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 justajem

Joined: 5/13/2008
Msg: 376
Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:10:56 AM
Are you serious??? would I give my msn to someone I don't really know yet?? I use IM to get to know people... and if they prove to me over time that they are normal guys worth talking to... only THEN will I give them my MSN..... this was a great stop-gate!!
 Eddie2704

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 377
Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:32:09 AM

I should say something is Rotten in Denmark!! As a person that is new to BC and still has a # of friends in Ont., this makes it sooo difficult to see a friend on line and you can't talk to them!! What was the reasoning behind this bright idea!! The whole reason for the site to me is to keep in communication with those you care for and to hopefully meet others.... dah.... now, how are we supposed to converse and see if the person is a prince or a frog. Sounds to me like this is going to become a "pay for use" site.... this is just the prelude!!


Just a few thoughts here. Not necessarily in any order.

This site belongs to Markus. He could shyt can it right this minute if he wanted to and not say anything to anyone. No skin off anyone else nose.

So what if it does become a paid site. Whoop de do! There are so many other free sites out there that would love the extra traffic it would bring.

So far sense i have been here (2 years) I have used the IM feature very few times. Most of the time if i have something to say to some of my friends i write them a message and send it. So far not one of my friends ever failed to get one of my messages and answer it. Can't say the same thing for the IM.

I have never had a problem figuring out whether i had a princess or a witch. I didn't need the IM to do it.

So far i have met many women here and had many dates. Never IM'ed the first one.

I cant tell you how many profiles i have read of women who don't want men IM'ing them before writing them a message. Hundreds or more.

I think people just like having something to cry about. If Markus sold this site today and it became a paid site tomorrow it is no skin off of no ones butt.

So far i know of at least 25 other free sites on the net. Half of the people here are already on them. I know because i have looked. If this site went paid tomorrow over half of the people here would already be on another free site.

What's everybody crying about? If you don't like what you see here go somewhere else. You prob' already are.

 teggs

Joined: 2/3/2004
Msg: 378
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Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 4/23/2009 4:07:01 AM
IM was OK and will be a loss to the site IMO.
What's wrong with disinterested users disabling it in mail prefs or having it set so- as default?
Surely, Adobe Flash has other ways of being used on the site unless it will need payment by POF ?
Even then- with a payment option it would be self funding!
 pennynickeldime

Joined: 10/14/2008
Msg: 379
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Posted: 4/23/2009 6:15:16 AM
It is pretty funny. The focus is on free and the home page even mentions instant messenger. In my other post, I stated that even the help section still has FAQs about IM. If Markus is all about how he's the only one maintaining the site, I suggest he get some help. If he's going to take away IM, he should have done it truthfully and properly. Send a message to all members of the change BEFORE shutting IM off. Remove all mentions of "free instant messenger service". It's misleading and an outright lie. I volunteer to help work the site if it's too much for him to fix inaccuracies.
 nunyabizpgh

Joined: 9/7/2008
Msg: 380
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Posted: 4/23/2009 6:19:50 AM
Well, As I rarely visit the forums I just came across this myself.
After reading all the information I have to say it is not as easy to just turn the IM's back on as the vendor (Not POF) discontinued this.
I like many others here enjoyed the IM feature but like myself creating an new platform for chat and setting capabilities is not always as easy as it sounds.
This site is FREE and we have to be thankfull that it even exists as alot of "volunteer" time goes into keeping this site functional. I have had a few very nice conversations with people on IM and still continue to talk with them through other venues. It was a great tool to be able to screen and get to know people further without having to give out other information until you felt comfortable. Myself I would love to see this feature incorporated again, but if it doesn't return I still want to thank everyone involved with making this site available for all the time to keep it going!!!!
 jonnywa

Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 381
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Posted: 4/23/2009 6:46:51 AM
Admin should get to work finding a way of replacing the IM feature, Otherwise people will leave this site for other sites, I already used mingle2 allot more now, because at least it's pleasantly laid out, the IM feature is one of the few features that made this site bearable.
 Girl_1980

Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 382
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Posted: 4/23/2009 7:29:33 AM
IM was a big part of what I enjoyed about this site. It made contact with other members a lot easier and quicker. Having it removed is very disappointing. It has reduced the quality of my experience. Clearly I'm not alone and I believe this will have a negative impact on the number of users.
 He4thenChemistry

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 383
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Posted: 4/23/2009 9:44:54 AM
I thought there was somekind of glitch with the pof servers, if this correct and the im setting has gone (or been temporarily removed)this just sucks big style like a thai lady boy!
 Eddie2704

Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 384
Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 4/23/2009 10:16:27 AM
JUST WHERE PEOPLE WILL KNOW. WHEN YOU SIGN UP FOR MINGLE2 YOU ARE REDIRECTED TO SMILEY MEDIA. A KNOWN PHISHING' FRAUD AND SCAM SITE. GET WEB OF TRUST BEFORE YOU GET TAKEN.
 entitled2you

Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 385
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I need my IM's
Posted: 4/23/2009 10:55:29 AM
I have been talking to people over in Iraq and they love hearing from me on here since they cannot alway access yahoo or Aim. The im's help keep people sane. Please find a new IM program for us.
 chris0684

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 386
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I need my IM's
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:19:14 PM
Whay have the IM's been discontinued?? I still see the link to IM people under their picture. I liked being able to video chat people and its alot easier to chat with someone through an IM then having to wait for their email back to me.
 waalaa

Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 387
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I need my IM's
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:20:38 PM
Yeah !
I miss the IM (Kiss & Smack) buttons !!!
the IM feature is sadly missed !!!
 Uwearthepants

Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 388
I need my IM's
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:58:20 PM
I used to think this site sucked....now i know.
 Joee113

Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 389
nonsence
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:03:20 PM
Why would I want to give out me msn to a total stranger.?It should be brought back and just made so you have to ask the person, which you should any way, if you can IM them first. A lot of wemon will IM with you to get to know you first, but don't want to give out there msn right away, which is totally understandable,how would. Emailing back and forth can take much too long, days/weeks, I know this from experience. People just don't have the time or patience for that nonsence.
 teggs

Joined: 2/3/2004
Msg: 390
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I need my IM's
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:05:07 PM
It would be good to see the our site owner put the position more clearly on IM ceasing.
All in all -it does seem a strange decision to make of a successful function on a good site- with millions of users- the ad revenue must surely be worth the hassle of setting up an in house replacement to IM.
In the last resort if it is a licence issue due to paying guests then so be it- at least people have the choice to buy in.
Finger trouble with being leapt on till you disable IM - Well, indeedy- That's hardly heavy work, girls!
In the final analysis -it's the punters who made this site work for the enterprising owner !
 Joee113

Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 391
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:28:41 PM
why would some one want to give out there phone #?
 jewlgal

Joined: 3/28/2009
Msg: 392
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:31:59 PM
I've been trying to get and send IM's and haven't had any success. Any suggestions?
 Irish Eyez

Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 393
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:36:10 PM
^^ read the following link;

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts12169123.aspx

Thread: Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor

( Doesn't ANYONE know how to read?? )
 Mizz Demeanor

Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 394
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Posted: 4/23/2009 2:40:59 PM
^^^apparently not


I've been trying to get and send IM's and haven't had any success. Any suggestions?

Aim | Yahoo | Skype | GoogleTalk.....etc. All of those are better than the haphazard system
that was in place here.
Or....send a message ....they're free.

~mizz
 Joee113

Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 395
Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 4/23/2009 3:09:28 PM
no there not. why would some one want to give out info to some one they haven't met?
 babyit

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 396
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/23/2009 3:15:59 PM
i am a premium and my im does not work either witchs sucks i would like to have it back so i can chat with my friends they....
 todd895

Joined: 9/3/2008
Msg: 397
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/23/2009 4:18:28 PM
there seems to be alot of support for the IM feature. i hope admin can find it in their hearts to locate a new one for us. pretty please, with sugar on top, bring it back for us?
 ImustBeInvisible

Joined: 4/14/2009
Msg: 398
Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/23/2009 4:31:13 PM
Good luck with trying to get the IM brought back. I don't know if anyone else has noticed the arrogance with which the site owner and one of the mods has handled this situation. They seem to know it all and act like kings talking down to us regular folk like we're a bunch of idiots who don't know any better.
 west09

Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 399
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/23/2009 6:24:39 PM
I wasn't a huge user of the IM and I'm not quite sure what you consider to be more "effective", but I have a strong feeling that a lot of your members will be going the way of the dodo without it. It was a huge "plus" for the site and it was an enormous communication tool used my many every day.
 RestlessNights

Joined: 4/11/2007
Msg: 400
Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/23/2009 6:57:13 PM
Ok,, Heres whats going om with the IM,,, It is not turned off, They just want you to purchase the Gold Star Serious users plan. Have you noticed some users who have purchased that plan, it says IM user under their profile pic.. Whats going on is that they are trying to ease us into a Pay IM chat here on POF via Serious Members plan. I think that those with the Gold Star plan can initiate first contact with non Gold Star plan members, but dont quote me on that, All I know is that is the end of out free IM chat on POF which is supposed to be a fee dating &chat sight...Go Figure????..
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