| a man lies for sex
Posted: 4/28/2009 7:56:28 AM | | I hear loneliness. I also hear judgments being made by others about someone's loneliness. If you gave him what he wanted in 20 minutes time, I would say you are fragile and lonely..and need to discover the power and love for yourself within you before trying to find a man to love you. I myself do not have sex with strangers. I have been on this site for years and am still looking for the right one. Men travel a thousand miles to meet me, and I do not have sex with any of them. In fact they are told before they even come here that they will not get sex. If the man falls away, good for him. Good riddens. Learn to feel the power of NO! | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 11:05:55 AM | | Now let me get this straight, 20 mins from arrival to departure? Meaning he actually got in your pants (providing you were wearing any) within minutes of knocking on the door (providing the door was even closed)? Sounds like there is a lot more to this story than you choose to share, but in all honesty, I'm sure you realize, you have shared more than enough. The guy may be a louse, and I certainly don't condone his actions, but we are all responsible for our own bad choices. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 1:16:23 PM |
whatever happen to dating getting to know the lady treating her like a lady and then if it leads to that it does.
You answered your own question OP. If you had acted like a lady you would have been treated as such. However, to drop your pants within minutes of meeting someone is definitely NOT acting like a lady in my books. But I guess we all have a different definition of what it means to be a "lady" | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:29:34 AM | I've heard of speed dating .... What do you call this? OMG, trying not to be judgemental please tell me there is more to the story? Nev mind I don't want to know!
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Posted: 7/22/2009 4:57:38 AM |
we have a man on here on plenty of fish that is nothing but filled with lies just to get what he wants. he will spend 20 minutes tops with you and the get what he wants and get into his truck and leave. he left me standing here in a daze wondering what and why he did that to me. he has on his profile how he does not want an intimate encounter and how he just want some woman to love him and that could not be further from the truth.
He has the power to do this because women are enabling him to do so.
Women are not mindless, powerless victims and need to take responsibility for their feelings when they choose to damage themselves by acting as though they are. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 5:19:47 AM | | If he spent 20 minutes tops with you and got what he wanted, he must be reallllly goooood............ | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 7:27:30 AM | What are you, 14? I am not believing what I am reading. You "gave him what he wanted" within 20 minutes of meeting him, and you seriously, honestly believed he was just looking for someone to "love" him? I guess he has a different definition of "love" than the rest of us! You weren't used and abused, you allowed him to do what he did to you.
Next time make him wait at least an hour before hopping into the sack...then you'll have a better idea of his "true" intentions. (eyeroll)
<div class="quote">he will say anything to you to get you in bed. There's nothing, and I mean nothing, that any man alive could say to me to talk me into bed within 20 minutes of meeting him. And if I were you, I wouldn't be broadcasting to the entire world that you are that naive! | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 12:45:31 PM | personally i've never told a lie online.. i swear on my 14inch penis...
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Posted: 7/22/2009 1:42:45 PM | | A man will do just about anything for sex.They will have sex with anything walking.Thay are the hunters they have to conquer.No man would get me to have sex in 20 minutes I have to be in a serious committed relationship to have sex with any one.Sex means nothing to me with out love and being in a committed relationship.Just having sex with out those things makes you feel empty and alone. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 2:59:35 PM | The OP has a restriction on her site that you must be 45 to contact her.
The thread is a few months old....but it is possible she contacted him to start this off.
Look, I agree with the desperate and lonely theory and should give the OP a break on this. Just.....OP.....don't do it again. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 3:57:36 PM |
we have a man on here on plenty of fish that is nothing but filled with lies just to get what he wants. he will spend 20 minutes tops with you and the get what he wants and get into his truck and leave. he left me standing here in a daze wondering what and why he did that to me. he has on his profile how he does not want an intimate encounter and how he just want some woman to love him and that could not be further from the truth. if he ever makes it big in the music world he will be found out about cause i intend to tell the whole truth about him. i was seriously abused and used by this man and you girls just better be on the look out for his ways. he has a lot of charisma and he knows just what to say on the web site of his. he is only wanting one thing and that is to have sex with you. nothing more matters to him. he says it relieves his stress. he says he is high in the sex department. he does not really want anything to do with a real relationship he just want you for just the one thing. there are so many on here like that and i just cannot stand that. whatever happen to dating getting to know the lady treating her like a lady and then if it leads to that it does. there is not a man on here i am feeling that is really worht my time cause that is all they want. just look out for this one man girls. his name i will keep to myself for now. you will know him when you run into him. he says all he wants is to be loved such a laugh. he is into music and he has a way of making you want to answer him back. he is 36 years of age. just stay away from him unless you are looking for this very same thing long term he is not about even though he says he is. he will say anything to you to get you in bed.
Oh, great. Lots of women like this. Must Not Be Looking For Intimate Encounter, but when they show up, you shovel the pork into the barrel with Guinness world-record speed. And then it's all "OMIGOD! OMIGOD! I was lied to! I'm such a victim!"
That's a stupid, deceitful game, and if you play it, then don't act all shocked when someone shows up who can do it better than you. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 4:49:52 PM | REALLY????? a man lying through his ever-loving teeth for sex??????
Wow. Now I have heard it all!   | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 5:29:18 AM | TWENTY MINUTES???
And you call yourself a "lady"???? omfg .. Not only that - You (OP) are NOT a child! You are 57! At least that's the age you list.. omg omg ..
# 1 - You are Not a lady - that requires acting in a Ladylike manner. Having a couple 'body parts' does Not a "lady" make.
