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 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 76
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Playoff beards!

Yes ladies, in Canada there is no greater sign that you are a man, THE Man than a finely grown and scruffy as f*ck playoff beard to support your team.
 kyri1212
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 77
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Posted: 4/19/2009 10:05:46 AM
Why do men grow grotesque, huge facial hair?

i don't think facial hair really is grotesque, i think you will also offend other on here by choosing those words..lol.

but the thing is ,you do think it is gross, and that is what counts. simply put in your profile, do not like facial hair. or ask the person are they willing to shave it. you never know.

I am more curious you have a biased on facial hair as well as you attach it to a behavior, or devious acts. "they are hiding something". kind of reminds me of when people don't trust or like Muslim woman because they wear a full face hijab"hiding something".

maybe if you challenged those beleifs, the hair may not bother you as much? i don't know.

i am allergic to facial hair, so i prefer a clean shave or a very slim goatee. if they don't agree, then i must bow out of the chance to get to know them better.
 countrygrl12345
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 78
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Posted: 4/19/2009 10:31:17 AM
Did he have the handlebar mustache? Just grab hold of them and go "vroom vroom baby".....
If it's that huge/long/hairy, just braid it before you kiss him....problem solved.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 79
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Posted: 4/19/2009 7:29:24 PM
msg2--- At least my eyelashes and the big furry on top of my head is clean there is no food drips harden on it. I don't mind being labeled shallow but hairy face is a turn off. Ewwww!!!!
 Zencandy
Joined: 4/30/2007
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Posted: 4/19/2009 7:34:43 PM
Ew...

The goal of this post was not to learn how to DEAL with a monstrous moustache, it was a question that still hasn't been answered. WHY do they do it? WHAT are they thinking? I don't mean ALL facial hair, just those monstrous handlebar moustaches or beards that look more like topiary than facial hair...I do not think that they are hiding something "insidious" or "evil" but something more common, like no chin or too MUCH chin.

As for offending anyone, what about men who say "No fatsos, it just doesn't turn me on..."

This is the same thing.
 shipoker58
Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 81
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Posted: 4/19/2009 7:37:50 PM

Why do men grow grotesque, huge facial hair? I met someone I relate to on a couple of levels and it was quite pleasant. Truthfully, all I could see was this monstrous moustach that was SO big and thick it looked like two dead squirrels had been hair jelled together...but ok it was only a conversation and a cup of coffee. I enjoyed his company until he wanted to get closer...well he couldn't GET that close because of this really really THICK HUGE Moustache--and when he tried to kiss me...well. I withdrew. The thought of that big hairy thing scratching and poking my face and lips...I do not remember what HE looked like but I can tell you minute details of his stash! Why do guys DO that? I am a firm believer that the fancier the facial hair, the more the guy is trying to hide.


sorry, but this whole concept seems infantile. If you don't like men with mustaches, why did you go out with him?? Why do women wear make-up? Trying to hide something? Of course not. I don't like women with make-up...so guess what? I don't go out with them!! What a concept





...JMO
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 4/19/2009 7:48:52 PM
JMO we are not trying to hide something when we put on make up,We are Trying To Enhance "something" to become more attractive.

I don't care very much a man with mustache and beard, truthfully as if a woman is kissing a horizon genetalia of a female. Ewww!!!!!!
 desert wildflower
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 4/19/2009 8:21:16 PM
I don`t know what is in a guy`s head, but most of the ones that I have met that have all that fur hanging think that they are bada$$es. Like if they can grow alot of hair, it means they are tough and intimidating to other guys and they can kick their a$$.

I think it is a kickback to the animal kingdom and how they grow the biggest antlers, or biggest tailfeathers, you know to attract a mate. The tough guy biker dudes often do this. It`s part of the whole don`t F with me mentality, and some women are attracted to
the tough guy protector image. I think that is what they are thinking. They think it is tough and bada$$, therefore will attract women, which it does, a certain type of women. Not me. I like my men somewhat evolved.


(Love it when they grow it really long and then braid the sh*t, That`s HOT )
Also same reason some dudes put snakes around their kneck to look tough for their profile pic. Also so hot.
 oneyejack
Joined: 1/2/2009
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Posted: 4/19/2009 8:42:18 PM
Same as why women dye their hair or wear wigs are they trying to hide something..Granted if it sticks out past their nose than that is a bit much..lol..
 Zencandy
Joined: 4/30/2007
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Posted: 4/20/2009 4:41:09 AM
BEST answer, thank you! GREAT profile, too! Thanks for the insight!
 ileft
Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 4/20/2009 5:23:24 AM
Nothign wrong with facial hair but it can become too much once it looks like a forest.
 ltsmkluv
Joined: 4/2/2009
Msg: 87
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Posted: 4/20/2009 12:07:29 PM
LOL i read this n laughed ,, i can understand women may be a ll weary of the Flavour Saver !! think how bad it is for Men ,, when u show up for your date and the " woman has a thick mostache " but believes her bleaching it Blonde will hide it ... lol ,,,, do woman truly believe they are fooling anyone ..... except themselves ... Any facial hair on a lady is just wrong ...
 shipoker58
Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 88
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Posted: 4/20/2009 3:14:07 PM

I don't care very much a man with mustache and beard, truthfully as if a woman is kissing a horizon genetalia of a female. Ewww!!!!!!



