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 Archangel46

Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 51
Is there stupid wrote across my face?
Posted: 5/5/2009 2:05:12 PM
Hi OP..
There are a lot of men on this site who do just what you have said. I could name 10 myself here in the midlands. Loads of female members have brought this subject matter up many times on here. I have friends who have been through the same thing.

All I can suggest is make some personal rules. And stick to them no matter what.Only get intimate when you are ready. Dont be pushed rushed, make sure it is give and take. Trust is earned and not given.
Make sure you have his details, if he is honest he will offer them without a problem.
Both house and cell number, he will also say you can call anytime day or night.
If he starts dont call me after this time I will call you at that time..RED flag. If someone tells you very early on you are the only, the most...yader yader.RED flag. If he gives you an address even better. The ones that dont after a couple of months at the most. RED flag.
Learn from your mistakes,make your own rules.
Dont worry be happy, and good luck
 ZenBeth

Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 52
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Is there stupid wrote across my face?
Posted: 5/5/2009 6:11:57 PM
If you have his mailing address then send a certified letter to him. This way if he signs for the letter or his sons do, you will at least know he has heard from you. If hes out of town and doesnt have a computer that could explain why he hasnt emailed. But if he had your phone number one would assume were he Ok that he would call. If you know where he was going you go call hospitals in the area and ask if he is a patient. Although I also would think he would have your name in his wallet etc if he indeed was serious about getting married etc.

~Beth~
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