| why am I so angry?
Posted: 10/23/2009 6:32:03 AM | | Listen brother, go to a divorce care class. Divorcecare.org. There is one running in your area now. | |
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| why am I so angry?
Posted: 10/23/2009 8:54:22 AM | YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF DICTATES HOW YOU FEEL TOWARDS OTHERS REGARDLESS OF THE PAIN OR FAULTS OTHERS HAVE..
Dont be discouraged though we all go thru this type of things from time to time..
LIVE LOVE AND LAUGH AS IF TODAY WERE YOUR LAST....
IT JUST MIGHT BE AND YOU DAMN SURE DONT WANNA WAISTE RIGHT NOW ON BEING ANGRY ABOUT YESTERDAY....
IT WILL CERTAINLY KEEP YOU FROM YOUR LOVING BLISSFULNESS...
PEACE AND RESPECT
WISHING LOVE AND ALL GREEN LIGHTS TO YOU AND YOURS... | |
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| why am I so angry?
Posted: 10/23/2009 10:43:05 AM | | I know you guys have read the phases of greiving....anger is one of them. Anger is quite healthy as it reformats our brains minus the exshausting tears of dibelief and lastly dispare. What concerns me greatest is when people stay stuck in anger...healing never comes about and further wreckage occurs ( seriously listen). I know hurting sucks and all of us have been through it, so in that sense you are not alone. There are many injustices to this ole world don't let this be the one to hang you or keep you stuck unhappily. | |
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| why am I so angry?
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:50:52 AM | | Why the hell did you allow her to cheat on you on THREE ocassions?? | |
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| why am I so angry?
Posted: 10/23/2009 2:30:20 PM | Dude, She is a crap and he is crap.
Dont worry about the dumb 19 year old punk. HA, he prob doesnt even have a 9 dollar an hour job!(and that isnt even stable anyways). He is too young and your kids will see him come and go. TRUST ME! he is a punk and you dont need to worry about him. He will find some other young girl to toy with after he is done with your wife. As with your wife. What she done upon you will be done upon her 10 fold You deserve WAY BETTER than her!! PERIOD. Keep your cool becuase this will eventually lead to divorce court! Dont jepordize your kids time for some punk ass 19 year old that doesnt have a clue about anything in this world. I recently been through a bad custody battle and had another man move in on my family. I know how it feels man. yeah, I am 25 but still dude....I have been there. DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!!!
the anger will subside eventually, just learn to take it one day at a time and it will get easier. Once you make peace with yourself and make peace with her things will be much easier and her punk ass boyfriends wont bother you as much. I hope this helps! | |
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| why am I so angry?
Posted: 10/23/2009 7:33:04 PM | I would be seriously concerned about my children living in a situation like that. A nineteen-year-old has zero parenting skills. Who knows what might be going on in front of the kids. Have you looked into trying to get custody? | |
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| why am I so angry?
Posted: 10/24/2009 3:46:52 PM | | Dude...I know why you are so angry. You said it all in the post. I would not be angry, I would be furious. That being said, keep going to the therapist (you need it!) and don't allow your wife's behaviour to rule your emotions. Think of your children first. | |
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| why am I so angry?
Posted: 10/24/2009 9:18:24 PM | what the two of you are doing to this boy and your children is a moral crime.
He is rebound/revenge guy - she's using him to get to you and guess what? it's working
Sounds like this kid is invested in this whole game - it happens alot - he's going to get hurt - she's using him. She doesn't love him - she doesn't love you - she doesn't even love herself - but all of that doesn't matter - that's HER problem now.
Your problem is your children and your sanity. In that order.
you're not mad at this boy - he's an innocent pawn - what has he done to you? has he harmed your children?
Be civil to him - around your children or not - YOU be the bigger person
therapy is not a bad idea if you cannot control yourself. myself, I prefer meditation when I feel angry or frustrated.
THE MAIN THING IS THE CHILDREN.. .put your focus on your children and their well being .. forget this woman - she is STRICTLY POISON ...
heal yourself - cherish your children and enjoy life - it's too short to be miserable over pond scum
Good luck! | |
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