| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:42:18 AM | ^^^ mortalez, believe it or not, there are some ladies looking for more than someone to finance their existence.
If people are having ssues with the opposite sex, and it repeats over and over again, thten perhaps it is the type of person you are attracting or attracted to. Time to change things up and do something about attracting what you are looking for. Maybe try fishing on the other side of the pond.  | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:47:46 AM | | Not all women are like that Mort. I was looking for someone that wanted to know who I really was and willing to let me in to their life to get to know them. He'd be someone that I could tell anything to, and not have to hang my head when telling the parts that I wasn't so proud of. He'd be a good man, with a big heart, and willing to look past heartaches of the past and give me a chance to show him that I'm not like the others who hurt him. He'd be someone that would enjoy simple, unmaterialistic things, and time together would mean more than anything money could buy. Luckily, I've been blessed. Money, age, social status, or looks wasn't part of equasion. Look for someone who makes you happy on the inside, makes you want to be a better person, and someone who cares about you, unconditionally. Don't instantly love, but let it be something that grows within you. Makes the relationship all the more special :-) | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:53:58 AM |
^^^ mortalez, believe it or not, there are some ladies looking for more than someone to finance their existence.
If people are having ssues with the opposite sex, and it repeats over and over again, thten perhaps it is the type of person you are attracting or attracted to. Time to change things up and do something about attracting what you are looking for. Maybe try fishing on the other side of the pond.
OK I have a crappy job a 21 year old car, and a 2 bedroom small house.
I also have lots of love in my heart to give, I give affection, I'm a good talkier and I'm faithfull(you know the important things).
I had a woman that got along with me great in everyway but she dumped me because I did not make more than her. not the first time that has happened. so if every woman I have dated has been that into me but let money be the desiding factor then what am I to believe?
I would rather be living in a cardboard box with the right woman than in a mansion alone or with a gold digger. | |
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| hey you forgot....
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:01:49 AM | doing the laundry and lot of other sundry items of slavery its worse for a man
because its womans work .....far be it from me to subdivide the sexes....but
we have different mindsets.....does water and oil mix....only when you shake it up.
leave it a while and they separate...... se la vie
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:17:08 AM |
I had a woman that got along with me great in everyway but she dumped me because I did not make more than her. not the first time that has happened. so if every woman I have dated has been that into me but let money be the desiding factor then what am I to believe?
I would say the women you are meeting and attracting are not self-actualized, authentic or worthy of a good man with sincere intentions. They are shallow and are looking to take their success and "trade up" in lifestyle, as they are not satisfied with their own success.
I have found just the opposite of your experience, many men allow their ego to push them away from a good woman who has had more financial success than they have, someone who is well entrenched with a great career. I realize that men who think this way would never stand the test of time with me anyway, so I move on, knowing there is someone who will be able to appreciate and be open to share what I bring to the relationship instead of comparing the haves and the have nots between us.
doing the laundry and lot of other sundry items of slavery its worse for a man
because its womans work
And then there are some guys who still think it is 1947 and women should be grateful any man who would allow them to be in their presence and have the priviledge of scrubbing skid marks out of their tightie whities.....these neaderthals should expect to lead a long, miserable life.....alone!!! | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:40:47 AM | "doing the laundry and lot of other sundry items of slavery its worse for a man
because its womans work"
Don't forget that if she refuses to make me a ham sammich, then it's all over!!! | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/19/2009 11:20:16 AM | See my post under Weirdest Dates.
Who knows!!
She offered to help pay for dinner, I picked up the tab anyway... So she wasn't after a freebie.
We didn't have sex - so she was just out to get laid..
Regardless, it was a blast... Was that really all she was looking for? If so, why not a second date?
oh well.. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/25/2009 8:49:15 PM | Ok , I'm reading all these responses to your comments about the site and women. I joined this site quite a long time ago just because a friend said I should. I have been on here maybe 3 times and each time I see men with stupid profiles, unattractive pictures and then they think that women have a problem. In order to know what a woman wants you have to take the time to ask and to actually like women for other reasons than sex. Don't get me wrong, I understand how men think and I'm fine with that. Men are not complicated but very simple in their wants and needs. We women can appear to have unattractive attributes but I can tell you that when it comes to older women....over 40, if she's got it together we DO know what we want and what we don't want and being a single mom does not make you a woman searching for a man with money! I'm perfectly capable of looking after myself, I would just love to have a man that ,yes ,makes me laugh, is kind, and takes the time to find out what makes me tick.
