| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/25/2009 7:46:11 PM | | As a woman, I can tell you what I am looking for...a good man...with honor, integrity, and morals......and a man who wants to settle down and have a family....seems like all I run into men who wish to play games, just want sex, or are looking for Jessica Alba's twin. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/25/2009 7:49:16 PM | | I could be wrong....but I think most of us are looking for a man who changes his underwear frequently!!!...among other things. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/25/2009 9:10:28 PM | I can only speak for me, but I don't give a damn about your job, money, where you went to school, your car, etc. I want someone who's a GREAT conversationalist, (probably means he reads a bit!), makes me laugh a lot, has a touch of or a LOT of old-school/gentlemanly/European manners, has a great sense of TOUCH, loves to give a lot of time to foreplay (actually, come to think of it, regards most of what we do as foreplay!) and loves, loves, loves to make me smile and purr...the kind of guy for whom every day, whether he's poor or rich, is kind of a mini-adventure... Yes! | |
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| This guys looking for.
Posted: 5/25/2009 10:28:46 PM | I pretty much found it. It is to maintain the happiness I receive from not looking for anything.
I'm golfing 4 rounds this weekend so I may be looking for a few balls that somehow went into the trees.
I may be looking for the beer cart girl because she is cute and I like the way I feel when I look into her eyes and we both smile because of the flirtatious connection. Heck, I don't even drink.
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/26/2009 5:56:34 PM | Well I don't know about older women, but I would say that for me, I would like someone that takes care of himself physically--that is to say, exercises/eats right, someone who is not a total bum, who has a steady job or is at least going to school to better himself, someone within ten years of my age, someone who is intelligent and acts it (i.e. spells out 'you' and knows the difference between 'your' and 'you're'), and who hopefully has at least some of the same interests as me, be that video games or creativity or something else we could bond over.
Apparently that's too much to ask for, though...heheh e.e | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/26/2009 6:16:05 PM | i dont think you can pin point what woman want by asking the whole group. That's like asking a dinning room full of people if they want cranberries on their salad, some yes, some no, some will just want a few, and some will want extra. We all want something different. Being here on plenty of fish is no different then walking down the street in any city. Some people turn and watch you leave, some turn up their noses, some smile cordial smiles...but really how often will someone stop you and say i am interested in getting to know you better? I read somewhere today that "life is the worst kind of teacher...first you get the test, then you get the lesson". Mine of late has been the patience test-D.A.M.N that lesson LOL! Hope and love to all that your test bring the lessons that will change your life forever.
and one last thought...ask and you shall receive...just be prepared fore what you asked for! my experience turns this advice into wisdom.LOL! | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:20:46 AM | I don't know what other women want, I only know what I am looking for in a man.
Looks.
1. Long hair as in at least shoulder length.
2. Taller than my 5'4" (not even sure why, but most are taller than that)
3. Thin to average.
Work: A man that has a job not a career. One that goes to work, does his job, clocks out, and is done with the job until he has to go back. Understands that a job is just a thing that pays bills not the main reason of his life.
One that has the same basic beliefs as me, especially when it comes to what a family is. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:34:12 AM | Macy's has huge sausage 60% off?
According to some of the women that post here, 90% of men are 60% away from having a sausage at all. 
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:52:43 AM | Your guess is as good as mine, butI don't dwell on it. What really attracts me to a woman is her intelligence, not her looks! Looks do help, but they are not everything.
Anyway, what is a woman looking for? Good question. I think there are a lot of right answers here. A man that can be her best friend. Afterall, is that not why 50% of marriages end in divorce? They married for the wrong reasons, no question in my mind.
Some will say that today is different, but I don't think it is. My great grandfather met my great grandmother when they were just 4 years of age! They were married for over 60 years! They were the best of friends first. It isn't rocket science guys-really, it isn't.
As for the women, I'm speaking for myself, but men, at least the more mature ones, are not looking for just sex. They are looking for the kind of connection that they don't feel with anyone else. That is usually on an emotional level. If a man is comfortable being himself around you, then he is looking for the same from you. This means you need to open up to him. Share your dreams-tell him what made you happy that day. Tell him what made you sad. Trust me, if he loves you, you will see how he responds to you and your relationship will be much stronger. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/27/2009 4:22:32 PM | I have a question for the women?
I met someone for a drink this past Monday night and we chatted for about an hour. I had her laughing and having a good old time. At close, she told me to call her whenever i wanted, and i have not heard back from her. I am really beginning to think all women are looking for this perfect guy. I think people are setting there expectations to high. My opinion. I could be wrong. I just want something real and someone to be honest even if the truth hurts.  | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/27/2009 6:30:12 PM | | DREGZ i didnt mean acting like a **** i meant when we wake up and not all dolled up. Research things before you open your big mouth | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/28/2009 4:32:09 PM | | There is a big difference in what a woman is looking for... and who she'll accept; But the same goes for guys as well. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/28/2009 5:00:15 PM | "What are women really looking for?"
they're looking for:
Chocolate
Cuddles
Kisses
Playful spirit
...to be treated like an equal...
I'm sure there's lots of guys looking for the same thing..maybe not the chocolate though
Truth, I can still remember just the way you taste-TruthinessInc | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/28/2009 5:37:37 PM | i think women are just as confused as men are in what they truely are looking for.i like you had found some one stopped for a little while . the relationship went south along with my video camera . Ive been on a few dates but mostly i have found that the women who write one thing dont mean what they say or say what they mean, probly to late in life to become a priest too.Ive always belived theres some one out there for each of us, in my area theres more women then men yet i am still alone , my female friends tell me im looking to hard.Then when you do find some one you like you go on a couble of dates and the next thing you know they quiet talking to you so i guess you bang your head on the wall while you try to figure out what went wrong.confuseion reigns yep thats the ticket! | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/31/2009 5:19:22 PM | MSG #192
Sweetguy42
"I met someone for a drink this past Monday night and we chatted for about an hour. I had her laughing and having a good old time. At close, she told me to call her whenever i wanted, and i have not heard back from her. I am really beginning to think all women are looking for this perfect guy. I think people are setting there expectations to high. My opinion. I could be wrong. I just want something real and someone to be honest even if the truth hurts."
So, did you call her??
I had the same situation happen with me, had a great time, we both laughed, shared a great dinner, had a lot in common....both said what a wonderful time we had and we would like to get together again. I told him he was welcome to call me, text me, or email me anytime .. just let me know. Haven't heard from him since. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 6/1/2009 11:11:16 AM | If women came in male and female form, men would be obsolete to some women.
In other words, some women are looking for a woman with a penis. They just simply cannot comprehend, let alone accept, that men are not women.
I think that women whom have a solid grasp on the fact that men are, inherently, different will not have trouble dating and being happy. | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 6/7/2009 3:21:32 PM | | Get back 2 me when u have a real and definitive answer (from WOMEN of course)..other than that...good luck with this thread!! I was gonna say SEX but like I said...get back 2 me with the REAL answer!!!! | |
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| What are women really looking for?
Posted: 6/7/2009 5:12:58 PM |
Sex. Hot Hot Sex!
Ok, now ya just blew it for all the "ladies" looking for "gentlemen".
You're a baaaad, baaaad girl.... | |
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