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 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 4/16/2009 3:24:17 PM
I think it's very personal. For me, the idea of fvcking a woman and there's another naked guy doing her is repulsive. One thing is to watch it in porn, but in real life, I couldn't do it.

Now, and this has nothing to do with fairness, but doing two women instead is different because when you finish with one, you usually need about 10 minutes to get interested again, but when you are with two, that time is cut to nothing, consequently you can practically do it all night.
 MikeM1968

Joined: 11/3/2007
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Posted: 4/16/2009 5:04:11 PM
I don't think it's a question of what's easier, I think it's a question of A.) who is more equipped for what? -and- B.) what's more likely to happen in real life?

A woman is more capable of handling more than one man at a time, maybe 3 or more even. At least 3.

Two women aren't as likely to go after one guy (unless he's friggin GOD almighty™®©) - however - you may get a woman who's game for the MMF thing. Drugs and/or Alcohol is likely going to be needed though. I nearly engaged in the MMF thing, but couldn't stay to finish because it was just too weird sharing with another dude. We were ALL definitely drunk off our asses though. Not something I'd be interested in doing again because it was just uncomfortable and because I no longer drink.

Now where do I sign-up for the MFF threesome?

Mike
 EvilLolli

Joined: 12/7/2008
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Posted: 4/16/2009 9:27:41 PM
In the immortal words of my friends FWB " Two women? I barely know how to make one happy and feel lucky when I succeed! To have two different women at the same time to make happy? I would fail." I think that is one of the most honest answers I have heard. Most men fantasize about 2 women and them. The question is how many could truly handle it.

In my experience, limited as it may be, 2 women w/ 1 man=he didn't make it long enough for the main event. 2 men and 1 woman was like an ever ready lover as soon as you were ready. Then again women are used to multi-tasking more often than men. Go figure......
 read only

Joined: 8/22/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 4/16/2009 9:40:35 PM
"That said a man would definately be happier with two women. No comparison."

Especially if one of them were the OP
 John50indy

Joined: 2/3/2009
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Posted: 4/16/2009 10:12:04 PM
only if the guy uses viagra like me...without it I need backup lol
 EvilLolli

Joined: 12/7/2008
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Posted: 4/16/2009 10:21:37 PM

"That said a man would definately be happier with two women. No comparison."


Hence all the threads about and from unhappy men w/ only one woman. Never thought about what happens when you are satisfied and now have 2 unhappy women to deal w/? Hell most men can't handle one unsatisfied woman. Not being mean just pointing out my observations.

Hell hath no fury and all.
 plentyofflove

Joined: 3/29/2009
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Posted: 4/16/2009 10:36:00 PM
Both situations are possible depending on how much the receiver(s) can handle.
 Joeld49

Joined: 8/12/2005
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Posted: 4/17/2009 6:10:09 AM
I pleased two women last night. One is my GF, the other my ex when I gave her her support cheque. Does that count?
 aeroman444

Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 4/17/2009 12:36:30 PM
It depends on the people. I have seen it go both ways.
 canadiantigerlily

Joined: 4/10/2009
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Posted: 4/17/2009 1:30:42 PM
Definitely easier for one woman to please two men. Women are natural multitaskers!
 aeroman444

Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 4/17/2009 7:25:30 PM

Definitely easier for one woman to please two men. Women are natural multitaskers!


Whatever
 isntafraid

Joined: 4/9/2009
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Posted: 4/17/2009 7:33:46 PM
when I was younger I had a few 2 guy on a girl situations, now that I am older I have had only 2 girl on me 3 somes. I like the 2 girl way a lot better though I was pleased either way.
 Cocopuff2009

Joined: 3/4/2009
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Posted: 4/17/2009 9:10:48 PM
Well, in my humble opinion, in FMF threesome, when the man is 'refreshing' himself, he can watch the two women pleasuring each other.

However, I agree with most, in a MFM combination, the woman can go forever.
 Yankee_Girl

Joined: 12/30/2008
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Posted: 4/17/2009 9:32:35 PM
As much as I hate broad sweeping generalizations, men can not multi-task.
 jojoaus

Joined: 10/28/2007
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Posted: 4/17/2009 10:00:56 PM
Am intrigued by the 'hohophobia' mentioned in msg 19... is it some deathly fear of fat men in red suits every December???
 Jim978

Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 4/18/2009 3:33:04 AM


Do you think it would be easier for one man to please two women at the same time, or for one woman to please two men at the same time?


