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 yourpleasure33

Joined: 4/28/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:33:59 AM
Quote: Try an older man and you'll see what I mean


Yes, thinking of an older man usually slows me down.
 hala-steve

Joined: 10/11/2007
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:34:10 AM
True talk, sometimes I actually have to tell the gal to just shut up for a couple of secs when her moaning is unbearable so that the cum could go back.


 bbwingz

Joined: 4/15/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 9:58:05 AM
As for me I just try to focus on breathing and what I am doing with my hands and mouth but I loved the line from a Woody Allen movie (sorry...can't remember the movie)

Girl: What do you think about when you are making love?

Woody: Baseball...why?

Girl: Oh. I was just wondering why you kept moaning "Slide..Slide...Slide"
 rickxyz

Joined: 1/27/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 11:36:04 AM
Oprah, Bea Arthur, Dr Phil, Judge Judy....
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 12:11:04 PM

sounds like rodeo sex


Lol! Yeah, but the version I heard is that you take her from behind, then tell her that this is her sister's favorite position- a friend send me a video of the joke lady, naked, but by herself, and she demonstrated; it was friggin' hilarious!!!
In fairness, I gotta say that the lady and I were in second grade together, so we were the same age (actually the first time I had ever had a lover as old as I, but that's just the way it has worked out). And after that first time, we more than balanced the score.



I'm the kind of girl that's gonna try even harder to make it happen.

Lol, now this is one devilish woman!!!
 notshellfish

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 31
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 1:00:24 PM
I think of soccer...anything that slow usually helps slow the system. I used to think of Rosie O'Donnell, but I got tired of losing my erections completely. As for the older man comments...fine wine is all I'm sayin.

As for what a lady can do? Now why would I want to reveal the end gamer?

 DJKLPS

Joined: 10/2/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 2:03:38 PM
differential calculus. Seriously, if you can focus hard enough to take a double derivative, you'll last as long as you need. Math! it's the solution!! (pardon the pun)
 bkfo

Joined: 11/21/2007
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 2:11:07 PM
I pace myself, if I feel like I am about to bust, I slow it down, kiss her neck, and more =)
Also, when I use a condom I last a lot longer than not using one~ Yes, I use protection, safe sex is great, but so is unprotected with the right girl.
 isntafraid

Joined: 4/9/2009
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Posted: 5/7/2009 2:26:33 PM
I actually have to concentrate on blowing- my girl squirts and haz powerful orgasms- so its hard for me to get a good rhythem going, but she tries to hold off so I can have mine too. I have to go at a medium pace for a long period- too hard or fast, she has an orgasm, too slow, we'd be in bed all day. My girl says she thinks of baseball games and Nascar to try and not to get off so many times.
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 4:42:24 PM
"Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!" -Austin Powers

No, seriously, with a condom on, busting early is not a problem. And it's condoms only from here on out...I DO NOT want kids and want to remain disease-free. I must say, I OOZE (precum) like crazy tho-! To the point of putting a freezer-bag over it prior to my dates, to avoid those embarrassing "stains", even through underwear lol.
 no_1_bby

Joined: 5/3/2006
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 4:57:22 PM

Lol, now this is one devilish woman!!!

*weg* You know it Whytie-baby...


My girl says she thinks of baseball games and Nascar to try and not to get off so many times.

I don't think I've ever heard of a woman trying NOT to orgasm during sex. Seriously???? WTF is her problem?!?!?!! LOL!
 hewy99

Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 37
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Posted: 5/7/2009 5:12:27 PM
tell him to put on an extra condom or if he’s about to bust squeeze the lower part of his penis :D or just cut the condom and only leave the end and put that on we might be young but we are very experienced.
 rockondon

Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 5/7/2009 5:41:21 PM
I had a conversation about this once with a buddy and he said he thinks "Old nuns dead kittens Old nuns dead kittens Old nuns dead kittens Old nuns dead kittens Old nuns dead kittens" lol

As for me I go slower or else I bring myself to the brink of bustin then stop for a second, that brings me back down and after that point it takes a lot for me to cum.
 parklabrea

Joined: 1/4/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 5:55:54 PM
To hold myself back I stare at the other woman in the bed. That splits my focus and prevents me from getting lost in my own sensations. When I do that I can usually last my average 2 1/2 years...with pee breaks every two hours and a 15 min. food break every four hours. It's true! Are you insinuating that any man on this site would lie about his abilities.
 FunkyMonkee

Joined: 4/7/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 6:21:04 PM
Pelvic Floor Exercises.
 CynthiaM

Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 41
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 6:33:16 PM

as hard as you are trying to hold off.. I'm the kind of girl that's gonna try even harder to make it happen

That would be me too.
 tronvillain

Joined: 8/19/2006
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 7:17:12 PM
I have never had to think about anything to keep from cumming - years of practice masturbating mean that I pretty much don't cum unless I want to. Of course, a shift in speed or a change of position can be helpful at times. *chuckle*
 goodlistener711

Joined: 1/24/2007
Msg: 43
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 7:25:04 PM
Some bad news story I saw on TV that day.

Something about work
 Some random name

Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 44
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 8:58:32 PM
Patti and Selma from the Simpsons....................
 Some random name

Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 45
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/7/2009 8:59:07 PM
The key is not to laugh
 *buzz*

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Posted: 5/8/2009 12:59:49 PM
^^^^^ how right you are!
 gofer40

Joined: 2/19/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/8/2009 3:00:02 PM
golf always thinking golf
 doink 1962

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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/8/2009 3:16:40 PM
I don't have the problem of being too quick and no it is not some matcho ego thing it's just the truth. However sometimes I will get an erection when I should not (public place) and I will think of all kind of crazy stuff like vomit or a really bad pair of saggiesI've seen to try and calm it down!
 StarreGazer

Joined: 2/21/2007
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/8/2009 3:24:23 PM

Msg: 7 -- OP, it was her showing she craved me that did it.


That kills it for me as well. If her desire for me shows to be over
the top, my stamina dives to zip. I blow my load at the slightest
pressure. However, if her attitude is "ho-hum", her attractiveness is
degraded to the point that I could care less if I get off or not. If
it gets to that point, pumping into my hand becomes more appealing.



Msg: 11 -- try one who has had younger women before ...


Nope. My best sex was when I was with a woman who was 63 and I was 23.
My first and ONLY time with her resulted in a 55-minute encounter that
resulted in a "no-cum" situation for either of us. Yet, for whatever
reason, I ENJOYED it IMMENSELY! I tried for an encore. She refused,
based on the fact that I didn't cum with her on that occasion. That
REALLY **HURT**. I REALLY WANTED **HER**! Her refusal shut me DOWN
sexually for FIVE YEARS!!!!



Msg: 14 -- as hard as you are trying to hold off.. I'm the kind of
girl that's gonna try even harder to make it happen.


Hmph! From THIS narrative, you are the sort of woman that will blow my
load within the first ten seconds and then brush me off as being a
lousy lay. I have no real chance.
 militarymike88

Joined: 1/11/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/8/2009 8:59:29 PM
I tried thinking about baseball before and it didn't work for long. Most success Ive had was thinking about all the crappy things and places Ive been too. Like sleeping outside in a hurricane or getting hit with tear gas.
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