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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 12/6/2004 7:09:58 AM | | i say it all depends on what the girl/laddy/women have been through, it all goes to one thery if you ask me, Entertainment is the one thing all your life that makes people who they are, how far twisted they are and all sorts. i do find older wemon better my self but i do have a thing for girls my age too, its a personalitie thing is well i say, so what do you all think now? | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 5/29/2005 10:40:22 PM | | Well, I think it depends on the individual......but, I do see a trend, with both men and women. There are quite a few younger women going with older men, as well. Actually cimans, your perspective, being only 18.....is that there is a wider range of attractive "older" women. Tell me how you feel, when you get to my age. That will be when you start looking at younger women, because most of the available women ARE younger than you at that point. LOL. By the way, young man......what in the world does entertainment have to do with older women attracting younger men, and how do you think that it is the one thing, in all one's life, that makes people who they are?? Just trying to understand that line of reasoning..... | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 5/29/2005 10:52:33 PM | | I really appreciate the input from the younger men. I did notice that the older men all say the same kind of things about the older woman-younger man thing as my 49yo buddy....that " the reason younger men are interested iin older woman is because that is all they can get" No wonder we find younger men attractive!! | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 5/30/2005 3:24:38 AM | | let me put in my 2 cents.when i was younger older women played a key role in my learning how to treat a lady which served me well.now that i am older and and divorced and am carring all that good baggage with me i tend not to trust a female my age because she probubly has some baggage with her.or maybe its just because i got hurt and find it hard to trust any women.if i don't make sense ive been at work about 15 hours and am wearing down. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 5/30/2005 8:04:05 AM | Heck, I came across a woman that actually LOOKED YOUNGER than me. lol Turns out she told me she was 38 (5 years older), I swear, she looked in her late 20's. Probably because she's of South American decent, her skin was smoothe...little or no wrinkles...had the skin of a 20 year old..and of course exotic looking.
She found out my age, and as most older woman say this cliche'edr remark "Oh, you're just a baby!!"  That's another way of saying, "I prefer men my age"....but why? Why go after men your age or older when you LOOK AS YOUNG as the younger men who hit on you??
Some of these younger men probably hit on you, not even thinking you're 10 years older, they are only assuming that you as young as they are. lol | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 5/30/2005 8:04:29 AM | | who I ask the younger men who write me or hit on me what's the attraction. Their answers are...older women know what they want out of life and have established values, younger women just want a guy to take them out and drop a lot of money on them. Older women are more experienced in life, not just sex and have developed an intelligence about relationships that younger women don't have. Older women are more likely to be faithful whereas younger women will drop you the second a better looking guy or a guy with more money comes along. I'm not making this up, just telling you what I've gleaned from questioning my younger prospective suitors. I've never dated anyone more than 10 years younger, but I've gotten hit on and written to by many 20 somethings when most of my kids are that age. If I did date one of these guys, my kids would have me shot...haha not really but it would "gross them out". | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 5/30/2005 10:45:45 AM | I get hit on from both younger and older guys, but not many my true age. I look about 30-35, thanks to good genes, lots of sunblock, and comfort foods like pork rinds. (kidding, its the fresh fruit and other good food, plus power walking)
as for the younger guys, I think its because we already have the family and kids and lives, and they are looking for someone to be around, but not dissolve into. Or maybe its because we talk about other things they might like? | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 5/30/2005 11:25:16 AM | | Sometimes because many women my age go straight for middle aged men, thinking that age is a ranking of maturity. One of the reasons why I have tried hitting on older women was due to a lack of common interests between the girls my age (who I was meeting) and myself. I think I mainly wanted to experience something unique, where two people could bridge a generation gap. I didn't expect any sort of ever lasting romantic relationship to form, just something worth remembering that could give me a smile, later many years down the road... and hopefully for her as well. A young guy watches the graduate and gets all sorts of crazy ideas. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 5/30/2005 11:41:20 AM | | Though that was a woman who was twice my age. I don't consider a woman as an "older woman" unless she is at least 11 years my senior. I can easily see myself with someone between the ages of 18-30. Some people consider an "older" man or woman as one who is only a few years older than themselves, and decades for others. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 6:52:59 AM | TO NB NATIVE
hope you are fine and doing great, i just joined this forum and realy like you so much ,i am single and looking for a mature and older woman for a long and permanent relationship i have created my own thread or forum named LOOKING TO MARRY A OLD WOMAN ,i am waiting for your reply , | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 2:46:03 PM | I agree with Joe on to some extent...
