight it looks like people that have the special gold ball are able to IM, or at least i can IM them???

so actually its just become something that you have to pay for...

im not sure if thats actaully what markus said was the case was it??
 DeeDee2003

Joined: 7/29/2007
Msg: 234
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 7:36:39 PM
My ims haven't been working for several days. Don't know if it's a glitch or if POF has shut them down. It would be nice if we were advised on the situation.
 Notafisheater

Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 235
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/17/2009 7:55:39 PM
PofF users are all experiencing this - for 2 days now. Apparently their techies are on a long break and there is no way to contact them. Frankly, one would think someone there would have noticed - pretty sloppy of them. Guess we get what we pay for...LOL.
 Irish Eyez

Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 236
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/17/2009 8:06:22 PM
^ ^

Oh,for pete's sake! READ the thread!

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts12169123.aspx

read message; 12 and 17

Those messages are from the admin.

There is NO glitch.
 Heatherstone

Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 237
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 8:51:41 PM
Most of (if not all) the other dating sites have their own IM system. It provides a safety net to IM prior to sharing personal IM addresses. IMO this loss has greatly reduced the "fun" of POF. Consider the publicity this is giving POF. Will many people become paid members now that this service has been discontinued?
Many of us would appreciate it if Admin would find an alternative way to bring back the IM.
Come on....... you know you can do !

Thanks!
 coach60

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 238
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 8:54:08 PM
must be another option , email is the new snail mail
 AdvanceMan

Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 239
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 9:29:08 PM
At least HTML code still works in profiles.
 ifurgoodenuf

Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 240
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looking for new IM
Posted: 4/17/2009 9:34:32 PM
msg #45.....there are quite a few FREE dating sites that have the IM service..i no as im on a couple of them...is juz a matter of looking around...i liked the IM as i personally used it as a safetly tool 2 get 2 no some1 b4 giving out any personal stuff like msn or yahoo addies (even tho at times it was a little annoying)
 AngBird

Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 241
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 9:47:32 PM

I'd have to find a new one, but since the site is so much more effective without an IM I doubt i'll bring it back.


Can you at least find out if the users would like the IM feature? I mean, generally on social sites like this we are notified for one when this happens before it gets to a thread like this, and two, we have some sort of vote, or something on it to show whether or not it really is used to it's capacity.

has an IM feature that's pretty good, where it just sits in the bottom corner of the screen and you can make it a pop up if you would like. Maybe you could do some research to find out where they got theirs.

The experience is not quite the same without the IM feature.
 jph6

Joined: 4/17/2009
Msg: 242
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bring im back!
Posted: 4/17/2009 9:54:43 PM
it takes so LONG to talk to people now :( why do you have to make thing so inconvenient for us markus!
 jonnywa

Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 243
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IM Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 4/17/2009 10:26:04 PM
The Idea that this site is more effective with less features is such a lazy cop out. While other services are expanding their features this site seems to be going backwards. I guess you get what you pay for.
 imdevo61

Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 244
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IM turns me on.
Posted: 4/17/2009 11:22:56 PM
Sounds to me like some hankie pankie on the deal making... Did somebodies feelings get hurt...

Did we take our ball and go home and act like we were doing everybody a favor?

What everrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr DUDE
Just because we do things that make us look big does not take away the how fragile we all are...

Regards, G.
 delightfullyme

Joined: 2/20/2009
Msg: 245
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 11:24:46 PM
Well, if you didn't know this then, you know it now. has an IM system that works just fine. Faster and much more efficient that POF's was. I preferred the IM system, and apparently, so did many others. I liked being here. It was my first free dating site. Paid memberships... no more IM's, whats next? Never mind... I don't want to give him any more bad ideas...
 delightfullyme

Joined: 2/20/2009
Msg: 246
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/17/2009 11:27:07 PM
how nice... autoediting my post... convenient... -O-k-c-u-p-i-d- has IMs. There, I said it.
 The Saint 77

Joined: 6/22/2008
Msg: 247
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/18/2009 12:14:23 AM
This site generates how many million a year for you?

and you want to only give IM access to paying members? Total bulls hit.
 Heatherstone

Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 248
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/18/2009 12:43:18 AM
I agree that there should have been some notice ... or did I miss it? Many of us thought there was a problem with the system and were waiting for it to be fixed. If you are going to remove a service, please noticy the members so that they know what to expect. Thanks.
 Laurawrld

Joined: 11/22/2008
Msg: 249
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/18/2009 12:59:26 AM
I have to say that everyone I have ended up talking to and had enjoyable conversations always started with the IM's not the email. I'm uncomfortable giving out my yahoo name to just anyone. I think it's a shame if it isn't reinstated.
 Aleksonfire

Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 250
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/18/2009 1:59:17 AM
OK, first off, there are many numerous reasons that traffic could go up. To say that its because im was disabled is ludicrous. Give us a little explanation on why you think the rise in traffic is directly correlated to the lack of im. Post hoc, ergo propter hoc bud. Thats about as farfetched as saying, oh i stopped giving away free ice cream and shark attacks went up, so it must be because i stopped the ice cream. Perhaps you never went to business school, but the simple fact of the matter is that a service taken that is considered an "extra" will not and does not lead to more sales(in this case traffic) This increase in traffic is not real, its from the simple fact that the same users are now having to switch from profile to write message to profile to inbox to profile to message more than the ease of it. Should im be brought back? Yes. Should it be better formatted and more user friendly? Yes. Should it be payed for? No, but ultimately thats your decision. Should a site that virtually has nothing better than the next site ultimately have real growth and generation of traffic? Not at all. The reason i stayed with pof is because it is better than the alternative thanks to im, and a couple other things, but im is a time saver. I work a lot so i don't often have time to respond to messages in a timely manner.

But ultimately its your decision, but remember that plenty of people enjoy the im and to those other people who keep saying its annoying turn it off, You dont want ims fine, turn it off, but dont ruin it for the rest of us who enjoy and wish to use it. There is no point in telling us its annoying when you have the power for it not to be. Perhaps if im is reinstated you could put more specific settings on the im thing, for example, can't im member without a replying email from that user. Maybe then they will stop complaining.



Of course you could always appease me by letting us post other things besides imeem. I mean come on. imeem? Wtf ever heard of that place before joining pof? your getting screwed on that. If profs were more customizable i believe everyone would be happy im or not.

Aleks.
Don't touch me there Mr.:modhammer:
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