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 BradDemon

Joined: 10/12/2008
Msg: 126
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PAClassyLady tells everyone how to think!
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:11:37 PM

Looks like Markus isn't losing any Einsteins. So why don't you just go away instead of making yourselves look like fools with your rants and tantrums?


Why do you care? You seem to be ranting and raving to everyone else with an opinion that doesn't match yours? Why is this? Maybe because NOBODY was interested in IM'ing you? You seem like a conservative, whiney, force my opinion down your throat dictator anyway!

The way polls work is that for everyone who takes their precious time to state an opinion, there are probably another 20 dissatisfied customers who'll never bother to 'rant' as you put it.

You say we don't matter? Maybe you're right. But what do you think would happen if we all just went away? How many advertisers would be rushing to buy ad space where traffic doesn't exist?

Hey, if Marcus believes that he's losing money because of IM, then maybe he could sell ad space directly on the IM program itself? I'm sure there are 100 different ways to skim some cash out of this site. And remember, it's always more difficult to take something away that used to be free than to never have offered it before. It's one great thing that made this site awesome and it's a shame to see it go away, in MY opinion.

Personally, I'd LOVE to see a poll taken (where you can only vote once) on whether you'd like to see the IM reinstated.

For now PAClassyLady, you seem to be in the minority. But thank you SO much for calling *everybody else* CHILDREN & FOOLS. Soooo Classy!
 brian1762

Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 127
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IM
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:20:27 PM
please bring this back we all ant it...............
 braveone72

Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 128
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My Thoughts
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:21:16 PM

Ok...so...let me get this straight. First off...it was disabled because Markus said it was being "discontinued", which has been proven false if you just walk your little mouse over to www.userplane.com and check it out


Clearly you can't read he said he was told it would be discontined around june 15. Is english you 2nd language?


Clearly you can't read the other posts I based my proof off of, since A) another poster who uses UserPlane on their website was concerned and contacted the company to make sure they weren't losing their service, and B)I also wrote an email to userplane asking why they were discontinuing. It's an ad-space thing people. if Markus removes those retarded 3rd grade Track & Field participation buttons from people's profiles, and allows AOL and userplane to have their ad-space back, instead of change mongering his users, his bottom line may suffer slightly, but in the end, he would still be making money. If you must have the little "Gold Star" by your name, for achievement, then maybe it could go elsewhere, like in the bottom corner of your picture next to the POF caption that gets placed on each photo.

As far as the woman who is making comments about "FREEDOM IM'S, FREEDOM TOAST, FREEDOM FRIES, etc..." I am a member of the Armed Forces, and honestly I find that post somewhat insulting. Now all of a sudden you take this from an issue of this site becoming less appealing because of false advertising, and turn it into something about Patriotism? Who the **** are you to speak of things like that? If you are from America, have you served your country? Because if not, you have no right to speak about Patriotism like that...Oh wait, yeah, you do, because I fight for your right to have those freedoms. Please use discretion and don't insult myself or my brothers & sisters in arms anymore. Thanks. OH...yea....and...YOU'RE WELCOME.
 JohnnyHandsome24

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 129
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:30:41 PM
How do you know that??
 braveone72

Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 130
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:32:38 PM

How do you know that??


Know what exactly?
 100scorpion

Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 131
Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:35:10 PM
why dont POF tell us why the IM dont work--they just discontinue it and never say why
 braveone72

Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 132
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:40:05 PM

why dont POF tell us why the IM dont work--they just discontinue it and never say why


If you read the posts on the pages prior to this, you will see that the Admin, Markus, is trying to tell everyone that the issue is with the company who owns the IM program. However, we that have done a little research, or in Utah's case have intimate knowledge with the program, know that this isn't the case. Take that as you will.
 1Lilly of the Valley

Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 133
PAClassyLady tells everyone how to think!
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:57:07 PM
Did not know that expressing my opinion about IM not avaiable any more was ranting and crying. I just think it was a safety issue for me! Gosh get a life PAClassyLady! Last time I checked the forum is for expression and opinions, And we are just letting Marus know how we think about this change!
 Rock1990

Joined: 10/24/2008
Msg: 134
PAClassyLady tells everyone how to think!
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:09:37 PM
so would this IM thing ever come back, what do you guys think? I mean i hope it does.
 PhatHawk

Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 135
PAClassyLady tells everyone how to think!
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:12:06 PM
Well I was wondering what was going on. Popped in here to find out. Oh well this site is so huge I'm sure the IM feature was a huge drain on the servers. It would have been nice to get an email or something to explain. After all...it is all of us that provide this site with the advertising ability...that creates revenue for Admin. Oh well...until I've run a site like this I'm clueless why we were all treated like mushrooms. Just would have been nice to get an email or something!!
 an_openmind35

