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 marshfieldmale

Joined: 1/19/2007
Msg: 601
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Posted: 6/18/2009 7:13:16 AM
I don't miss it at all....never really used it when it was here, and am not one that will beg for it's return. LOL
 RubyT

Joined: 3/14/2005
Msg: 602
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 6/19/2009 5:18:25 PM
That sucks. It has always been such a good way to communicate with people. Email can get very time consuming.
 funguys31

Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 603
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Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 6/19/2009 9:58:49 PM
this suck im was one of the best things the site could have it takes way to long now to chat with someone and alot of ppl do not want to give another person there email at first myrearbook got it and facebook has it mebo has it my space has it tagged is getting itwhy can't plentyoffish get it back. it sucks now. hope they bringit back soon tell everyon you no to send a message to them and complain and see how flooded they get with messages and bring it back.
 bmike1

Joined: 6/22/2005
Msg: 604
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Posted: 6/24/2009 7:30:10 PM
I am big into open source applications. As such I posted a question searching for a way to bring instant messaging back. Here is a response I received:

On Wed 24 June 2009 153 pm mike havens wrote:
> Is there an open source way to get instant messaging onto a webpage?
CGI:IRC+bitlbee

cgiirc.org bitlbee.org

here is an idea---present it to Captain Hook and perhaps he will like it.
 bmike1

Joined: 6/22/2005
Msg: 605
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Posted: 6/25/2009 3:53:05 PM
Here are some more ideas:

http://freshmeat.net/projects/shoutchat

http://freshmeat.net/projects/dim-instantmessenger

Captain Ahab may approve of these!
 bmike1

Joined: 6/22/2005
Msg: 606
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Posted: 6/25/2009 4:51:56 PM
and more:


http://www.hotscripts.com/listing/e-post-on-site-messaging-system/
 bennyblanco!

Joined: 6/12/2009
Msg: 607
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Posted: 7/4/2009 4:32:46 AM
Did IM make things easier....

The old email seems so haphazard...
 mike_18_2

Joined: 7/6/2009
Msg: 608
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 7/7/2009 7:36:32 AM
hi how can ues messenger
 trappedonbayst

Joined: 1/3/2005
Msg: 609
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 7/7/2009 7:34:55 PM

hi how can ues messenger


Read the title of this thread for your answer.

 Meowkatt1

Joined: 5/13/2008
Msg: 610
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 7/12/2009 1:23:31 PM
I really liked the IM. Why can you not get another IM service? It was nice to meet people who are far from me just to talk to.
 candy3x

Joined: 1/9/2009
Msg: 611
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Posted: 7/12/2009 11:41:02 PM
I would like to see you bring back the IM feature, however you may. It's very useful and keeps interest up-keeps us onsite, while we choose members to chat with, and keeps us from straying to other sites that have IM. I prefer this site to all the others I've been to, and I've tested out many. I would hate to have to go to some other site, just to IM with someone I see on this site, especially if I have to set up another account with some other site, just to do it! I'm just sayin'.

Respectfully, appreciatively, and loyally yours.
 Fishlady5

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 612
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 7/17/2009 12:29:05 PM
The traffic on here increased when a class action suit was filed against Match.com claiming they were misleading new people into joining by saying that they had many users when in fact, they were ;eaving up profiles of predominantly men to bring in more women even though they were not on any longer.

Those unhappy people moved here. This all happened at the same time as the IM chat was removed. That's all it was. Not because IM was removed..not hard to figure out if you read the news more. SPREAD THE WORD SO THE CEO LISTENS.

You could turn it off if it annpyed you, but the help is poor here and reading through 50 pages or more of forum posts to figure out what is wrong is too time consuming.
 Fishlady5

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 613
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Posted: 7/17/2009 12:57:59 PM

Hmmm

Well, I feel like an addict who has cut off.. I hadnt realized how much I had invsted and how dependent I had become to the IM in this site to initiating contact.

