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 xchuck

Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 51
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/23/2004 7:30:14 AM
may that be because she's 45 and looks like she 60. Born eurupeon your opinion sucks
 internetainment

Joined: 10/22/2004
Msg: 52
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/23/2004 7:58:26 AM
after coming out of a relationship with an older woman
i found that they know what they want
are willing to try new things
and have a lot of experience and knowledge to share
i think though, that the most rewarding part is
that with there being a large age gap
there is always something that you can teach the other person
and new experiences with a partner is always exciting
 nb_native

Joined: 10/2/2004
Msg: 53
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Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/24/2004 1:14:17 PM
lol.. way to go Krypto lol. I like when men teach me things also :) lol...
 nb_native

Joined: 10/2/2004
Msg: 54
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Posted: 10/24/2004 6:02:53 PM
Isn't sure lol....not sure what i don't already know yet lol
 heath2004

Joined: 10/24/2004
Msg: 55
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/24/2004 8:34:56 PM
wow, that was pretty insulting to suggest older women are FLATTERED by being with a younger guy.
Most women my age that I know are very secure...both mentally and financially. The draw for women is that a young guy is more apt to be as physically fit as we are (for those of us who work out and take pride in our appearance)...as opposed to alot of 50ish men who are fat and flabby and bitter about their dirvorces. Problem with a younger guy is that they haven't yet acquired life experiences to keep it mentally stimulating.

As for you, Joe, sounds like you had some bad experiences or let downs to make such negative comments...
 heath2004

Joined: 10/24/2004
Msg: 56
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/24/2004 8:36:11 PM
good girl, alarmed
 heath2004

Joined: 10/24/2004
Msg: 57
 heath2004

Joined: 10/24/2004
Msg: 58
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/24/2004 8:38:45 PM
great response...
 Sexyman840484

Joined: 10/18/2004
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Posted: 10/24/2004 8:56:08 PM
Man, there's way too many synical a** anwers on here, so I'll give my take. Every young guy wants an older women, because its a challenge. Women just aren't genarally into younger guys, and that makes them more appealing, more fun to chase, because your not really expecting it to work anyway, so you can relax and have fun and flirt better. Reason #2: Older women are MUCH better in bed, at least in my very limited experience. They're a bit deaper, more thoughtful and funner to talk to than less immature girls. And , even though they're not easy at all, They still like flirting, and don't shoot guys down as harshly as some younger women. I mean, they at least let me think I have a chance LoL. For whatever reason, seeing a really sexy 30 something women is just far better than even a better looking 20 year old. Forbidden fruit? The unatainable, I guess. Anyway, don't listen to these older guys trying to tell you young guys suck, and they're so much better. They're just trying to get down your pants just like us!LOL. BYe
 joe333

Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 60
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/24/2004 9:38:35 PM
heath2004
Yeah right all women are in fit shape and all guys get fat and flabby.
I think it is more the other way around.
Just being so called 'fit' dosen't make a woman attractive nor sexy at all.
that much I do know.
Cmon to suggest women don't get flattered, except the philosophical, mental giants,
and athenas' that frequent here,generally speaking.
If an attractive younger woman comes on to me, I am flattered, plain and simple.
You'd have to be not human,,,, or dead never to be flattered.
The greatest lovers of time have been pure flaterers (how ever you spell it)(I am sure it will get corrected)
Read the posts, how many talk of sex and being flattered,generally speaking.
My comments are observations, but not of you, generally speaking.
But then again what do I know, all my experiences have been "bad"
I have had many "letdowns"
Oh was that you looking over my shoulder.
Maybe I will learn something new... or maybe not, maybe I am too old.
Help my leg is cramping.....
Help I fell down and I can't get up.
My beer belly is suffocating my flab.
generally speaking.
 chachie

Joined: 9/1/2004
Msg: 61
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/24/2004 10:29:03 PM
I always thought there was something wrong with me, none of my co-workers, or old friends seem to feel the same way about older women. I really thought it was some kind of fetish I had,,

Growing up in the 80's Illustrated/animated some of the unfairness and sexism that older women endured with older men. It's almost like a generational thing. I can assure you a 25 year old is not going to get angry at a girl for "not making the coffee too hot/cold" like a 47 year old man might.