Joined: 10/15/2007
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the all mighty IM ,serious member ,and FREE
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:27:54 PM
as an owner of 3 internet sites i can tell you removing the IM feture would drastically reduce the amount of traffic my sites see on a daily basis
i am also using userplane for the IM feture and have since had no notice of discontinuation
ive questioned aol regarding this and have not recieved an answer however i would think if they did plan to discontinue userplane i would have had some sort of warning by now

the revenue i earn from my 3 very small websites is more then enough to take care of all the fetures my sites have and then some

my only comment on this issue would be a site of this size with this many members and the vast amount of advertising you see on it SHOULD be free as the revenue brought in from this site alone would sufficiently pay a few wages

if it isnt someones doing something wrong here and maybe i should apply for a job
 PAClassyLady

Joined: 5/31/2008
Msg: 137
These stupid rants won't help.
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:33:48 PM
I love it! Personally, I don't give a rat's rosy red rump what a FREE site does. I'm just getting the biggest laugh about the way people are letting their post history show how nasty, petty, selfish and ungrateful they are. Sure, forums are the place for your opinions, but they are public. Everyone can see your terrible behavior. And the fact that so many people didn't even bother to read the subject line when it was pointed out numerous times shows how much people really pay attention to previous posts. They see what they want. I stand by my criticisms. Little credence to dim bulbs.

Oh Brad, you demon, I think it's very sweet of you to devote your whole useless post to li'l ole MOI! Methinks a schoolyard crush is dawning... But au contraire, I was IMed endlessly. This was after putting in the first paragraph of my profile, bold letters, "Email me before you IM me." It didn't help so I turned it off.
Whoever said this was a poll? Petition, whatever, Markus said he is NOT bringing back IMs (post 90, if you care to read) so this is all moot anyway. Minority or not, this is not a Democracy. I'm not telling anyone how to think, I'm asking people to READ what's posted and act like adults. Many people offered a differing opinion in a polite manner and I never brought them up. It's the people who are rude and nasty that I take to task. There is no call for behavior like that. If a gracious host offers you a hamburger, you do not demand steak and call him names and say "I'm gonna go somewhere else that gives me free steak!"

And before you call me bitter, no prospects, whatever, let me say this: Thank you Markus! I met the man I am going to marry right here on your site. He took the time to email me until I was comfortable enough to give him my YIM and now it's all "happily ever after" from here. *swoon* If you would have taken the time to look at my profile, Brad, you would have seen "not single/not looking" and my declaration of love. You also would have seen that I have a few friends on here: fave lists aren't all strangers trying to impress you.

No wonder your ex's marry the next guy. After seeing your behavior in here I think I can safely say they are attracted to the first guy they see who isn't misogynistic.

lilly: I never accused you of whining, merely not reading what your subject line is. If you want the IMs to remain, your subject line shouldn't read "IM turns me off." (post 105) Pay attention, sweetie. Otherwise you were very nice in asking. Maybe if everyone would have been that nice Markus would have considered it. But again, moot.

Get a life? I got one, and it's very good. I don't count on freebies to keep my social life alive.

 pebblypoo

Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 138
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:44:38 PM
I can im only to people who chose me as a fave. I cant im anyone from whom I chose as a fave why???
 RosiaG

Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 139
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:57:09 PM
".....my guess this is phase one of pof becoming a pay site and slowly forcing us all to pay contrary to horn blowing of being a free site run by one guy all these years... guess his advertising fees are down with the economy... just wish they'd be str8 up to us...."

^^^^^^^^ I agree with above statement, plus many members forecasted this would happen right after the SERIOUS MEMBER badge was created.


I also can agree that since we do not pay a penny , we do not have a right to complain.

I don't complain, but just want to state IM is a nice feature and I made many good and long lasting friends thanks to it.

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".....Evidently userplane is being discontinued by AOL, or so i'm told by june 15th. Site usuage is far higher and less idiots when the IM is disabled so i'm going to leave the IM off....."

^^^^^^^^ "You know who" calling their IM using members IDIOTS is not so nice, not to say anything that can get me BANNED from forums again !!!! Lets see if they get banned for INSULTING/Name calling.
 Duron_79

Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 140
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:02:35 PM
BLAH..BLAH..
 love junkie 831

Joined: 9/10/2007
Msg: 141
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:05:57 PM
"I also can agree that since we do not pay a penny , we do not have a right to complain."

When you think of the money that has been made off P.O.F. we do have the right to complain. Sure we haven't paid for anything, but we have made a millionaire, an ungrateful millionaire at that. Calling the people who helped you pay for everything you have idiots, then lying about Userplane being shut down. I'm on several sites and every time there is an update they not only notify it's users, but they are honest about it as well.
 FalconV

Joined: 6/25/2008
Msg: 142
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:08:44 PM
So....................
I Take it only those who are "Premium Members are only able to get IM's

Very interesting.