Pffft! Every guy knows that it is impossible to please a woman.
 zentral

Joined: 10/30/2005
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Posted: 4/18/2009 11:08:23 AM
Well, if everyone knows that it's impossible for a man to please a woman, then why not NOT please two at once? It's more efficient, and may give some other poor guy a break!
 loving heart 50

Joined: 9/3/2006
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Posted: 5/8/2009 12:15:18 AM
-OP

It's like this ....We all have this great fantasy of a Threesome " Well that's just
it I choose to make it stay just that. I'd rather make love to one man only!! Not
share him that way.

What I have is reserved for one and it's not meant to be shared.
How can I please two ????? I'm sorry it's hard enough to please one .
I sure as heck have no desires to have another woman touch me or my
body ewwwwwwwwwww.

As to the fantasy of two men with ME" can just remain just that...
I got enough love for one! I have no desires what so ever for a (Threesome it's not as easy as most tend make it out to be and those that boast about it honestly do you really do this? What ever happened to "Pride in ya self hmmmm ?
This I vote thumbs down.

I'm sorry I have morals and good values well if sex was all just
Threesomes ... I think I'd continue to pleasure thy self. I do not for see my self ever
indulging in anything sexually like Threesome , I think I'll stick to what I know best
leave the kinky stuff to all the rest.

Safe sex is best!


Regards,
...........................................................,Brenny
 offbeatcanuck

Joined: 4/26/2009
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Posted: 5/8/2009 1:26:00 AM
Brenny,

You sound like you'd be great fun at parties.
 TheToefactor

Joined: 2/11/2009
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Posted: 5/8/2009 1:50:48 AM
one man vs two women? it seems so much more fair.
 loving heart 50

Joined: 9/3/2006
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Posted: 5/8/2009 5:15:22 AM
OffBeatCanuck ...Hello there, Thanks for for the kind complement smiles

yes I'm sure I'd be a hoot at parties and the funny thing is I am ..I tell it like

it is and well I do not take life so serious and I will call a spade a spade my

views on threads are just a matter of opinion and we all got one. Well sex to

me is fun but making love with someone you love and respect is so much more.

There is nothing like it in the world to really show your partner you love them.

Nah ,, I'm sorry this woman will not share her man the love and passion and the

erotic sense of adventure I have is all for one person. Hey OffBeatCanuck I'll be

more than happy to come to any of your parties winks nice meeting you thanks

again..please E-mail me anytime I enjoy meeting people and making friends;)

It's called networking not rubber necking laugh out loud. Regards, Brenny
 unique30s_couple

Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 47
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Posted: 5/8/2009 5:23:38 AM
we've experienced both and found them equally enjoyable for all. course noone was holding a pleasure meter as everyone seem far too busy
 read only

Joined: 8/22/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 5/8/2009 6:19:28 AM
Brenny, I wish more people had our attitude.....


"I tell it like

it is and well I do not take life so serious and I will call a spade a spade my

views on threads are just a matter of opinion and we all got one.

I have a couple, we all get together about once a year, and have our fun, and may have found a 2nd woman.

Now I wouldn't want this lifestyle all of the time, because that would mean I would have to drink a lot more than I like or want to.
 EvilMelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007
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Posted: 5/24/2009 4:40:45 PM
Just tried this for the first time, FMF.
It was awesome. My boyfriend said that he has only done it two times before and he didn't really get to participate much. He said after this experience, he is much more open to it, and defenitely willing to do it again. Which is good cuz I loved it.
I am bisexual and so being with him, I still have the urge to be with a woman. It's like an itch I finally got to scratch :P
He was worried cuz we had been drinking and hadn't had time to talk about it before doing it but it ended up going really well and was not awkward between either of us or the second woman involved.
 deathntaxes

Joined: 1/25/2009
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Posted: 5/24/2009 5:04:58 PM
WHAT ABOUT THE WOMANS fantasy peoples! I'd like to try 2 men pleasing 1 woman.
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