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 meatandpotatoguy

Joined: 3/31/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/8/2009 11:06:54 PM
When I am with a woman I pretty much am just paying attention to how she is reacting to what I am doing to her and how good the sex feels. I admit that the first two or three minutes of sex my package wants to cum. Boy this post is going to help me get dates

So for me personally I have a system per say of how to get past that urge to cum right away. Normally just staying really deep and/or slowing down and I am able to hold back. Once I have held back I can go nuts and go at it. The irony of it all is holding back a few times makes it alot harder to cum when you are ready.

And unless the sex is really boring or bad I am so much into the person that I could not think about baseball or whatever anyways.
 quarked

Joined: 5/23/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/8/2009 11:29:30 PM
Baseball.

We think about baseball.
 CREngineer

Joined: 3/5/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 5:47:11 AM
Thinking about a mass orgy and swing event at the local old folks home will make you last for ever unless you are into blue wigs and smell of Ben Gay
 anthracitee38

Joined: 5/4/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 9:56:03 AM
I usually concentrate on my actions and how they are affecting my mate. I also keep in close tune to how good it is feeling for myself and when I know I am close to the edge I will change the rythem, change positions or pause. I have pretty good control and can reach an orgasm when I want to so if she wanted me to finish I would wrap it up or if she was enjoying herself and wanted me to continue I could. Unfortunately she was never able to keep up with me and I would have to finish sooner than I wanted due to her becoming sore.

As for what a women can do that will push me over the edge? Have an orgasm, I enjoy pleasing a woman more than anything but if she is really into it and moaning loudly that will help push me over as well so when that is happening I have to really be careful and keep a keen sense on what my body is doing at that particular time.
 blowmydoorsoff

Joined: 3/19/2009
Msg: 55
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 11:00:20 AM
Now here's a question, that haz plagued man and womenkind, since da beginning of time. OP, aside from the fact, that your smoking hot. I have to ask for additional info, if Im to offer any opinion of value. Why do U ask ? And what iz your end objective with this line of thought ? I mean just simple curiousity, or what ?
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 56
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 11:37:34 AM

Subject: What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Message: I have had an older man...he lasted 2 minutes! The excitement of being with a much younger woman...


lol; get over yourself; I dont think this is the classiest of questions but whatever.

And young women sometimes are not exciting.
 independent!

Joined: 12/17/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 12:00:23 PM
i cum fast if i hear noise, but if your quit i can last hours, if shes into that. but if not i can pop. pretty good about the control. but if its like shes on top and shes like " dont stop" then i have to pull my hair till it hurts. or if im in control i just pull and slap. my d**k
 soultigerman

Joined: 10/20/2007
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 3:23:08 PM
I used to think about my girlfriend! we were still together, most days ( no one from here ) that cold stare would freeze the balls off a brass monkey...

just read good guy daves post ! go good guy! I would want money for that stuff your doing !
 marc100000

Joined: 2/24/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 6:32:49 PM
My ex the great {vindictive} gal she was used to mention my ugliest male friend to me when i was getting too excited. was the cruelest thing in the world but it did work.
 grizzly_bear

Joined: 5/1/2005
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 8:20:05 PM
If you want to stop from bustin think about your grandma naked lol What can a girl do to distract a fellow in thought, speak f u c k s it up every time lol
 Jones0674

Joined: 3/26/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 5/9/2009 9:47:01 PM
I think the funniest thing Ive ever heard of to keep from bustin a nut too quickly was.
Think about dead relatives or dead animals....Now Ive never done such a thing...the last thing I wanna think about is dead relatives, but to each their own!
I really dont think of anything but pleasing my partner. There are breathing techniques Ive learned that's helped me in this department of prolonging the satisfaction.....
 head.cloud123

Joined: 5/29/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:01:01 AM

I think of her pleasure BEFORE my own.


Submissive?
 facepainter

Joined: 2/22/2008
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:11:56 AM
Why would you want to stop from busting should be the question? Hammer away pull out, blast away, reinsert and repeat the process over and over again until you both pass out from exhaustion.
 Fred Bauder

Joined: 7/18/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:48:23 AM
Guys, during sex what do you start to think about so you won't cum so quickly?


I've tried thinking about rotten dead leaves, compost really, but it doesn't work more than about 30 seconds. I've never found anything that stops organism once I enter. It's just too wonderful... But, I've learned to keep stroking and can keep a hard on until a second orgasm, so I don't worry too much cumming the first time. It's the third or fourth time when I can't go on that I try to delay orgasm. But, it really doesn't work. It's just too stimulating.

Enthusiastic moaning, having repeated orgasms, and a few, "Oh, my God!"s do help me to cum...
 janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/27/2009 10:01:27 AM
Roadkill or my mom watching us.
 janus20

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Posted: 8/27/2009 10:01:40 AM
Roadkill or my mom watching us.
 beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/27/2009 10:16:03 AM
I focus my attention on my patner and want to make sure she is satisfied, that usually keeps me busy enough not to worry about it.
 sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/27/2009 7:57:17 PM
I try to recall my favorite episode of the "Golden Girls",that usaully keeps me going for as long as I need to please my partner.
 winteragain

Joined: 3/26/2009
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Posted: 8/27/2009 10:16:58 PM
i look down and stare at my beer belly then i'm like oh my god why is she even with me and i pull out and we start talkin about our insecurities but once that's over i resume the bang session to come out on top once again!
 Zuglo

Joined: 5/12/2005
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/28/2009 4:40:50 AM
I do math in my head...Works every time..
Expect when she looks at me and asks- Why do you have that confused look on your face???
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/28/2009 4:48:37 AM

I think of her pleasure BEFORE my own.




Submissive?


I'm curious........I've seen you say this a few times now.
Why do you consider a man is submissive if he actually cares about his woman's pleasure?
 tallshyman

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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/29/2009 10:13:49 AM
It's not good for you to think of Bad things to stop bustin!!!
 PrimeWoman

Joined: 4/25/2006
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/29/2009 12:47:06 PM
About 15 yrs ago, I worked with a gal who was about 15 yrs younger than the 40ish man she, for the lack of better term, hooked up with.

He hadn't been with a woman for some time after his divorce and she told me that he was premature first go around. Of course he was embarrassed and apologetic.
She told him, now that we got that out of the way, NOW we can really have some fun, and we have the whole night to do so.

So young, yet so wise.
 mechele99

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Posted: 8/29/2009 1:15:59 PM
Lol, too funny.
 passionteman

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Posted: 8/29/2009 2:08:49 PM
Put a puzzle right over her lower back and solve the puzzle while doing her doggy.
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