| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 6/10/2009 10:35:03 AM | | I wouldnt like it but it wouldnt be a deal breaker! If i liked him then id forget about it! So long as he doesnt use one while hes seeing me, then it doesnt matter! | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 6/10/2009 9:08:52 PM | No matter when or where in the timeline I would find out a man I was dating had used an escort service, I would run like Hell! Hookers screw anything holding a dollar bill. SO, you are having sex with every John, every Tom,****and Harry who has ever had sex with him/her.
Let me ask you a question? Would YOU pick up a used condom off the street and insert it for a quick fling? Well, then.......I rest my case. | |
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hkyle1
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Joined: 12/20/2008
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 6/10/2009 10:12:44 PM | Of course it's not a deal breaker! C'mon people. There's a reason prostitution is called the oldest profession in the world. What would be a deal breaker is if he was not willing to give up seeing escorts while having a serious monogamous relationship. Or, if he sees escorts because he's a sex addict stopping in the local ally way for a $20.00 BJ on the way home from work every night. But one or two times in the past? No. Not a deal breaker IMO
There are a variety of reasons a person could have seen an escort. How can you judge and condemned them across the board if you don't know why they did it or what their objective was?
As for STDs, I'll bet that most escorts are more careful about protecting themselves from STDs than the majority of one night stands, drunken barroom pick ups and love starved bimbos giving it up at every opportunity. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 6/10/2009 10:17:20 PM | used condom? Whatever.
Escorting and prostitution exists for a reason. Women make good money just by being easy, men get sex without the stress of having to date etc. Face it, relationships are stressful, women and men both suck at them, but men often find it harder to go without sex. The boundaries with a prostitute are simple and straightforward.
Prostitutes use CLEAN condoms, not used ones. And they don't have the same hang ups alot of women do, so men can just have sex with someone who knows what they're doing. Plus the OP said "escort", and that doesn't necessarily mean just sex, it means socializing as well (or only).
Face it, tons of relationships are alot like escort services, they just do it more openly.
I would never judge anyone for this. In fact I've considered it myself, but there is just really not as much of a market for male escorts, unless you're a gay man. Women have way too much pride and too many horny men around to have to bother. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 6/10/2009 11:17:20 PM | | Hmmm - probably not, as long as he could pass a physical now and have clean reports. However, when I found out that he was spending almost all day every day in the strip clubs and that the times he wasn't there, he was at the dominatrix's place, well -- ya, it WAS a deal breaker. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 6/10/2009 11:23:05 PM | | Who cares. Escort, one night stand, fling with an old friend? All the same, except of course for the money he spent. I am assuming that he told y0u about it? Honesty counts for something. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 6/13/2009 2:51:12 AM | 'Who cares. Escort, one night stand, fling with an old friend? All the same, except of course for the money he spent.'
Ha, having them go to the length of paying for it, that can't be any better for your confidence right now ;o) | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/2/2009 2:26:19 AM | No.
If it occured in the past and he was capable of monogamy no.
But if the guy was a sex addict and used them over and over again thats a different thing. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/3/2009 3:16:37 PM | Obviously 'The Rock Man,' has spent some time in Reno lately.
Unless your counting drinks, you don't put a one night stand on your credit card.
And with a one night stand there is at least the slim chance that she's been the one night stand of fewer than 365 guys X however many years she's been working ( let's say she's putting herself through college, that would make it.... 1,460 different chances to get AIDS
I'd say get yourself tested, and then get yourself a new guy. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/3/2009 4:15:25 PM | What if you found out a woman you are interested in has had several "just friends" relationships with men in the past? They are taking advantage of a man and using them for only what they want in a relationship, which is the friendship and support, favors, and someone to dump their emotional garbage on without any undesired sex involved.
Men use escorts for the same reason, they get what they want (sex) without all the other above mentioned undesired part of the relationship. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/3/2009 4:19:56 PM | | Almost every women on this site has had casual sex which is no better than being a hooker - they just didn't get paid as much! | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/3/2009 4:21:48 PM | No, it would not be a deal-breaker. Some guys spent $100 on a single date with a woman in the hopes of getting laid at the end of the night.....
I would actually have more respect for him for realizing that if he only wanted to get laid, he could spend the $100 on an escort and save all the time of the date.... 
I wish all men who just wanted sex would use these services....instead of using women who aren't selling their bodies. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/3/2009 5:40:12 PM | | Any man who resorts to whores is of low character, no better than the whores themselves. Paying for sex is morally reprehensible. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/3/2009 5:45:32 PM | | What is the difference in a man using an escort and a woman" slutting" it up in the past? Serious question. If past sexual partners are irrelevant then ALL of it is irrelevant unless someone has a disease. | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/3/2009 5:47:28 PM |
Any man who resorts to whores is of low character, no better than the whores themselves. Paying for sex is morally reprehensible.
And who are you to pass judgement?  | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/3/2009 6:07:55 PM |
My guess is the hooker is more likely to use protection than the average bar fly on this site.
You might be right, but the problem is guys who pay more money to go bareback...
I just did a quick google for "escorts no condom sex" even I was surprised how many offer bareback sex.....
And this article adds to it...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Call_girl | |
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Zain.
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Joined: 9/20/2005
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/7/2009 3:15:38 PM | ^^^^
The article you cited doesn't say anything about callgirls charging more for bareback sex. Only bareback oral sex.
You are also aware that wikipedia is an open source site right? | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/7/2009 3:26:16 PM | Wouldn't it more funny, after he tells you about his escort night out, you tell him, about your early days in college as an escort paying the tuition! LOL  | |
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| If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 7/7/2009 6:14:58 PM |
Wouldn't it more funny, after he tells you about his escort night out, you tell him, about your early days in college as an escort paying the tuition! LOL
It wouldn't bother me. | |
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