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Posted: 4/23/2009 6:57:08 PM | I dont see anything wrong with it, so long as you are not using drugs.
You can make a crapload of money just fior being sexy and shaking your goodies.
I have worked in a club as bartender and have also DJ'd in a club, the men were not allowed to touch the women, most were very happy and loved being paid to look cute.
if you dont mind men you dont know seeing your body go for it. Are you comfortable with full nudity? Find out what the club requires. if the BF cant handle it he might be a control freak or over jealous. I have never known a stripper who Fvcked a customer. Never. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 3:12:47 PM | maybe, or rather definitely for your husband---but stripping for just anyone is trashy like a prostitute. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 4:24:00 PM | Kissmekindsir: I'm sorry, but isn't that a bit "pot calling the kettle black?"
You're half naked in your pictures on an online dating site. How can you judge someone else and call them "trashy like a prostitute?" Yes, your pictures are very much tasteful, but really....
As for stripping, I do believe there are women out there that can do this type of work and have a relationship. I have met some in the past and they were trying to raise a child by themselves and were completely loyal to their relationship. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 4:33:30 PM | Good Lord.......a women posing in her bra and half nude......calling someone else trashy for asking a question....
I just love these judgemental "christians".....reminds me why I stay out of churches!!
Yes, OP, there are numerous women that can balance their "stripper" work.....and their family life.
But as many stated, it takes a special breed to pull it off.
I have a g/f that has danced for over 15 years now.....happily married, 2 great kids, member of the PTA and wins every damn cooking competition she enters!
It's a job. When she clocks out......she leaves "Ginger" at the bar.....and you would never know from her lifestyle what she does for a living. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 8:04:57 PM | You are correct about the full nudity in Quebec, I have an acquaintance with whom I lost touch who used to go to those places before he met his partner, I thinkhe is still with hr. (Better that way, I almost gave away the secret once at a party while chatting with his sweetie, phew, that was a masterful recovery)
As a single guy he shared all the details with me. At first he had some touching, some places they did the touching too. That was not enough so he "toured" the places and found "better". Then he found places where they gave him good crotch riding, either from behind or facing him. He even said some had a little cloth on his crotch for two reasons. 1. no feminine smell on his pants. 2. no getting wet as they brought him to ejaculation. he started using a condom after the first three creamings.
Then his curisity took him to more serious bars where he had oral and stroking.
That's in someplaces in Quebec and I heard younger guy telling about some places in NB and Ontario as well being seriously involved. Must cost a lot to go there.
Some guys go just to watch them "dance". | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 4:28:52 PM | | Heck yeah I would date you, and besides maybe you could teach me a few things, and I could probably teach you a few too. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 4:46:55 PM | I've been friends with enough of them over the years to know I could never date one.
That kind of environment can change a person. One of my best friends recently had to go through the pain of losing a former girlfriend, who had begun dancing awhile back, to a drug overdose. She was never into any of that kind of stuff prior to her career as a dancer. But she got caught up with the wrong crowd.
That's not to say that that happens to everyone who chooses that as a profession, but personally I wouldn't want to take that chance. | |
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Posted: 9/30/2009 1:00:51 PM | | I have dated strippers before and for me it wasn't a big deal. I have always been secure and I wasn't bothered by her stripping because I knew the reason why she was doing it and it wasn't in any way a negative mark on her personality, it was simply a job. But I recognize that there are some very jealous and insecure men who can't handle it. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2009 3:51:11 AM | I was actully striped naked buy another women in a relationship before who actully got me naked fair and quare when she got me from behind at her house.
I did not mind it but she just wanted to see me what I looked like | |
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Posted: 10/8/2009 11:58:18 AM | That world of stripping is not glamourous as it might seem in the movies. I know it is the thing to even have a pole now in your house. But that world is full of sadness, drug abuse and alcohol abuse for many women. Not all some like the money and some do it because they can make alot of money for schooling and taking care of their families, but the vast majority of the women have been sexually abused. It takes a very strong woman to be in that environment and not get caught up with all those things. Some can but the vast majority hate it and wish they had never done it as they get older and look back
You no longer are a person but an object. I think with a boyfriend or husband you love or have a relationship with it is ALL fun and good. But doing in the strip clubs brings a whole new set of problems. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2009 2:41:07 PM | I was listening to news radio a while ago, and they were talking about there being an increase in young women wanting to be strippers instead of pursuing a real career. They were playing interviews with 14,15,16 year old girls who wanted to become a stripper after high school instead of going to college. The reason of course is all about the money. Despite the money, I don't know why any woman would want to be a stripper. I found the news report a little disturbing.
I did it last year, I really wanted to experience it, and the money was Great,
But I could not do it for more than a few weeks; it made me feel like a piece of meat and We have to act all the time, make guys feel we like them when we are really repulsed by them. To be able to handle this most girls get drunk, or even use drugs. The girls lie about everything all day long, change our names, our ages, our lifes, everything. You don’t have to be young to do it. One of the girls at the club was 42, decent shape and said she was 25,,, in my case if the guy was older than 40 I would tell him I am 23,, if it was a younger then I would tell him I was 19.
