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 erica05

Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 26
Masturbation, How often is normal?
Posted: 5/5/2009 11:12:28 PM
Normal for me is never. For a guy i guess i expect one a day to twice a week.... who knows.
 sweet4Ucandy

Joined: 10/28/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 5/5/2009 11:20:19 PM
my opinion is that men have and will continue to masturbate more than women. I have a very high sex drive and I only masturbate a few times a week, sometimes more one week then the next. Being single as long as I have it is a necessity, to me anyway. But I have been told by more than one man that they masturbate every day, one even told me up to and sometimes over 4x a day. The most I have done it in any period of my life is once or twice a day and I was in a relationship at the time, he didn't like it, but I wasn't cheating on him. It was just nice to get off in the shower before work or before going to bed, or even before having sex with him, kind of like foreplay I guess. I would probably masturbate more now except I don't get much privacy living with my brother and his family and it kind of kills the mood when I get distrubted so I generally wait till everyone is asleep and by then I'm too tired sometimes, or early in the morning works too.
But I guess there may be women out there that masturbate more or as much as men, as I used to a few years back, guess it depends on your circumstances, desire and opportunity.
 HoneyLaurel

Joined: 8/17/2008
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Posted: 5/6/2009 4:08:08 PM
We all have our thoughts on whats normal and whats not normal........
As for me, I have an incredibly high sex drive.......so its daily for me; well thats until I find that special guy......then all I can do is hope and pray he can keep up.....lol
 GoodmanGreg

Joined: 11/24/2007
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Posted: 5/6/2009 4:17:36 PM
How ever much you want is normal. Who is to say what is normal, as long as it doesn't influence your daily routine and responsibility.

HoneyLaurel, I too have a very high sex drive, and I can tell you that even if/when you do meet that special guy, its still an option available to you as needed. Even when I have a partner I feel the need at times. Its normal and healthy!
 Steed

Joined: 10/15/2005
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Posted: 5/6/2009 9:37:14 PM
I think is you do your research you will find there is no such thing as normal it is just how we are wired. When I was 13 or so 10 times a day would be normal now at may age a couple of time a day. Menopause from my experience increases the female drive the female hormone is dropping allowing the male side to become dominant. Enjoy while you can if you use it you wont loos it, remember its your body and the better you know what gives you pleasure the better you can help a partner to turn you on. I hope you have found your "G" spot and can help it out if not try it. Last but not least I wish I had met you years ago we would have been cats on a hot tin roof.

Rob
 girl12345-4u

Joined: 3/28/2009
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/6/2009 10:02:15 PM
Agree with Rob. Menopause has heightened sexual desire. There is NO way I could go weeks without. No one would like me. Thank God for toys for single women.
 Rogue Saint

Joined: 4/26/2009
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Posted: 5/7/2009 5:23:07 PM
I always ease off before the blisters start....
 hala-steve

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 5/7/2009 5:32:05 PM
What are your hands for?
















MASTURBATION!

 Rogue Saint

Joined: 4/26/2009
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Posted: 5/8/2009 10:09:22 AM
Who better to make that call than a 'Holy Man.' But I'll settle for being a Rogue Saint - it's a little edgier without all that responsibility.
 penzer

Joined: 4/25/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 5/9/2009 9:00:34 PM
LOL........................................................................................................................
 kittyhawk66

Joined: 3/23/2009
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Posted: 5/9/2009 9:23:21 PM
Most definitly there is no 'Normal' Everyone is different.
My ex said he didn't masturbate and indeed I never saw him or found any evidence that he did. He would stroke his penis before and sometimes during sex but I don't really know if he did masturbate. I did when ever I wanted to and he knew that because I saw no reason to hide it. The frequency varied and still does. I see the depending factors as Time available, how horney I am at any given time, whether I am having sex on a regular basis or not, which is interesting because sometimes even if I am having regular sex ( and like what is that ??? regular... once a week, once a day, twice, that is your own definition 4 me I would say at least 2 times a week would be regular) I amy want to masturbate more because I feel like I want even more. So it is a very individual issue.
 sasyecat

Joined: 10/6/2006
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Posted: 5/9/2009 10:06:52 PM

Was wondering how often most women need to masturbate? And how often do men need to?


