| Why Do Men Do This?
Posted: 4/25/2009 1:35:50 PM | I'm with jbking on this one..
If I get demoted to friendship when I think all is going well....or someone stops mailing..I'd like to know if it was something I said..or did I smell funny or what??...if I can just look at is as a bit of constructive criticism...and not be way to sensitive...then we all be fine...it is about them..not me..how i deal with it is my choice...
I actually love it when a guy has the ...uhm..guts..to ask why did I stop mailing...or even the guts to ask for a coffee date...love love love it!!!
Daisy;..thanks for the compliment..I also make a killer roast...lol...
And grey!!!...LOL...might be time to change the nick name again....???
nah!!
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| Why Do Men Do This?
Posted: 4/25/2009 2:02:41 PM | Why? Maybe your last email left nothing more to say. Maybe after so many emails between the two of you, he felt you weren't who he was looking for. Maybe he's been chatting with other women, and found one that really caught his attention, and is focused on her. Maybe he discovered through chatting with you, that your interests weren't the same, so why carry on. Maybe he felt you were smarter than him, and his male ego couldn't take it (or vice versa)
Whatever the reason, I don't understand why it matters. Perhaps he never emailed you a reason, as he felt he would spare your feelings. Perhaps he was sparing himself the task in producing negative feedback to someone he respects, but just isn't interested "that way". Maybe he has given reasons to other women, for it to blow up in his face with harsh, emotionally filled emails, and he chooses not to allow that to happen again.
Whatever the reason, NEEEEEXT!
Think that you are perfect for someone, it just wasn't him. | |
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| Why Do Men Do This?
Posted: 4/25/2009 3:23:20 PM | There is also the fact that sometimes, a person can't bring themselves to lie, yet knows that the truth hurts, or will hurt. Perhaps, they are unsure how to "let you down" gently? Or.... Maybe they are a serial dating douchebag? Who knows? Get back on the bike and keep trucking! | |
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| Why Do Men Do This?
Posted: 4/26/2009 1:02:42 AM | if you asked why i stopped communicating with you i will tell you, you are not what i'm looking for.
a) athletic body, and better sense of fashion is required....will you change any of that so that you might appeal to more women?
b) or would you be more apt to take the advice of those who will tell you, you are just fine it is their loss, because they truly don't know what a beautiful personality you have?
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| Why Do Men Do This?
Posted: 4/26/2009 7:26:26 AM | | maybe they quir emailing just cause you live in the wrong town..would have thought they read that in the profile to start,lol | |
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| Why Do Men Do This?
Posted: 4/26/2009 8:43:36 AM |
I know, it sounds sexist and I know women do this too.
It doesn't SOUND sexist, it IS sexist. Kinda funny how your very first line admits that your title is deceiving.
So, you want men to be straightforward with you, yet, right off the get-go, you're not being straightforward with us? | |
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| Why Do Men Do This?
Posted: 4/26/2009 4:20:07 PM | I find it highly amusing when someone picks on one item that's written. Perhaps I didn't know how to word it any other way. I also find it amusing that some actually thought he'd told me he wasn't interested. Emails written back and forth and then they just stop. I asked politely if I'd done something wrong. After a few more emails, the one this morning capped it off. There are better fish in the pond...  | |
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| Why Do Men Do This?
Posted: 4/29/2009 10:43:36 AM | | I have no fear of rejection and it is really good manners to say I am sorry but I no longer have the time, or I have met someone else , or whatever just be polite and say goodbye!! | |
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