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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 10/16/2009 4:54:40 AM |
he will spend 20 minutes tops with you and the get what he wants and get into his truck and leave. he left me standing here in a daze wondering what and why he did that to me.
WOW...you need some serious help!
...but what do I know? | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:00:47 AM | | After reading the again it appears you gave in 20 minutes because he started wispering nonthings to you, all the bad mouthing you are proclaiming just states you agreed to do the dirty deed but resent he was in it for sex. So not much lost or gained except 20 minutes. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:09:03 AM |
he is 36 years of age. just stay away from him unless you are looking for this very same thing long term he is not about even though he says he is. he will say anything to you to get you in bed.
He is 36 and you are 57 please tell me who was used. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:19:14 AM |
he will spend 20 minutes tops with you and the get what he wants and get into his truck and leave.
I'm thinking this may have just may have been a BJ and you never dropped your bloomers. According to Bill Clinton that was not sex. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:15:58 PM |
Wow! You're pretty pathetic OP. Considering your age one would think you'd know better.
What a buzz kill!!!!!
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:25:25 PM | I am truly so sorry for your experience. Unfortunately though that is the case a lot of the times. Sometimes it can be hard to tell the good ones from the bad ones. HOWEVER though, it does take two to tango,-so to speak. So even though I know it can be easy to fall for someones lies, you have to take part of the responsiblility.
Learn from this and grow-be smarter/wiser and realize people do lie.
I truly wish you well and hope if this guy is a true scumbay, in the end he will get what he deserves,. Meanwhile, you will have grown and become a lot better and wiser person. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:23:28 PM | | As a general rule, men fake love to get sex, and women fake sex to get love. Both are fakes. The exceptions to the rule-men who really want love, and women who really enjoy sex-are few, and far between. The only way to find what you want is to keep looking. You have to look through a lot of rocks to find a valuable gem. Dating the occasional jerk is the price of admission to the search field. Better luck next time. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:48:44 PM | I generally try to be gentle and compassionate in my forum posts, but you are over the top lady... Have you been living under a rock? You post is just so utterly ridiculous, I can hardly believe it was written by a 60 yr old woman!
First of all, reasonable adults realize that there are PEOPLE (that's right, some women lie too) who lie and manipulate to get what they want from others without giving anything in return. It has been this way since the beginning of time, and will continue until long after all of us are dead and gone. Why you think this is shocking news is beyond me....
I looked at your profile... it's filled with "super sexy" pictures of you lying on your bed, just begging for someone to come over and do exactly what he did. And you boinked him after spending 20 minutes with him, but now you're mad that he doesn't respect you, or find you worthy of pursuing a relationship with? Pardon me, Ma'am, but if you wish to be treated like a lady, you must first ACT like one. Holy moly woman, that kiddo could have been your son! And who are you to say what his thoughts or true desires are? All you know is that he has no interest in a relationship with YOU.
if he ever makes it big in the music world he will be found out about cause i intend to tell the whole truth about him.
You are totally delusional woman! As if anyone really gives a shit if he banged some old skank that spread her legs in 20 minutes? You need to step off the victim bus and answer your clue phone. The only thing you are a victim of is your own desperation and poor decision making skills. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2009 6:07:23 PM | These responses are the most disgusting ones I have read here yet.
Not everyone is so wise that they know what to do when approached by
an emotional predator.
Believe it or not there are innocent naive people in the world who believe
everything they are told. I think this woman ran into a predator who
took advantage of her lack of experience.
Try to be compassionate human beings people, I know it goes against your
instincts.
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Posted: 11/12/2009 8:11:15 PM | | OP, yes people lie. It is your responsibility to take reasonable precautions to protect yourself. It doesn't matter where or how you meet a man. It doesn't matter how much older or younger he is. NEVER invite him to your home when first meeting him. If you seek a relationship then have one. Take your time getting to know the person. Introduce him to your friends, meet his friends, in a PUBLIC place, not your place or his place. Only when you are confident that you can trust him do you agree to be alone with him. There are plenty of men who will treat you well if you follow these suggestions. This includes young men if that is your preference. I have dated someone on and off for the past 3 years. He is now 30. When we first met I mentioned that I am much older than he is. He said he didn't care. He didn't even ask my age for more than 2 years. I have not had sex with him, yet. He still persues. He may yet win my heart (or at least my "attention"). He is very handsome, but I have to be very sure of a man's character before the relationship can go further. I hope this helps you gain a better understanding of how to conduct yourself to avoid a repeat preformance. Good luck in your quest for a relationship. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 11/12/2009 8:35:12 PM |
we have a man on here on plenty of fish that is nothing but filled with lies just to get what he wants
Just one! I would have thought it a much higher ratio than that!
Before you get off your soap box though I could tell you way worse story's I have been part of involving a woman with about the same morals.
PS OP That is not a POF thing that is a "life thing" so maybe you should be more cautious and brush up a tad on reading people and maybe, just maybe, use the aspirin held between your knees trick for at least the first hour if not the first date!
Many years ago when I was dating really often you hardly ever got a woman wanting sex on the first or second date and most of the time it was months. Now it is common and if you aren't wanting to go that fast they get really pushy. I have met quit a few women here and I would say 75% I could have had on the second date as they brought it up. Several I could have went to bed with them on the first date.
I really don't get women today and the total lack of respect they have for themselves. Do women really feel they have to give it up by the second date to keep a guy interested? | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 11/12/2009 11:12:29 PM |
people tend to lie to get what they want. since we can't control them, let's focus on controlling ourselves.
sorry, but........who's fault is it really if we let ourselves be used?
I think this post pretty much sums up what I think. | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 11/13/2009 5:16:50 AM | i wonder why the don't have a place for old posts to go and die peacefully not to be resurrected months later.....
just because sometimes a person may post something they would really really see die.... | |
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| a man lies for sex
Posted: 11/13/2009 10:19:06 AM | I needed this.
Feeling a little "down" right now.
You've made me laugh, shake my head in dismay, and be very happy that I am who I am.
And everyone else within ear shot enjoyed it too.
Now, I'm fighting them off....everyone has a comment, and screaming them at me!
I had more fun with your sex than you did.      | |
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