| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 5/10/2009 2:03:05 PM |
There is a 99% chance you are not being man enough in your relationship and they are quickly losing attraction to you. That being the case, they really don't care about hurting your feelings. Wait awhile before jumping into another relationship, and the when you carefully weigh the benefits of how amazing this girl is, take it extremely slow and never, ever, EVER be anything less than a man in the relationship. After all...you are a man.
Im sorry but I completely disagree with this. In my opinion a real man knows how to remain faithful, treat his woman right, and knows how he feels and what he wants. Im sorry but lifeis2good2me you have no idea what real women want in a man. Sure we want our man to be manly but there are times for that. Just like there are times for a man to show and tell their feelings. | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 5/10/2009 2:43:52 PM | | Sorry, man, I can't convince you otherwise because it's true. And you're right,those lines are BS at it's utmost. I moved on to other things myself, and find I am a lot better off for doing so. | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 5/11/2009 1:21:40 AM | | Don't listen to the ***hole that said to be a man. He's a ****ing tool and being a "man" has nothing to do with it. When a girl tells you you deserve better its a really nice but shitty way of breaking up with you. Shits not working with you two and because you're a nice guy she'd feel bad being straight to the point and lied instead. Here's the bottom line:if someones retarded enough to use the "you deserve better" line...they're right. Don't get caught up. | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 8/28/2009 5:05:13 PM | Boy, you gotta love all the crap that men believe these days. That David DeAngelo has so many people conned. Women do not care about that stuff - it's all a gimick that doesn't really work - trust me I've tried it. I get much further being a really sweet guy.
The bottom line is, it's not your fault that people treat you like crap for being nice. Being nice will pretty much ensure that you are crapped on by losers, bottom feeders, and psychopaths. Psychopaths tend to target nice people as psychopaths are basically just predators looking to use, abuse human prey. Sounds like you've fallen victim to female psychopaths, and need to rearrange your pattern. Don't make yourself look like a target. (as women can sense weakness and home in) and when you do notice a predatory psycho-woman ditch her ASAP.
I used to get picked on a lot by psycho-women but since then I've learned to give nothing until you know the person and can sense their motivations. I haven't been taken advantage of like that in five years.
That being said, there is some truth to what that poster said about getting what you want..i finally got what I wanted three years ago..and I threw it away and laughed about it - well I aint laughing now! I had this hot girl that wanted to date me..she loved me and I took her for granted. I mocked her religion even though she hated that. Then one day she was gone. Serves me right and I deserve the lonliness I get now.
Next time I find someone willing to give me a chance, I won't fu*k it up. | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 8/29/2009 3:01:59 PM | I'm a 57 year old female and have had the same bad things happen to me.
You either give up and be alone forever or you keep trying, keep hoping, that the next time will be better. Take your pick. | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 8/29/2009 4:48:23 PM |
I think I've had just about enough of the bullshit that women come up with. I was the kind of guy who wore his heart on his sleeve. I always liked to look for the good in people and i trusted them. but now I'm left cynical, and angry. You may ask yourself, what made this change come about? Well, all thanks and congratulations can go to the last 4 ex girlfriends I've had. all of which at one point used the line "you deserve better" or "you'll find someone who will make you happy" well, i haven't! I've tried and i thought i found it a few times. but every time i begin to trust someone and open up to them i was let down by either someone being un faithful, lying, or generally being disrespectful to my feelings and our relationship. i give up! and if you can convince me otherwise it would be greatly appreciated.
I've given up too. Hurray for both of us.  | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 8/29/2009 8:40:03 PM |
Guess what? I meet the same friggen train wrecks over and over. That is why I changed my headline to 50 First Dates.
Ha ha--I'm "Over a billion served". I feel you, totally. I think the dating world is on a low biorhythm, seems to be a lot of us who have decided to take a break/give up for a while. Men suck , women suck. | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 8/30/2009 4:10:21 PM | ryry87, ok stop right now, stop it.......... stop being a typical nice guy, as soon as I read, oh I wore my heart on my sleeve i knew it, yes and you did everything for the woman, catered to her every desire because that's what Mom told you do, or some female who has a lifetime subscription to cosmopolitan or vogue or Harlequin romance novel said for you to do.
When a woman says that to you, you deserve better its because you're way too nice and you friggen bore her to tears, and second she's probably s f*cked up because she's used to being treated like dog sh!t, and its better to go with the jack off devil you know vs the nice devil you dont know.
Not saying you should change and be a jerk,its just means you have stop being the "nice guy" and trying to be her friend/lover and try being her lover who is a friend? | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 9/19/2009 10:24:12 PM | It is possible that the girls believed they were telling you the truth.
Women who repeatedly date abusive men will often break up with a kind, caring guy becuase she does not think she deserves him.
For many women who repeatedly have long relationships with abusive men, they do not think they deserve anything better than to be slapped around and treated like dirt.
The best advice I can think of, is to think about what you want from life, then pursue that in all aspects of your life.
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 9/20/2009 12:47:47 AM | Translation of "You deserve better" -
"I deserve better than you. You're pathetic, creepy, desperate and just plain lame... you'd throw your pitiful little longing heart at any girl who so much as smiled at you and would take pity enough on your unworthy soul to tolerate your version of "love"... You suck as a person; you fail at life; you are the fricken misfit of misfits and it's all I can do to not puke at the very sight of you. I cannot feel attraction or love for someone that has no standards and you obviously do not have any standards because let's face it, you'll be like this with ANYBODY that will have your ass. You're a loser, now get the fuk out of my sight."
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 9/20/2009 5:20:31 AM | | When a women says "you deserve better" SHE might actually think shes using it as an excuse but from what I've found out, its actually true, you do deserve better than her cause shes probably too screwed up or superficial for anyone. | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 10/1/2009 1:54:57 AM | JagerBomb31 I defanatly agree with you 100 percent on this one. (Don't listen to the ***hole that said to be a man. He's a ****ing tool and being a "man" has nothing to do with it. When a girl tells you you deserve better its a really nice but shitty way of breaking up with you. Shits not working with you two and because you're a nice guy she'd feel bad being straight to the point and lied instead. Here's the bottom line:if someones retarded enough to use the "you deserve better" line...they're right. Don't get caught up. )
I mself have been given te same line of dogshit | |
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| you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise
Posted: 10/10/2009 2:34:35 AM | | this girl im interested in has told me that i deserve much better but yet she still goes on and tells me that she misses me and she wishes that i was there with her. and that she wants something serious with me. what the hell should i make of that? | |
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