I'm guessing the best/real answer would be some of Sexyman's answers;
--- much better in bed
--- more deep, thoughfull,"funner to talk to"

Internetainment's answers;
--- willing to try new things
--- experience and knowledge to share
--- There's always something that you can teach each other

and Pamness was right on the money
 nb_native

Joined: 10/2/2004
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Posted: 10/25/2004 10:24:05 PM
Wow.. thanx everyone. I didn't think this thread would get so heated. But glad that people are able to express themselves. I myself am very secure in who I am and love men in general.. as long as they r good looking to me and treat me like the woman I am. I could go on and on about what else I am looking for... but that is a totally other thread lol. Thanx again to everyone who has posted so far :)... ciao
 Clarence

Joined: 3/2/2004
Msg: 63
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/26/2004 11:16:42 AM
I'm 24 years old and I like older women because they know what they want from a man and they would tell you actually tell you what type of man they are looking for and they know how to treat a man and their body in my opinion,what do you have to say about that ladies on the net?
 indigorose33

Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 64
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/26/2004 8:37:57 PM
Whoa Joe,
Is that what you really think? Sounds like sour grapes to me! I most always date younger men why? Because I can!!! And...they are fun, tight.... and don't need Viagera ! Oh and you get what you pay for..too funny !
 joe333

Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 65
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/26/2004 9:26:36 PM
indigorose33
now you are ssssssssssssssssss....HOT!
owch
I bet you make good sauce.
ciao
 VanillaSky

Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 66
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/26/2004 10:03:07 PM
Could it be that "older" women like "younger" men? I am 40, and it seems only women from 20 to 30, 0r 45+ talk with me. My wife was 9 years my senior, and she was hot!!! I just want to be in a family structure again...
 catchmeifucan

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 67
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/27/2004 8:10:14 AM
nb native, I have not dated an older woman but true to your word, wouldn't mind to go out with her.To me it's she is experienced and knows what she wants and i am definitely going to learn a thing or two from her. I am not saying that younger girls don't know what they want,it's just that older women are more experienced and usually mean what they say. If she wants something she will ask you.

NB. Some young girls could do this but chances are slimer, but that's just MY thinking
 boredcountryboy

Joined: 9/4/2004
Msg: 68
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Posted: 10/27/2004 8:19:53 AM
the reason i like older women?? confidence over arrogance....

young girls seem to be either uptight (prudish) or arrogant that they are gods gift to men, which can be fun sometimes too but...

the older gals seem to have a confidence with out the arrogance.... they actually know a few tricks in pleasing a man in and out of bed and know what they have to offer
 catchmeifucan

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 69
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/27/2004 8:25:49 AM
Alarmed, Truthfully , i am dying to me to date an older woman, for me it goes beyond the money. It's the fact that older women are just sure about themselves, they will say what they mean, no time for games, am not saying that younger girls don't know what they want, it's they are more likely to play games. As for the money thing, that one, it doesn't scare me at all!!
 catchmeifucan

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 70
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Posted: 10/27/2004 8:33:53 AM
Frenchy, this guy said everything that i hadn't said before, it's all there. I met a girl on the net that was 10 years older, we are really close and hadn't it been for the geographical distance, we would have been onto each other like leeches. It's the "already done it all and seen it all" that is very attractive and that you can pick a thing or two. It's more like motherly (in an erotic way) , passionate strong care that they give.
 catchmeifucan

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 71
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Posted: 10/27/2004 8:39:25 AM
Lyons, that is what i was saying exactly, picking a thing or two, (by the way am 22, so if i smile at you will you marry me, lmao) . You get to learn how you can prolong it, trust me you are with an older woman for sometime by the time that you date a younger girl, you are a casanova. you are hot by the way!
 catchmeifucan

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 72
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 10/27/2004 8:50:07 AM
Native older women are beyond certain things that young girls are choosy about, they will keep whining this, that. An older woman will be part of the solution, she won't just look at you when something is going down. I just can't get out all the words to express how beautiful it is to date an older woman. Oh boy! have i realised that not so many younger girls have anything to say about this topic, lol. Come on girls, let's hear those views, scared???
 catchmeifucan

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 73
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Posted: 10/27/2004 8:53:01 AM
Pamness
Go girl, go!! i like that fire, see guys, this is the kinda thing that i was talking about, the fire!!
 catchmeifucan

Joined: 2/26/2004
Msg: 74
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Posted: 10/27/2004 9:24:07 AM
heath, i know what you mean by working , not so long ago i had my tummy bulging at this age!! i had to take it off which i did, i feel much better. Nothing like an attractive older woman, can i see you in a swim suit, lmao, you look really good. Older women have that intelligence that i die for too. wouldn't hink twice to date one
 nb_native

Joined: 10/2/2004
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Posted: 10/27/2004 4:03:02 PM
Wow.. thanx Catch for reading it all and making all the comments. I am sure all the older women on here have noticed the time u put into this... thanx again :)... Hope u find ur older woman :)
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