In general, I could see where Older Single women (not the one that I know!) are looking for validation that they are still desireable. The young horney boys that are looking for sex are smart enough to know this so they take advantage of the situation that a reasonably attractive guy that a hottie would spurn is much more desireable to an older woman who may not have the luxury to do the same.
Good for both parties as long as they realize the limitations of the arrangement. I personally believe that age is not a factor if the two parties have other common ground in the relationship. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 2:51:31 PM | I get hit on by a lot of young men in their 20s. Most of them do it in a very rude and disrespectful manner, so they no response from me, or, if they keep it up, a hostile one. Sometimes men who are much older then I am will hit on me, too, but I'm not interested. I'd prefer somone around my own age.
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 2:53:21 PM | | joe Another man with a gigolo mentality. Easy sex is easier to get from a younger woman, overall, they are more eager to be accepted and affirmed and can be talked into having to sleep with a man to keep him. Older woman know that's a bunch of garbage and will kick that one to the curb. There are many younger women who are much more mature than that and I'm sure there are some older women that would have sex with a young guy just for the fun of it. I've had lots of 20 somethings hit on me, they say it's because I'm intelligent and sophisticated, and they enjoy spending time with me. Never slept with a one of them though. Not even tempting to me. I can talk to them about nearly everything and they like to hear what I have to say, plus I have a sharp sense of humor, so I can keep a conversation interesting and make them laugh at the same time. The attraction for younger men is that they're more appreciative of your qualities as a person and your experience in life. Any decent man's sincere attention is flattering and older women are usually much more secure and sure of themselves than younger women are. I don't know where you're getting your information, if it's a magazine, I'd burn it, because you are WAY off base. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 2:59:12 PM | | roaul I shy away from men my age or older, they're usually dull and have the couch potatoe thing going on big time. They don't like to go and do things, forget suggesting a game of tennis, I even have spare rackets. They want to go out to a club and sit and drink or stay home and sit and watch a movie. Younger men are full of new ideas and places they want to go and have new experiences and I'm NOT talking about sexually either. Older wome have a grace and poise that comes from within that most young women lack. I don't feel "younger" when i'm talking to a young guy at all. Their minds are more active and open, not as set in their ways as you say but interested in learning about you and what you have to say. Younger men are usually a LOT more attentive. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:11:33 PM | I have no idea why younger men message me so much. I DO know what I want in terms of age and state it very clearly in every dating profile I've ever had. Though, that doesn't stop them from messaging me OR arguing with me when I tell them "no thanks".
They proceed to act like I should be HONORED that they even bothered to message me, old cow that I am. That's just annoying. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:30:09 PM | | There is some truth to what you say englishangel. The very notion of competition is quite childish in my opinion, and I don't wish to be another alpha male wanna be. Despite my grounded beliefs in evolution, only the strong survive, etc... it lacks a certain romanticism in the dating world. I wouldn't be attracted to someone who was only attracted to me due to the things I possess. Bussiness and pleasure mix as well as oil and water. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 3:31:33 PM | | ulalume That attitude would certainly be most unwelcome by anyone! Being persistent does not equal eventual success. I had a few that were persistent, but when I was tired of it, just blocked off their emails. The more times I have to say NO the more it irritates me. Anyone who's outright disrespectful doesn't deserve even a polite response, at least doesn't get one from me. | |
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| Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/2/2005 8:47:14 PM | Why?? ..Well for one Older Woman can be very attractive....men need to feel safe also..As much as some of them would not like to admit it....but they Do
Maturity is also another thing a Man looks for...A Woman that knows Who She is and what She wants... | |
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