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 carribeanking7

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 126
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/3/2005 12:46:34 AM
This thread is indeed an interesting read.

Personally I prefer ladies around my own age group...but open as age is just that a number
but for some reason most of the mail I get are from those in the 25-28 age group.

but I must say that the level of maturity of some of the 18-20yo at the forums astounds me...
 samyred

Joined: 3/6/2005
Msg: 127
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/3/2005 1:51:00 AM
I get moved by wise women, they trigger something in me...

It is not the age, it is the mind, and since mind is "usually" improving by age, this is what gives the explanation why men/women sometimes prefer an older person.

Sarita.. you hit the nail on the head (as usual).

Samy
 liquidpoetry

Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 128
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/3/2005 7:22:16 AM
Older women usually have more money , something which younger men dont have ...because they are still trying to find there place and career in this world...

I mean thats why --you see an old man with a young girl ---everyone knows its money .. Anna nicole --need I say more..
 mack

Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 129
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/3/2005 7:27:54 AM
older women dont give you as much bullshit - and they seem to enjoy being with a man more with no games involved
 DesertWolf

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 130
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/3/2005 7:29:28 AM
Liquid, you are so wrong it makes my head hurt...i mean i was laughing pretty hard....

anyway, i could care less about the money...i just prefer the fact that 1. theyre normally not shallow. 2. theyre a hell of alot more mature
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 131
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/3/2005 8:12:06 AM
I think I attract them because I'm immature
 Saritamiami

Joined: 12/3/2004
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Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/3/2005 5:10:09 PM
Thank you, Dragonred and sammy
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
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 Saritamiami

Joined: 12/3/2004
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Posted: 6/3/2005 6:10:54 PM

I think it has more to do with young guys not realizing what lurks behind the hair dye , makeup, photoshopping etc.. There will never be laws against it but I find it unseemly and I have no idea why an old woman would behave in such an undignified way.


Don't you agree that everyone should have their picture in their profile? That sure would avoid lotsa confusion, right? (I can almost hear a photoshop program being started up somewhere in the U.S. right about now...)

As for old women, we old women may not be young, but we old women are fine.
 starr04-1

Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 135
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/3/2005 6:18:22 PM
this is to joe333....well I'm not easy sex and I'm more secure with myself than I ever was in my 20's I think that's whay older men date younger woman...lol you just have it bass ackwards...
 SmartAlec

Joined: 2/8/2005
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Posted: 6/3/2005 8:52:01 PM
now that funny!!!!! and unfortunately very true. How many women at age 40 take care of themselves vs the man at 40. Getting scarey out there.
 shore66

Joined: 5/23/2004
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Posted: 6/3/2005 9:26:27 PM

I think it has more to do with young guys not realizing what lurks behind the hair dye , makeup, photoshopping etc..



Yeah, like my "glamour shots" with my webcam - especially the one where I am in my fuzzy bathrobe.
 singguk

Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 138
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/4/2005 4:53:25 AM
SHORE 66
hope you are fine, there are two types of beauty ,internal and external ,when you love some ones external beauty then it means you are looking for sex but attracting to internal beauty is some thing special ,i am here ,if you want to ask something more ,bye
 liquidpoetry

Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 139
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/4/2005 8:49:41 AM
I think the answer to the question is because men their age are chasing after younger women - men in their late 40's early 50's want younger women and are not picking up women their own age, they need the trophy. Therefore older women love the attention and endurance of a younger man.
 matrix02202004

Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 140
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/4/2005 9:42:05 AM
Older women attract younger men because the younger men try to prove to their buddies they can conquer an older woman. As for myself I could care less. I am looking for a nice woman a little older or my same age. The whole Men thing, been there done that and most of them are too immature to handle it.
 Saritamiami

Joined: 12/3/2004
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Posted: 6/4/2005 11:23:59 AM
Hmm.. it's been mentioned a lot that older men are going after younger women rather than older women. (And subsequently the younger men are going after the older women). I was very surprised when it began happening to me, a lot of younger men asking me out. At first I felt there was something wrong. I eventually got used to it. Now I don't even blink when it happens.