Then don't date them in the first place!! Did it occur to you, thyat facial hair may enhance a man's looks, the way make-up enhances a woman's looks? As I said, if you don't like men with mustaches, don't date them. I don't like women with make-up, so I don't date them. I am sure that you get the same feeling from mustachioed men that I get from kissing women with lipstick. So don't do it! Pretty simple, in my book!


...JMO
 shipoker58
Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 89
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Posted: 4/20/2009 3:24:22 PM

Also same reason some dudes put snakes around their kneck to look tough for their profile pic. Also so hot.



This is what I do for a living. If you read my profile, you would see I am not looking for a woman for anything but hanging out. I don't need to look "hot" but at least I have a profile pic. I happen to work in a reptile shop, and love my animals. I am not trying to attract anyone. As far as facial hair, You are way off track as far as most men feel about their facial hair. Yes, it's a sign of masculinity for some, but has nothing to do with 'caveman" attitudes.

That makes as much sense as saying women who wear make-up are reverting to signs of whoredom. Some just choose to look a certain way, without ulterior motives.

In a day when "metro-sexual is so widely accepted, some men, just like to look like men. It is easier to identify men as men with facial hair. It gets discouraging when you have to stare or ask a question to find out whether a person is male or female, these days. Women, from what I have been reading, want their men to be smooth as a woman, no pubic hair, a clean shaven face...yet want "men to be men!" That's laughable but................


...JMO
 Sarahrei
Joined: 2/22/2009
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Posted: 4/20/2009 4:04:18 PM
I have snakes too I love them.


As for facial hair, my mans got a beard and I love it, but he has soft facial hair rather than rough.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 4/20/2009 5:38:46 PM
msg.88 I have not dated a man with unshave facial hair and I will not date a man with facial hair there is no question on that*. Even he is the last man on earth...... *

Oppps !!! ** I might change my mind ,if he look like Clark Gable ..........
 goldenhawk16
Joined: 4/15/2009
Msg: 92
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Posted: 4/20/2009 10:05:54 PM
Haha I had that before.

Its not fun to kiss someone with that lol.
 Listen2hear
Joined: 5/29/2008
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Posted: 4/21/2009 9:57:21 AM

Myth alert!! This is a myth. European women do shave their underarms, and their legs, and wax their bikini line....Sheesh.....


Myth my pit! I did not write that all European women refrain from shaving their underarms, I wrote that many do. Many is a relative term but it is accurate when compared with their North American counterparts. And I never inferred anything about legs or bikini lines. I have personal knowledge of this as a dated a lass who skipped the razor and when she raised her arms, gave a whole new meaning to the line, "Rapunzel, Rapunzel, let down your hair."
 Purplespidersplash
Joined: 4/27/2009
Msg: 94
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Posted: 5/11/2009 6:53:22 AM
I discovered some moustaches are soft! Who knew?

Guess its the type of hair? How it grows and frankly some men are hotter with the fur...

just putting it out there...
 tbuddha
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 95
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Posted: 5/11/2009 7:08:24 AM
I've started sporting a goatee because I look young for my age and frankly, business-wise, people give me more respect when they think I'm in my 30s and not my 20s.
 Frau Blücher
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 96
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Posted: 5/11/2009 7:35:54 AM
If his moustache comes “between us”, I just tap him on the head, pull him up a little by his ears, and then go back to staring at the popcorn stucco ceiling.

The moustache-e-o look comes in and out of favor all the time; it’s just another fashion trend. In the thirties, one appearance of a bare-chested Clark Gable made the sale of undershirts plummet. It wasn’t until the mullet craze of the eighties that the “wife beater” returned with a beer stained Kenny Roger’s Roaster vengeance. I’ve noticed that a few of the male celebrities today are starting to show up here and there with the fashionable pencil-thin “staches”. If a man isn’t bothered by my moustache, I won’t mind his.
 BlackLady1953
Joined: 5/27/2011
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Posted: 7/20/2012 10:07:24 AM
They are gross....I HATE THEM!
 Paderic
Joined: 2/23/2010
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Posted: 7/20/2012 10:34:49 AM
If you don't like men with facial hair, don't date them. See how simple that is?

As for the comment about men with facial hair trying to hide, don't be ridiculous.

When you give someone an ultimatum (such as shave the 'stash or we're through), be prepared for them to not make the choice you want.

Edit: I just noticed this is a three year old thread...
 TC2u
Joined: 6/22/2011
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Posted: 7/20/2012 11:16:52 AM
lol, thanks for the giggles!
 Janet_Always
Joined: 6/20/2012
Msg: 100
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Posted: 7/20/2012 11:18:08 AM
At my age I'm never sure if something is outdated or back in style...

I don't think facial hair would bother me.

Not today, anyway.
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