It's kind of funny I've been to the clubs a few times, and I would tell lies to the girls too especially if it was obvious that she was BSing me on everthing she was saying about herself. I'd come up with a another name for myself, and pretend to be someone I wasn't like an 18 year old large business owner or an airline pilot, pro baseball player, a male stripper, whatever. Sometimes I'd pretend to be someone I wish I was, and since you get approached by a lot of different women over the course of the night, I could be someone different to each of them. I had some fun with it, and I don't think the girls really gave a damn what I told them about myself as long as I bought a dance from them anyway. | |
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Posted: 10/8/2009 2:46:31 PM | Hmmm I agree with the second poster, why not strip for your boyfriend? Maybe tie him to the bed with some handcuffs or scarves and take it really slow. If you have a 4 poster bed then maybe practice some form of pole dancing on it. maybe some whiped cream and strawberries....oh boy I need to stop now..
'Chev  | |
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Posted: 10/9/2009 12:20:08 AM | | I would, Heck I'd date a porn actress or a prostitute. I'm more into faces and minds. If a woman is cool to hang out with, I dont care her line of work as long as I can look at her face without gagging and have fun being around her I could care less what she does or did. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2009 1:02:02 AM | I used to work in the industry and the entertainment was never good to have a relationship with. You'll get jaded, your view of men will slowly change, you'll pick up habits, you'll start thinking all the rich guys who are tipping you are way better than your man, you'll leave him for one, they'll dump their silly stripper after wearing her out over a few weeks or months and you'll be left with nothing but the life of a showgirl.
Don't do it. The strippers I've banged all usually are psycho, bi-sexual, druggies and/ or uncivilized somehow... but usually pretty good in bed. The relationships were committed flings or serial monogamy for us both. | |
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Posted: 10/25/2009 5:57:05 PM | EXACTLY!
Strippers,****ail Waitresses, and Hookers, are the most jaded form of female occupations.........but guess what they wouldn't be there if there were not LOW LIFE moron males to tip or pay them!
And yes they are demented because they are doing something sooooooo ungodly and twisted; making you beleive her genitals are worth far more than a males!
You proved it to her when you paid her!
STRANGE how many males DO NOt even GET IT, they paid to be with virtuous females by fighting wars to protect them! NOT paying them again to be their sexual degenerates after they dodged bullets and watch their comrades lose life and limbs! | |
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Posted: 10/25/2009 6:16:30 PM | Wait a second, kissmekindsir, you are equating c*cktail waitresses...with s*x workers?
Er, aren't *you* a waitress? So if you bring someone a beer...that makes you different from a c*cktail waitress...well, how, exactly? Because of what you are wearing?
I'm trying to be as restrained as possible here, but one look at the photos up on your profile indicates that they are far more revealing than anything I've ever seen a c*cktail waitress wearing.
You can probably guess I'm not a Christian, per se. But I do recall there being some verses in there about judging others. Verses that could maybe do with a review? | |
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Posted: 10/25/2009 7:23:22 PM | Oh Goodie, the bored little Christian girl has come to the Sex Forums to condemn us all to hell again.
Amazing how someone that serves drinks is doing something "ungodly and twisted".....yet posing half naked and participating in sex forums
is "virtuous" !!??!!
and I just love how she tells the men that read her profile they must go read her rants in the Christian threads and quote something she said to contact her......
Funny she didn't tell them to come read her comments in the Sex threads!!  | |
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Posted: 10/25/2009 8:06:04 PM | Anyone with a good body, or even a half decent body can be a stripper...personally if that was a route I was going to even consider, I'd go into burlesque, and really go all out, with the great costumes, the shows, the awesome sets...hitting a pole is nothing special, nor is getting naked...half the world's population has a twat and t1ts, but you see, I happen to be able to sing and dance, so I'd bring it full out Broadway style.
And to the half naked chick that equates c0cktail waitressing with sex workers, um you need to a) put some clothes on in your profile, and b) get a clue...the c0cktail waitresses in good clubs probably wear better outfits than you do at your dinky restaurant and make triple what you do...back it up, baby.
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Posted: 10/27/2009 12:36:05 PM | kissmekindsir
LMAO......... your recent posts are pathetic. Who are you to pass judgement? Look at your half naked pictures on your profile. Are you a whore because you posted them for all to see?
Tell you what, why don't you put down your 2009 year old fairy tale book and join the real world. The fairy tale you bow down to is responsible for millions of deaths over the course of history all carried out in the name of one religion or another.
And so endeth the sermon. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2009 4:04:28 PM |
Just wanting to specify that I have completely given up the idea because I would not want to risk a relationship on this. But that judgment on the line of work of strippers is not the strippers fault but the society's fault... welcome to prejudices: that's what society is all about isn't it?
I think there's more than idle curiousity driving your inquiries, OP, and while you're tethered to you BF now, somethin' tells me that when he's gone, that unfulfilled drive is still gonna be with you. Take him to an "amateur night somewhere", make your arrangements to dance beforehand, buy him a slew of frosties, and as the evening wears on, you slip on-stage.
Oklahoma, of all places, buckle of the bible belt, legalized full nudity (you can look, but not touch) back in the '70's. Some co-workers and I took a friend to an up-scale place one day, and one of the dancers was a girl he had gone to college with a few years before. She was in med school, working her way through. She was gooooood, too!
 She arranged a lap dance for him, calling over some of the other working girls, and even joined in herself. No charge.
I'm pretty sure that experience is not anywhere on her resume. Lol | |
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Posted: 10/27/2009 4:04:37 PM |
*IF* one actually studied the Bible one may find that if one does stripping it ought to be for your husband or wife: and them ALONE/exclusively!
What is it with all the Bible thumpers hanging out in the Sex threads lately.
And their pictures are far more sluttly than those of us that actually do have sex!!
To hell w/ the strip clubs guys.....obviously there is more booby showing going on in Church these days!! | |
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