I think older men might not always want to date older women because going out with a younger woman, they feel younger (as long as they avoid all mirrors and forget they’re not young, strong, and attractive anymore, nor capable of coming as much and as quickly as a lion ) I've seen older men so lacking in personality, and so unappealing that I wouldn't go out with them if I were paid heftily for it, and yet some younger woman will undoubtedly be going out with them. (I’m going to guess it’s for the money, rather than say that younger women lack good taste).

Anyhow, I wonder what the actual statistics say about all this?
 singguk

Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 142
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/6/2005 5:52:21 AM
TO SARITAMIAMI
you are right, younger goes to older and older goes to younger, it happens ,both have feelings ,its as i think natural,
 nb_native

Joined: 10/2/2004
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Posted: 6/13/2005 9:01:12 PM
I won't go there because I know some real good looking men my age... and I know both younger. their age, and older women are attracted to them. It is all in where u r in ur life and what it is you need. I do have to say more often then not though that men my age are searching for women younger that can be eye candy. That I believe is such a sin since there are so many of us out there that are JUST THAT plus mature and intelligent.

I have had so much fun with younger men in the past... but I do have to admit that I would like to have a man closer to my own age. Although, if a younger.. mature male, who knows what he wants and where he is going in his life were to make an offer... I would definitely consider it.

By the way... thanx for all the responses.

Oh.. and by the way liquid.... I make good money... but haven't yet had a younger man come after me for it. If anything... they have wanted to spend tons on me to impress me. But thanx for your opinion all the same.
 Belladona

Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 144
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/13/2005 9:24:05 PM
Joe... I don't like the way you say it all, but I agree that the majority of younger guys who are asking out older women are in it for the convenience of sex. Older women have more time, they have more money, their children maybe at an age where babysitters are no longer required, they're usually not expecting a huge committment but rather a casual, yet steady dating scenario.... what's not to like about that? For the women, he's young, fun, hopefully great in bed, makes you feel good... and so what's not to like about that.

It all depends on what kind of relationship you're looking for I guess.
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 145
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/13/2005 9:34:18 PM
I'm a very much to each his own type, but why are there so many posts that just because a woman is more mature and experienced, she will take sex off of someone younger? Older does not mean less selective, at least not for this "older" woman. I have dated only one very younger, 10 years, but our relationship did not focus on sex. Mature women DO have a heck of a lot to offer younger guys, security stability and experience. But please don't assume, and I'm NOT directing this to any particular poster, that the trade off on our part is for sex. Please, I taught college and had many students that had the hot for teacher thing, I've done my teaching and you wanna talk about sex? My bed is a playground, for fun and enjoyment NOT a classroom. I state very specifically that I want a partner, an equal partner and if a younger guy can fulfill that, then fine. But he'll have to be able to provide the mental, intellectual stimulation to keep my interest. Just for me, but younger men who are looking to expand their sexual experience aren't going to get that from me.
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 146
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/13/2005 9:36:58 PM
Not that many available men my age
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 147
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Posted: 6/13/2005 9:42:20 PM
indigo Doesn't matter, only takes one.
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 148
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Posted: 6/13/2005 9:44:07 PM
girl take a look around my area....real scarey!
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 149
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Posted: 6/13/2005 9:47:36 PM
star A woman after my own heart...bass ackwards, yes, one of my favorite words. You got it right. Geez, when will younger men get that the prize of an older woman is not a sexual tutor. Give us some credit, older, wiser. If I were a guy and looking for easy sex, I would SO much more go after a younger woman, they need the affirmation. Just generality not ALL younger woman, but most. Younger women, in general, please don't throw things, are MUCH more likely to sleep with a man to keep him, the more mature woman would just laugh him off. Sleep with you to keep you, right, NEXT. Older women have more dignity than that, and again just generally speaking.
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 150
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Posted: 6/14/2005 9:20:47 AM
indigo Yowsers!! You oughtta pop down to Tampa Bay, got lots of hotties here....some REAL hotties on the Buccaneers. Well you've definitely got a location problem. You know there's a forum here for every state, maybe go there and see what's cooking in SD, or start something yourself. We're getting a local thing going in our area. Best of luck!!
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