I feel it's more of a want than a need.

If it's all you think about, all you do and you get nothing else done ( but yourself ) then you got a real problem.
 a_chris79

Joined: 4/23/2009
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Posted: 5/10/2009 1:10:12 AM
Just a few strokes shy of going blind?


LOL.



I'm not telling! I might even be doing it right now!
 manilabound

Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 5/10/2009 4:13:10 AM
masturbation is wrong and should be listed as a criminal sexual offense. Much like 'suicide' is considered to be 'attempted-murder' on yourself ... so should masturbation be made illegal and anyone with such horrible urges be reported to the police immediately and exposed as the perverted sexual predator that they are.
 elgoncho

Joined: 3/4/2009
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Posted: 5/10/2009 4:45:30 AM
i thought normal was everyday
 chrono1985

Joined: 11/20/2004
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Posted: 5/10/2009 6:58:21 AM
I'll leave it to you to figure out why a pair of chain mail underwear is wired into a stereo on my desk which doesn't pick up any radio stations but makes playing guitar through it so enjoyable.
 jayeff

Joined: 8/9/2008
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Posted: 5/10/2009 9:51:15 AM

How often is normal?

How normal is "often"?
 doink 1962

Joined: 1/5/2008
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Posted: 5/10/2009 10:36:13 AM
I'm BLIND! I'm Blind! Arghhhh
 Goneoffline

Joined: 2/4/2008
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Posted: 5/10/2009 11:11:52 AM
Dad catches is son masterbating.."you keep doing that son and you'll go blind ".

I'm over here dad.
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 5/10/2009 11:19:27 AM
Whatever it takes to quell the demons of the masturbateur, so that no other humans, or livestock, are at risk. You can do all the trees or groceries you want.
Oh, and the one lady that takes her toys from the kitchen- in the clear, no harm, no foul. Hope your dishwasher is a boy, though.
 sassy_grneyes

Joined: 6/12/2007
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Posted: 5/10/2009 12:01:01 PM
I can't answer for other women but for myself,I do it daily anywhere from once up to four times a day.I can spend 15 minutes to over 2 hours doing it.It all depends on what time of the month it is and if I'm having clitoral orgasms or gushing G-spot orgasms.
 MissSweetie4u

Joined: 5/5/2009
Msg: 47
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Posted: 5/10/2009 4:25:49 PM
A couple of times a day works for me
 MGMLION

Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 5/10/2009 4:44:24 PM

there is no normal count.
but i think as long as it relieves your prostate from becoming prostate cancer then i guess thats normal.


I bet Pamela Anderson has saved a lot of men's Lives.

 creamqueen

Joined: 8/24/2008
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Posted: 5/11/2009 4:22:29 PM
Yeah, I know, I'm a female. However, I love touching myself, because I am soft. I also sleep naked in satin sheets, so I pretty much enjoy the whole foreplay to the masturbation scene that I perform for myself. I feel how hot and wet I get and start pulling out toys. I twist on my nipples and sometimes keep my toy penetrated until it gets real hot, then go to work.
No matter how I do it, if I am going to bed, I gets a good night's rest; if I am going to work, I'm definitely starting my day off right and its going to most likely stay that way. Touch yourself, It'll make you feel good good good.
 13571113

Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 50
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Posted: 5/11/2009 7:39:07 PM
Has anyone thought of ever asking the question....

Why do humans masterbate SO MUCH but most other animals never do? and dont say they cant because they dont have forward hinging thumbs.

Humans are weird....so freaking weird what is wrong with humanity.
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