I have been actually suffering withdrawl... I now log on to this site out of habit, but the rush is gone... I have not been able to start a single correspondence since IM was removed, despite my futile attempts at email initiations..

Well, the pof withdrawl has passed, and I tried an alternative... I actually went out to a singles bar... and summoned up some resolve and talked with more women in one night than in the past month on this site.. (of course, that wasn't many.. and it certianly wasnt free... the bar tab could have provided a few months on a Pay Site )
Funny, because I turned to on line dating a couple of years ago as an alternative to the mounting frustrations with the bar scene.


I do much better out than in here, also, because of my age, I suppose. I looke better in person than in pictures.

The tagline for my profile on POF was a simple question..
"Is this (PoF) really better than the Bars"
well, without IM, the answer , sadly, is not any more!!
 Andy0222

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 614
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Posted: 7/17/2009 9:29:18 PM
Hey everybody, over at ok cupid, they have an im system. just a heads up.
 halofork

Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 615
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Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By The 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 8/3/2009 2:58:20 PM
Last trace of "IM":

There is a line, "Last 10 people to check their mail, in your state. IM User= Instant Message a user online right now.", on the top of photos after I've clicked the link, "My Matches".

Maybe Admin would like to remove that since IM has been discontinued.
 halofork

Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 616
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Posted: 8/9/2009 8:10:22 AM
Noticed another area that mentions the now-defunct Instant Messenger: Profile > Edit

If a profile is hidden, the message will say "Hiding your profile disables many things such as the Instant Messenger. "
 IlaDarling

Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 617
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Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By The 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 8/25/2009 5:12:05 PM
Why hasn't anyone been notified of this. I just joined the serious member, and find out since then that i can't instant message. I want my money back and will delete my profile and everything from this group............
 212sunny

Joined: 12/31/2008
Msg: 618
Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By The 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 8/25/2009 10:28:11 PM
wow I just realized IM was gone lol sorry im a little slow
 l00kin4lurve

Joined: 5/5/2009
Msg: 619
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Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By The 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 8/26/2009 7:42:10 AM
Was the only thing differentiated POF from ALL the other rubbish dating sites out there !!!!
 l00kin4lurve

Joined: 5/5/2009
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 8/26/2009 7:45:13 AM
IM was the only thing that differentiated POF from all the other rubbish dating sites. Find a replacement soon !!!!
 unknown001

Joined: 5/28/2009
Msg: 621
IM please bring it back!!!!!!
Posted: 8/31/2009 8:28:23 PM
Please bring IM back...I so miss it. What a great way to get to know people! please, please please...
 unknown001

Joined: 5/28/2009
Msg: 622
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Posted: 8/31/2009 8:53:09 PM
Singlesnet.com and mate1 both have IM systems. Just fyi. Of course there is some charge....ugh...
 marshfieldmale

Joined: 1/19/2007
Msg: 623
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Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By The 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 8/31/2009 9:06:59 PM
What I don't understand is why the powers that be at POF have not removed all evidence of the instant messenger...I get emails from women asking me if I want to chat and then I answer them and I don't hear from them again...I think they expected a real time conversation, not an exchange of emails.
 lateā„¢

Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 624
Instant Messenger Has Been Discontinued By The 3rd party Vendor
Posted: 9/1/2009 2:57:10 AM

spamspamspam.com and spam both have IM systems. Just fyi. Of course there is some charge....ugh...

You should always read the OP first, ...especiallY:


Spamming of any other sites will not be tolerated.

Unfounded trolling will not be tolerated, consequently voice your opinion, for or against in an intelligent manner.
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts12169123.aspx



What I don't understand is why the powers that be at POF have not removed all evidence of the instant messenger..



The mods don't have access to the entire site just the forums, as such, they can't edit text on any reference other than forum posts.

Corrections to the rest of the site are up to Admin and whoever else is programming. YMMV.
 marshfieldmale

Joined: 1/19/2007
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Posted: 9/1/2009 7:27:59 AM

Corrections to the rest of the site are up to Admin and whoever else is programming.


Thus my question about the powers that be.
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