Good luck in your search and please what ever your looking for put it out there and it will happen. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/25/2009 9:09:00 PM | Well its called fishing for a reason Iv been told you can cast your line standing in the same place up to 36 times before the fish is considered uncatchable! Keep throwen your bate your bond to find at least one that likes how u work ur bait lol! | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/25/2009 9:14:34 PM |
What are women really looking for?
8 solid hours of good sleep and the keys to my handcuffs. The first can't happen until the 2nd one does. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/26/2009 10:16:33 PM | 1. Honesty
2. Honesty
3. Honesty!!!!
In other words, don't contact me if I'm not what you're truly looking for, but you contact me anyway because I seem "close enough". Yes, I do need to know everything about you, including absolutely everything about your past, if we start dating regularly. (Example: I don't care if you caught crabs from that stripper in Vegas two years ago. I just want to know you got treated for it!) It's not what you did that will upset me. It's lying about it, or "leaving something out" that bothers me.
4. loyalty
This is actually important to men, but it's also important to us too.
5. self awareness
I don't care if you have some dysfunctions. But if you're still in denial of them, its not going to work between us.
6. sense of humor and someone who can handle sarcasm
Some folks can dish it out but can't take it once we try to dish it back.
7. even temper
I know guys get mad sometimes, and sometimes that means they break, throw, or hit things. I get that. But if you ever do that to me...we're done.
8. Honesty....sorry, did I mention that already?  | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/27/2009 12:15:50 AM |
1. Honesty
2. Honesty
3. Honesty!!!!
In other words, don't contact me if I'm not what you're truly looking for, but you contact me anyway because I seem "close enough". Yes, I do need to know everything about you, including absolutely everything about your past, if we start dating regularly. (Example: I don't care if you caught crabs from that stripper in Vegas two years ago. I just want to know you got treated for it!) It's not what you did that will upset me. It's lying about it, or "leaving something out" that bothers me.
4. loyalty
This is actually important to men, but it's also important to us too.
5. self awareness
I don't care if you have some dysfunctions. But if you're still in denial of them, its not going to work between us.
6. sense of humor and someone who can handle sarcasm
Some folks can dish it out but can't take it once we try to dish it back.
7. even temper
I know guys get mad sometimes, and sometimes that means they break, throw, or hit things. I get that. But if you ever do that to me...we're done.
8. Honesty....sorry, did I mention that already?
If that was the case really nice guys who live in ratty apartments or at their moms house could be honest and still find dates.
hhhhmmmmmm I smell bovine fecal matter. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/28/2009 1:49:38 PM | Yes, there are some women looking for what you guys think they are looking for, but you will find that among the men as well.
SOME of us women folk really do want a nice guy but attraction plays a huge part in those decisions as well.
Basically, I just want a nice guy to stick around...thru good and bad times. I want open communications and understanding that not everyone is going to think the same. I want to know that they will be there the next day even if something goes wrong and we will work thru it together. I am looking for unconditional love....but i'm not sure that exists. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/28/2009 7:32:44 PM | Well geeez, I want a guy that will spend his fortune on me buying me video games, and Zombie movies, who will love me for ever and ever as I get really fat from all my slurpies and skittles.
Someone who understands Im way way way too lazy to turn on the light in the middle of the night when I go pee and has the decency to put the toilet seat down so I dont fall in ( true story) I dunt lie about dese things!!
A guy who doesnt leave his pubic hair imbedded in the soap that I am expected to use when it is my turn to shower, and gawd all men should know that all women want is for their penis to be bigger, so maybe a guy who would get miracle grow pills, and read a book or two to learn how to handle his new found endowment would be swell!
And if they would clean the house , (ha) and do it only their socks, that would be greatly appreciated!!
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 7/28/2009 10:25:18 PM | | Women are looking for a good looking ***hole that is what most of them want, with a very few exceptions. It took me 41 years to finally accept this fact | |
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