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 Truebeautycomeswithin

Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 151
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 3:07:26 PM
When we get older we will most likely go through the same things as you older women do.I guess thats how it goes who knows.when youre older the younger guys hit on you when youre younger the older men hit on you.
 reynado

Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 152
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 4:07:02 PM
wow- where does this happen? i attract mostly men way older. all ages, but the majority are older men sayig `wtf', i guess?

peace
 timbucktwo_

Joined: 5/5/2005
Msg: 153
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 4:26:12 PM
Tom Cruise ain't no "paunchy balding relic in yellow pants"... And if my fellow men hold out they too might strike gold like Mr. Cruise. WAY TO GO TOM!!!!!!!!!!!!
 fitchik

Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 154
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 4:26:35 PM
Thank you for clearing that mistake UP! Older women have WAY more confidence than a younger woman would for a few simple reasons....life experience, maturity emotionally, more sexual experience, more confidence in general and making good money at work, have their career pretty much set, are pretty much happy with the path their life has taken, etc.

Older women are NOT 'easy' because they are insecure...we just know what we want and we don't put up with all the stupid childish games that are out there (at least this all applies to me, I can't speak for anyone else out there!)...we are secure enough with ourselves to go out and get what we want and not worry what anyone else thinks of us.

IMO, a younger man should consider himself LUCKY to get with an older woman!
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 155
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 4:31:31 PM
To reynado I get hit on all the time by 20 somethings. One weekend, a 19 y/o!! My youngest just turned 18, my oldest is 15. I can see that date, I'd almost be cutting up his food for him....haha, joking.
Fitchik I couldn't agree more with your last statement, luck son of a gun that would be!! I'll talk to these young pups for a short while when I zero in on their interest, sex is always in there somewhere. I'm not interested in teaching or tutoring I want a man to make love to me who KNOWS what he's doing!
 snowbird1111

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 156
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 5:37:54 PM
Thanks for posting that one it is so true
 snowbird1111

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 157
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 5:39:30 PM
Thanks for posting that one it is so true
copied...Check this out. A younger man sent this to me, said it reminded him of my personality and views. I've posted this on my profile and have received many emails with comments.

Pardon the spelling errors :)

A view of women over forty?????. A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask you what you are thinking. She does`nt give a d*mn what you think.
If an over forty woman does`nt watch the game , she does`nt whine about it , she does her own thing which is more interesting.She knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is , what she is , what she want`s and from whom.
She does`nt care what you think about her or what she`s doing.
She usually has had her fill of "meaningful relationships" and "commitments" The last thing she needs in her life is another dopey , clingy, whiney, dependent lover in her life.
She is mature , dignified and will not have a screaming match in a restaurant or at the opera. Of course , if you deserve it , they wont hesitate to shoot you if they can get away with it.
They are generous with praise , often undeserved . They know what its like to be unappreciated.
She does`nt hesitate to introduce another girl friend to her latest man friend.
A woman over forty could care less if you are attracted to her friends because she knows her friends wont betray her . Women get psychic as they age.
You dont have to confess your sins to her . She already knows .
You know where you stand with her , She`ll tell you if you`re a jerk or if you`re behaving like one.
Yes , we praise them for various reasons. Unfortunately , its not reciprical. For every smart , attractive woman over forty + , there`s a paunchy , balding relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22 year old waitress.
 snowbird1111

Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 158
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 5:40:26 PM
Thanks for posting that one it is so true
copied from Frenchy

Check this out. A younger man sent this to me, said it reminded him of my personality and views. I've posted this on my profile and have received many emails with comments.

Pardon the spelling errors :)

A view of women over forty?????. A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask you what you are thinking. She does`nt give a d*mn what you think.
If an over forty woman does`nt watch the game , she does`nt whine about it , she does her own thing which is more interesting.She knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is , what she is , what she want`s and from whom.
She does`nt care what you think about her or what she`s doing.
She usually has had her fill of "meaningful relationships" and "commitments" The last thing she needs in her life is another dopey , clingy, whiney, dependent lover in her life.
She is mature , dignified and will not have a screaming match in a restaurant or at the opera. Of course , if you deserve it , they wont hesitate to shoot you if they can get away with it.
They are generous with praise , often undeserved . They know what its like to be unappreciated.
She does`nt hesitate to introduce another girl friend to her latest man friend.
A woman over forty could care less if you are attracted to her friends because she knows her friends wont betray her . Women get psychic as they age.
You dont have to confess your sins to her . She already knows .
You know where you stand with her , She`ll tell you if you`re a jerk or if you`re behaving like one.
Yes , we praise them for various reasons. Unfortunately , its not reciprical. For every smart , attractive woman over forty + , there`s a paunchy , balding relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22 year old waitress.
 discreetmaverick

Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 159
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 7:21:51 PM
I find older women sexier....
 carribeanking7

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 160
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 8:25:47 PM
The oldest that I went out with was 11 yrs my senior...I was 20 she was 31....
well it only lasted 10 months........she was regal carried herself well...and yes different from the girls in my age group..she didnt play the chidish games they were playing.she taught me more about myself in 10 months than I would have learned in 10 yrs.
 ladydi8

Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 161
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 8:30:39 PM
and tha lovin aint over till WE are done......an we give tha most explicit details.......of what we want when we want where we want it.............
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 162
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 163
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 8:43:44 PM
discreet Most guys your age do,and most of us "mature" ladies think that's so cute. Saying sexy doesn't mean a ticket into our panties. You have your work cut out for you, if you want to fish for and land an older woman. You're looking at someone with a lot more experience in every area you can think of and many that you can't. So stimulate our mind, challenge us,entertain us, go wherever you want to with that but if it comes to a young pup wanting to get his sexual experience, and it was me? I'd tend to roll up a newspaper and swat you on your rear and open the door and tell you to GO!
 c_deacon

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 164
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Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/20/2005 9:44:02 PM
Wonders if we can reverse this thread and ask why do older men attract younger women more than those their own age?????