# 2 - You have now advertised yourself as 'easy', niaive ..
# 3 - I hope to God you used protection .. however .. it is doubtful that someone who would put out so fast and without Thinking would Think about 'That" .. so..
# 4 - Go get tested for STD's
# 5 - If you have ANY children- You MUST talk to them immediately - tell them that you have unhealthy / immature notions about male/female relations and that they Must speak to a trained professional, a public health nurse, Dr. Ruth or even Jerry Springer!
OMG - I can't stop shaking my head on this one .. What kind of Woman puts out after 20 minutes??? Nevermind .. I know the answer to that.
If You are putting out so fast and easy
If You have no Self Respect or boundaries
Then it is You who is responsible for providing your body as a receptacle for stray sperm - Your fault, Your responsibility.
No one to blame but yourself. Leave the guys alone.
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Posted: 7/23/2009 10:41:18 AM | No offense, but a 36 year old going after a woman 20 years his senior?? Did he escape from the mental ward? Why not go after young / hotter women (sorry, speaking the truth here) like men USUALLY DO?????
I feel sorry for you and him simultaneously for the same 20 minute sexual encounter, ironically. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 11:13:44 AM | 20 minutes???????? Dang, it would take me longer than that to finish my Big Mac, Fries and a Drink I'd at least make him buy me.
I'm not trying to be mean and I'm sure it came across that way so I apologize. My words to you are to have more self-respect for yourself than to do something like this with a stranger within 20 minutes. If for no other reason than to be medically safe. You have no idea if he was infected with Herpes or some other STD that might grab ahold of you and not let go!!!! | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 11:55:24 AM | OH MY GOD R U BEING SERIOUS !!!!
im not sure what to laugh at first .....
the fact your so easy that he got u in the sack after 20 minutes of meeting
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the fact it only took 20 mins to get undressed have sex & leave
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Posted: 7/23/2009 2:05:30 PM | | Let's re-define that original post to say "a man will PUT UP WITH A LOT to get sex". While it's not all about sex, if we're NOT getting sex, and putting out a lot of effort and getting exhausted "getting to know you", you better believe we'll be looking elsewhere. I think we should all go see the movie "The Ugly Truth". | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 2:45:49 PM | He got in your pants in 20 minutes?
Hmm...so you met a Starbucks, got a coffee, screwed on the couch , finished the coffee and he left? | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 6:41:07 PM | | I'm sorry, but I hate to say this, but perhaps much like you have you are a few extra pounds he says he is looking for long term. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2009 7:30:47 PM | You answered your own question OP. If you had acted like a lady you would have been treated as such. However, to drop your pants within minutes of meeting someone is definitely NOT acting like a lady in my books. But I guess we all have a different definition of what it means to be a "lady"
^^^LOL Truthfully, there's nothing wrong with a girl dropping her pants and spreading her legs within minutes of meeting her. But in her case, I agree. If she had acted like a lady from the start, then she would have been treated like one. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2009 8:27:22 PM | | Sorry to hear that, but you have to think of it this way. If you were a man and you were able to get in a womans pants after 20 minutes, would you really want something more with that person? He probably figured if you slept with him that quickly, you were probaly sleeping with everyone on the site within 20 minutes. If you wait a little bit, you will be more respected and find someone more respectable. I think you are just as much at fault. Your responsible for yourself and the choices you make. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2009 9:56:12 PM | Let me get this straight, you started a thread about a 36 year old man who took 20 minutes to make you to drop your drawers and spread your legs and you're b1tching about this man because you had sex with him, ooooh the boor bugger lied , oh boooooohoooooo hoooooo
dont we sound like a classy woman? Good lord.
Who looks stupid now? you're 57 years old, how stupid are you ? did you at least let him pay for dinner before he did the horizontal boogie with you? do you know many almost 60 year old women wanting a long term relationship from a 36 year old man?
I will give you a hint,some men will lie to get a little leg, if your stupid enough to fall for it, dont blame him, A dog is a dog, if it walks like a dog, smells like a dog, sh1ts like dog, you dont feed it cat food | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 12:15:46 PM | I don't get how women who like to play cougar gets disappointed when a man walks away after a bit of a jig...more so when it only took him 20 minutes. Hell, my record was 3 hours, after I chose my preferences and sealed the deal (no I didn't haggle)....
Cougars and milfs looking for love....now that's funny. I just had a visual of you standing in the snow wondering what the heck, as he sped off in his truck and left you looking stranded....ooops that actually did happen, pmsl. | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 12:35:28 PM | how about the ones that ask you to be in an exclusive relationship.
At first tripping over his feet and than blames it on you that he doesn't like constant testing. I thought that's how you get to know someone. He called it testing, I called
it getting to know you. alot of bottom dwellers with both woman and men
well he is going to be constantly fishing . be careful out there
I'm pretty skiddish now. But It wasn't after 20 minutes | |
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Posted: 10/11/2009 3:46:56 PM | OP, I feel for you-that sounds terrible. I would also like to add, that somehow women think they can just be passive and everything will always work out in their favor-evidence of women's complaints in the forums all stems from the consequences of having this attitude while dating. Sisters, we need to get it that it is our responsibility to ACTIVELY screen prospective dates. Having healthy boundaries and self- respect was not something they taught in school. Many learned the hard way. Especially on the internet, it is best to not assume ANYTHING about someone. Ask the questions and watch the actions. Moving too fast is usually the prelude to these types of situations. Learning to say 'No thank You' is as important as Thank You!One of the best things any single woman can do is get really clear on what kind of guy she is looking for and stick to her plan. I hope your hurt feelings lessen soon OP | |
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