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Posted: 4/28/2009 6:24:36 PM |
I'm a little surprised that you associated tongue with getting naked
ACK!! I don't associate it with getting naked. Thats how it was viewed when I was a teenageer and I was wondering its that still holds true. | |
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| Do men and women really enjoy wet sloppy kisses?
Posted: 4/28/2009 10:25:59 PM | raredawn :I see...perhaps you should describe a real French Kiss. When I was young it meant sticking tongues as far inside the mouth as possible .....yech!
Not sure whom this was directed at, but I and a couple other people did describe what a legit French kiss is or should be. And yes it slow like butter melting on a hot day. Or what amethyst10616 described.
As one Internet site notes:
1.Freshen your breath. You never want to have bad breath when you are about to kiss someone, whether the kiss is a French kiss or not. Because your mouth will be open in a French kiss, fresh breath is especially important. Practice good dental hygiene. Carry mints with you if you think there is even so much as a hint of a chance you might kiss. Avoid foods that leave an unpleasant aftertaste or residue, particularly garlic, onions, milk, and corn
2.Moisten your lips. Dry lips do not move well together, but you do not want them to be dripping wet either. Just a light brush of your tongue over your lips will be sufficient to moisten them. A little bit of lip balm can help, too, but be warned, lipstick can be awfully messy so blot before you kiss.
3.Angle your head. If your mouths meet dead-on, your noses will get in the way, and you will not be able to kiss deeply or smoothly. To avoid this, tilt your head slightly to one side. Make sure you do not both tilt your heads to the same side.
4.Close your eyes. As you approach for the kiss, look into your partner's eyes, but, once you are close to theirs, close your eyes. It can be a bit of a turnoff to be kissing and going cross-eyed .
5.Start with a gentle and soft closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss, but do not lunge in with your lips agape like you're going to eat them; instead, open your lips very slowly. If you were learning to speak French, you would probably start with the basics, vocabulary and grammar, before trying to write poetry. Well, the French kiss is like the poetry of kissing, and before you can be good at it, you have to master the closed-mouth kiss. Even after you have added French kissing to your romantic repertoire, it is usually better to start a kiss with closed lips.
6.Go Dutch on the decision to French. Kissing should be a shared decision. You need to have permission to French kiss someone, but when your lips are locked with your theirs you may want to stop and ask, "Hey, this is great, but can I put my tongue in your mouth?" If that doesn't work out, open your lips slowly and just a little during the kiss so that one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss. If your partner's tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.
7.Explore with your tongue. If you and your partner seem to be enjoying the open-mouth kiss, slowly try to open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act of touching your partner's tongue with your own will be very pleasant and stimulating for each of you. Do not stick your tongue too far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues.
8.Mix it up. Kisses are like snowflakes: no two are exactly the same. Once you finally feel comfortable French kissing someone, it is tempting to try to do the same thing every time. Add variety. Sometimes kiss deeper, for example, and other times pay more attention to the lips than the tongue. Hold the kiss longer or shorter and explore the art of kissing. When something feels good for each of you, do not abandon it for the sake of variety.
9.Read body language. Everybody kisses a little differently, and each person enjoys different things in a kiss - there is no "right" way to kiss. What separates good kissers from bad is an ability to read a partner's body language and be responsive to their partner. Of course if your partner pulls away or seems uncomfortable at any time, understand that you have to slow it down. Listen for cues that tell how much your partner is enjoying a particular kissing maneuver. If you hear a sigh or moan, or they begin kissing you back with increased intensity, realize that they are responding with fervor.
10.Develop your style. Good French kissing, like good kissing of any kind, requires practice. You will get better as you do it more. In addition, the more practice you have with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing them and developing a style that suits both of you. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2009 11:31:57 PM | I remember the "french" kisses from high school days. We were learning how to kiss in general. French kissing was considered the ultimate kind of kissing back then, early sixties. And it was something akin to sex. (high school mentality). Today high school kids apparantly engage in Oral sex and don't consider it sex!?? How times have changed.
when I was 16 or 17 and had never had sex... I thought the deep crude french kissing was really something. Trying to stick your tounge as far down the girl's throat as possible, and her doing the same to you. That was our "oral" sex. ha. But as I matured and refined my practices, I didn't really care for the deep tounge lunges anymore...still don't. something a little too invasive about it. A very gentle little tounge work is nice. Not deep and invasive, but soft and extremely gentle... and more like an extension of your fingers.