One thing that caught my eye is that someone posted a really good remark on the Admin mistake in taking away the IM

I totally agree.

It may not have been the best Im in the world ie - AOL, but it was the one thing that drew many people caught
1. free
2. IM free.
3. meet people.

Now I have met alot of nice people on here and all thru IM

But i guess from many who are now on here, will disappear.

Thanks for Fishing but I think I caught a Boot right from here.
 RosiaG

Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 143
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IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:08:45 PM
If they ban me for my ^^^^^ comments, it is fine too. I'm leaving the FREE!!!!! site. Since it doesn't seem to be full service free site any longer.

Thanks POF for the good times , it was a great place to spend time and meet nice people.

J.
 cotter

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 144
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a notice perhaps?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:10:51 PM

admin, it was a useful tool.
Oh ya ... it was useful alright ... for the guys who wanted to show us their "tools".

I lost count a long time ago of all the "pop up penises" I've seen on the IM on here. I sure did not need that crap. I'm glad it's gone. To get rid of that stuff ... I finally just limited IM use to those on my favorites list. They are my friends and know I don't want to see their nekid penis spouting junk off at my screen.

It was the way many a guy turned this site into their private porn site.

Yea ADMIN ... three cheers.

 RosiaG

Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 145
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:14:43 PM
lovejunkie...
I must agree w/you...but im scared if I use the word LIAR in regards to the userplane issue, I might get banned!!!!!
I dont like this site anyways
Got banned from fums for INSULTING the forum poster that INSULTS the most here in the forums....so forget it!!
Was goes around comes around...
One sided egocentric decisions just bounce back on yr face.

Dont get mad.... get invisible!!!!
 an_openmind35

Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 146
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a notice perhaps?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:20:26 PM
i dont get it
you have the option to turn off the IM
you have the option to choose to accept the im or not
yet you leave it on and accept the strangers ims to see the penis

so why dont the nay sayers turn it off
and the yay sayers do with it what they will


isnt this kinda of like throwing the air conditioning and power windows in your car away cause you like to be warm and hate the wind


options
options
options
gives us choices in life
 love junkie 831

Joined: 9/10/2007
Msg: 147
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:25:27 PM
"lovejunkie...
I must agree w/you...but im scared if I use the word LIAR in regards to the userplane issue, I might get banned!!!!!
I dont like this site anyways"


I'm not really worried about it, this is the 1st forum for P.O.F. I've bothered to post on. The forums seem to full of haters anyways. If I get banned, oh well. They took away the one thing that made this site appealing to me.
 RosiaG

Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 148
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Why does everyone have their IM turned off?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:29:53 PM
You wont....
I did....insult them only because they call me a drunk because of my typos!!!!
and those that insulted me were posting on forums freely....
only because I didnt get a chance to report them!!!!
Forget it this is a one sided managed site anyways..
I agree IM was one great thing

Now some lady here says she saw lots of Penises on the IM.... I been here for a year and used it plety of times...never saw ONE..

I just wonder....maybe Im in the wrong state....or maybe I'm plain FUGLY!!!! LOL.
 crazymomnmilw

Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 149
IM turns me off.
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:43:12 PM
I have had a great experience on POF and while the IM's helped so much with all the events I hosted and continue to host, it makes it rather difficult to not have the IM's anymore. Not to mention recently our local television station did a segment on POF as it being the ONLY TOTALLY FREE DATING WEBSITE. The tv. station was planning on attending one of the events I host and unfortunately, will now tell them to cancel the segment because it is no longer a TOTALLY FREE SITE. I will not be a part of FALSE ADVERTISMENT. (notice it still says FREE DATING on the POF main page)

Makes you wonder why as hosts we can't charge for our time, efforts, and expenses to make events as successful as they are. Guess all the money goes to Markus.. He fails to remember that if it was not for ALL OF US all over this world, he would not be sitting where he is today.

We can't complain because it WAS a free addition to the site but mark my words.. he is going to LOSE A LOT OF money when millions leave to go to other sites and TRUST ME in the US alone, there are 4 TOTALLY FREE SINGLES SITES where you can IM and do all the things you USED to be able to do on POF.

I did make some awesome friends on here. But after my upcoming event, I will move on to another site. I brought hundreds from Match, EHarmony, Singlesnet and many others over to POF and we are now all moving to the other FREE sites. Nobody should have to PAY to meet a mate. But I guess someone has to make the money huh?

Good Luck Marcus.. Thanks for the years of FREE dating
 100scorpion

Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 150
a notice perhaps?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:57:27 PM
you didnt have to accept anyones invite
why penalize everyone cause u dont know how to turn it off
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