I don't ever judge people on what they do. I've read quite a few of the threads where people respond in uptight manners. I get that not everyone is open to many things but again I think it's whatever two people are comfortable with unless it's illegal. Some things are just simply WRONG like kiddie porn, beasteality or rape.
I hear this come from a lot of people who are judging those who judge LOL and I always have a good laugh at the irony of the statement. First off, judging is something that we HAVE to do as a human being. No one, no not even you OP, gets through a day without making judgments. We judge whether the dude who looks like he's holding a gun is going to shoot somebody...we judge if the bus driver is going too damn fast...we judge the a**hole who cut us off in traffic and we judge people in threads who are what you would call "uptight" by virtue of the fact that they don't think like you do.
So yeah, you judge plenty...what you don't do is condemn perhaps. While you may not feel the need to place people where you want them (frankly, I'm not going to ask a rapist to babysit my kids...duh) that doesn't mean the rest of us have to jump on the same boat with ya.
Kinky is relative to the person/individual in question. There isn't a definition that'll be universal and while you may just be looking to see which women/people are the most freaky here...I thought it was interesting to note your need to make the earlier quoted statement.
You judge more than you think you do.
In fact, the way you're feeling as you read this? That's because you just made a judgment about what I said too...