If I encounter a woman who at a mature age still likes to plunge her tounge down to my tonsils.... it turns me off, quite frankly. Whoa there! But then, I don't like the bloody scratches on my back either! Har! | |
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Posted: 4/29/2009 3:16:05 AM | | Kissing either makes it or breaks it for myself.....long sloppy wet kisses just gag me. If someone is spitting in my mouth during a kiss its over.....french kissing is wonderful just don't spit........Ewwwww | |
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Posted: 4/29/2009 9:28:47 PM | Pinebreeze it sounds like we went to the same school...lived in the same neighborhood.
I agree with you. And the scratching thing? More juvenile BS right out of high school. | |
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Posted: 4/30/2009 6:24:31 PM | Raredawn,
Have you considered some of these men may not have dated much since high school and are as inexperienced as you are (but much less likely to admit it). If you like the guy, why not give him an idea what you prefer? Better yet, demonstrate. Guys aren't born knowing how to be good kissers anymore than you were. | |
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Posted: 5/1/2009 12:56:38 AM | I really think kissing has to do with who I'm kissing....a kissing compatibility, if you will. I very much believe in sexual compatibility, and I guess kissing is part of that. A great kisser means nothing to me if he is not someone I really, really want to be kissing. Same goes for a so-called 'great lover.' Slobbery kissing though....that would not be compatible, pretty sure of that.....ick | |
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| Do men and women really enjoy wet sloppy kisses?
Posted: 5/1/2009 6:17:39 PM | Golden retrievers are over-rated in the slobbery kissing department.
For really good slobbery kisses, go for a St. Bernard.
Although Golden Retrievers are much better at playing Frisbee.
On the other hand, a well-bred St. Bernard always has a cask of brandy hung on his/her collar.
Tough choices!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/1/2009 6:48:52 PM | As I am French, I was delighted to see this response ZenBeth... which hits the nail right on the head as to french kissing... Merci! :hug: :
Do you even know what a real French kiss is? It sure isn't slobbery. It's French for a reason.
Because its slow and starts with soft kisses on the lips, that are savoured. And each partner reads the others body language. Fact is anyone who has been in France and have seen couples kissing along the waterways of Paris or rural areas, knows the kissing goes on for a long time.
The sex, if it goes there, is often hours later. C'est tres vrai!
Je voudrais me trouver à vos pieds et mourir dans des vos bras have meaning. ** sigh ** Got that right, Zen Beth ... Comme j'ai dit avant: Un grand baiser transcende des mots.
Sensual deep feeling kisses are a must for me. Moiiii aussi... :up: | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 7:55:14 AM | Well Dawn its a pretty good bet that if your slopping slobbers on a date that you are at least thinking along those lines. I think any sexual practice is ok between adults so long as both enjoy it and are ok doing it, no pressure. Lack of agreement on something like that is the real issue. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 1:11:51 PM | | Kissing is one of my favorite things. NO! I don't like wet, open mouthed, tongue with a mind of it's own kissing. But done correctly, slow soft and sensual, there's almost nothing better. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 3:02:55 PM | | Wet sloppy kisses? I don't enjoy a man leaving my face wet--that isn't a good french kiss--he needs to learn to kiss better--I have had some men kiss so wet they slobber all over my face--n0t sexy. BUT, a real french kiss, with soft lingering kisses on the lips, building to open mouth clinging kisses, then venturing to exploring each other's mouths more deeply and slowly--oh yeah, I definitely enjoy those. A good kisser is a very important to me--if he can't kiss, it's hard to get really into him. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 3:21:43 PM | If I have just had one date with a man, he might get a chaste kiss on the lips. On the other hand, if we have been out several times and are clearly into each other, he will get a passionate, hot, curl your toes kind of kiss. For me, the only passionate kiss is the one where the tongues are practically dueling, there is no face washing or nose swiping (yuck!!). One memorable kiss from a new guy left me so hot and bothered I felt as if he were undressing me with his mouth, lol!!! He is still the best kisser I have ever encountered. 
Dear Raedawn, I sort of feel sorry for you that you think of French kissing as passé and somewhat repulsive. In my mind, if a guy continues to give me those brief, brotherly kisses after a few dates, I begin to wonder if he is "just not that into me." | |
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Posted: 5/2/2009 3:51:24 PM |
Deep kissing is a must when in the heat of the moment, but....there are men who want to stick their tongue in your mouth right off the start and that is Ewwww......!!!!! The hormones must have had time to heat up!
Now ain't that a fact!
However the Swine 'Flu may have made all this accademic.
Which brings my thoughts to the other end .... I wonder if you can get the 'flu from kissing ... well, you know ... | |
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