Maybe, just maybe.....it is not the age but the person and personality that is doing the attracting.....no matter the age????
 ladydi8

Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 165
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/21/2005 5:14:31 AM
LMAO!!!!
bucsgirl...i cracked up at yer post...now i got this picture of some young studmuffin pup gettin swatted on tha backside with a rolled up newspaper........

dayum is that a watered down "dom" vision, or what?
 jennifer j

Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 166
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/21/2005 5:32:05 AM
dont know charisma charm knowledge dancing and not worrying about your hair or what someone thinks of you ,eat anything why would a man be attracted to that lol
 Txgrl003

Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 167
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Posted: 6/21/2005 5:38:48 AM
Been told that we know what we want out life.
 SHE-DEVIL-36

Joined: 7/28/2004
Msg: 168
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/21/2005 6:28:29 AM
LOLOL...easy sex huh?...I totally disagree.....baby....wondering what YOU look like....
 SHE-DEVIL-36

Joined: 7/28/2004
Msg: 169
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/21/2005 6:37:49 AM
LMAO....thanks frenchy for the great giggle!! LOLOL..I LOVED the post....and I Totally agree with your guy....so what is his email?..LOLOL.although I have not hit 40 yet...wont mind at all when I do...
 SHE-DEVIL-36

Joined: 7/28/2004
Msg: 170
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/21/2005 7:32:32 AM
I loved your post Sexy840484 ....I think all men young and old have their unique qualities...younger men "tend" to be more adventurous...easygoing.....spontaneous....and just say what they think!! Which I LOVE...older men "tend" to be somewhat more judgemental...and I find...they also..tend to fib more about their wt..ht..or whatever else they have to get to attention..LOLOlL....Now before anyone kills me..LOL......this is NOT always the case....LOL....I am interested in an amazing 30 yr old at the moment...so cant wait to see where it goes..! LOL.....Age is just a number....before last year...had never dated a man younger than 2 or 3 yrs younger than me...just wouldnt allow myself..felt I would be taking advantage. of him...but.....when a "younger "...guy rather coerced me into a kiss in a hot tub saying......if you dont feel anything....then...I will leave you alone..LOL.....I laughed...and so.....fine....he kissed me....and whew.....took my breath away......I had to consider younger guys ever since..LOLOL....which the BIG shocker was that.......he was YOUNGER than what he had told me...!!! LMAO.....so maybe I was being somewhat judgemental..something I cant stand.....so we all learn if we allow ourselves too.....

Kisses.....to all the Sexy Men on Plenty of Fish.....mmmwwwaaaaaaa...LMAO
 Truebeautycomeswithin

Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 171
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Posted: 6/21/2005 12:39:44 PM
Clears throat.Arent you older women suppose to be role models for the younger women.am I right or wrong.just because we are younger doesnt mean that we are immature or dumb.so dont get it twisted.Age has nothing to do with it.maybe you will find some young women who dont have it together but that shouldnt make anybody point the finger at the young ones because of a few young women. also beauty comes in every age group.I bet some of the older men are making a forum similar to this about younger women.its all in the mind and knowing what you want.whatever floats that boat.but just dont go juding others.ta ta.
 Jbird49

Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 172
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Posted: 6/21/2005 1:04:16 PM
Joe333 seems to have some issues with women.......and why doesn't he a profile??????

Nevertheless, who cares why they like us.................and I think they just might enjoy a little manipulation in the bedroom

It's all good!
 msjanuary

Joined: 3/15/2005
Msg: 173
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Posted: 6/21/2005 1:19:50 PM
To joe333,

I must disagree with you on your thoughts... I am 36 years old, and have had some men that are very young seeking me out. I have YET to give in to them. I find myself confused on the matter personally, because I feel kind of uncomfortable seeking out a relationship with a man that is only 4 -5 years older than my oldest daughter. These men think I am being cold to them, but I honestly feel weird going out with such younger men. So, no... I must disagree with you about saying that it is EASY SEX, and that women our age are very insecure and feel less threatened by a younger man. For like I said, I have a VERY hard time with opening up to them, no matter how nice the come off as being. Plus the fact that I cannot help but think about the many differences we would have intellectually.

Call me strange, but I just cannot get myself to even attempt it.


msjanuary
 WHEREISIT

Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 174
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/21/2005 1:41:18 PM
lol...joe i know you wont accept it but thats not the only reason,,,,you are apparently shallow,,,im 38 my husband is 27,,,,ohyea and hes the one with the money
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 175
Why do older women attract more younger men then men their own age?
Posted: 6/21/2005 3:14:39 PM
discreet Please dont take offense at what I said, it wasn't meant that way at all. If you're a young pup talking to an older woman, sexy isn't one of the "magic" words, at least not for me. I'll assume that you're looking at me as sexual, that must be what you want. Forget that, ain't gonna happen. You want to catch an older woman's eye, tell her she's sophisticated, tell her she's classy, tell her she carries herself well, anything but she's sexy. Older women do have a lot to offer, but what do you have to offer to her? Attention? I get plenty of that anyway. Energy? Not a problem for me either. You gotta find something to offer her that a man her own age doesn't. That's a difficult thing, and the older the wiser, so it better be something solid.
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