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 _batman

Joined: 8/22/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/29/2009 2:50:18 PM
Things to last longer;

1:Pull out, play around with oral
2:Think of Mr T from the A-Team
3:Grab the part between balls and****and pinch to reduce the climax level a bit.
4:Have your lover get really bouncy doing cowgirl and land on your jewels, hard. Instant anti-climax.
 327lovers

Joined: 8/22/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/29/2009 8:37:25 PM
I dont, it is all in your breathing. It is why I can go for up to 8 hours
 Sunskywind

Joined: 5/9/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/29/2009 8:50:37 PM
That the woman is a warm apple pie and suddenly Eugene Levy walks in on me.
 steveemac

Joined: 4/3/2007
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/30/2009 1:58:45 AM

Guys, during sex what do you start to think about so you won't cum so quicky?


My ex-wife; but if I do that for too long, I lose my sex drive altogether...
 guitarman100

Joined: 8/25/2004
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 8/30/2009 2:07:46 AM
1-I think dead cats
2-taxes
3-puking
4-ron jeremy watching me havine sex.... he is eat a tuna fish sandwich and it is dripping down his arm

those 4 work
 Inego Montoya

Joined: 9/9/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/1/2009 7:04:24 PM
Not a recent concern of mine. Usually get complaints I take too long. When I was a teenager it was different. Then I'd think about anything that wasn't sexual. If your BF all have that problem, try older men! (shameless plug!)
 airhead25

Joined: 5/7/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/1/2009 7:17:38 PM
nothing he thinks about can make a man last longer.... nothing.
the only way to slow it down is to slow it down or stopping for a minute.
whoever told you that story is false. it's a myth. thinking about something else does not help.
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 10/1/2009 7:24:06 PM
Open your eyes and open your mind and look at her. Notice the expression on her face the smile she has, the sudden quickeing of her breath, the panting, the sweating over her head. If someone took a picture of her, she would look in pain, yet she is rolling her eyes, she is gasping. Keep your mind on that, forget your own organ, forget your own pleasure. Pleasure is relative. Pleasure can be had anytime, the prize is that face, the prize is that expression when she now rolls her face left and right in ecstasy. Has she come? Not yet? You do not need to explode. So wait, slow down. Thrust deep, but now slow. Very slow. Park yourself at her cervix. Feel it. Look into her eyes, see how she rolls them. You are indeed inside her body. You are indeed part of her right this moment. Do you want to come right now? Do you want to think of stupid things like baseball? No. You want to push her, the ultimate connection that exists among humans. Feel her body, feel your sweat pouring all over her. Feel her own tears if she is feeling this intense. Feel. Feel. But not your di ck, feel your heart, and hers pulsating.

The problem with most guys is that you think your d ick is the center. It is not. Your d ick is the baton. It moves up and down and it means nothing by itself. But you put the orchestra, the music, the feeling, the woman's complexity of emotion and you got music.

That's what I think about to keep me from busting.
 GreenCarrot

Joined: 6/25/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 1:35:23 AM

To me the best a girl can do to help me is do nothing. Don't move, don't squeeze your muscle down there. Let me control the friction, speed and position.

Don't you hate those male posters who advertise their own vigor.

Sure I can do it six or eight times a night, every night. I know I can do it. I just need a woman to prove it.


i know right? like get the **** out of here no one thinks you're cool you douche bag. you're on a internet forum with a 400:1 guy to girl ratio talking about how good you are in bed, jesus christ.
 GoodmanGreg

Joined: 11/24/2007
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Posted: 10/2/2009 6:57:57 AM
OutMind: I read your comments and hope this isn't taken the wrong way, but as man myself I can tell you that you are 100% correct! Thats what I make every attempt to do. Enjoy every phase of it, entering, feeling inside, looking at her, gazing into her eyes. What is really great too, is if there is a mirror near by where both of you can observe yourselves enjoying the pleasure. Busting doesn't come into my mind until I know she is enjoying it and is ready to enjoy the ultimate pleasure with me at the same time (hopefully). I bet your remarks have gotten some high marks from the ladies here on POF. You deserve them!
 S to the B

Joined: 9/21/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 8:37:26 AM
i think about little kids falling out in 9 months. if she's on the pill, i kthink about baseball
 rickxyz

Joined: 1/27/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:51:40 AM
Sandra Bernhard or Bea Arthur should do.......
 winteragain

Joined: 3/26/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/2/2009 9:14:18 AM
If I bust, it was right on time. As far as I'm concerned, I can't bust fast enough. You girls just need to get used to the 2 minute mile if you want to enjoy the ride
 verityone

Joined: 10/23/2008
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Posted: 10/2/2009 9:47:41 AM
Never really thought about it.......I was too busy.....
 dee-cypher

Joined: 9/28/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 10:20:27 AM
depends...
if its passionate or theres foreplay then i could come in 2 mins.
depends on the mood rely but im always up for a shag.
if i wanna last long i just zone out and just meditate or watever but as soon as i see abit of tit wobbling or a sexy ass jigglin it snaps me right out of it...( im slighty perverted i know)
once you feel the tingles theres no turning back so i work on her before that happens. that way its even stevens. i dont haft to owe her 1.
depends on the partner aswell.
some chicks are just naughty and thats an instant bust no amount of zoning or meditation can help you.
but to your question id say i think about how detailed that wallpaper is lol
 scottdehart

Joined: 6/5/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 10:22:35 AM
Well, let's see....I'm thinking:

"Is she liking this? I think so.....she's moving well.... ahhhh dang that feels good...oh...oh...no....no...hold it....hold it......my god what a beautiful woman....ah...chit...noooo....noooo.noooo...okay....okay...okay....1 times 1 is one.....two times twoooooo....ahhhhh...no...no...what's that pain in my ankle?.....there...whew.......(Then she says...."I love it when you're trying to cum!"...OOOONNOOOOOOOOO.....OMG....OMG...BANG.....ahhhh.....*sigh*
(collapses on the bed)
 forumrum

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Posted: 10/2/2009 11:26:11 AM
Margaret Thatcher on a cold day
 MGoBlue4U

Joined: 5/19/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 11:39:41 AM
It's been a long time since I was a teen, but I used to either "partial" (cum just a little, but stop myself before cumming all of the way) or else I would just go ahead and finish, but continue on until I did again (which would take increasingly longer each time).

Partially it depended on if more lubrication would be a good thing or a bad thing as to which route I took. I still do both of these, but as others have said it is less of problem once you get older -- particularly if you are having sex often.
 InNCsearching

Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 11:40:56 AM
think about babies...that will end it right there!
 jacob8088

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 10/2/2009 8:04:13 PM
Whenever I start to feel the baby batter rising up, normally I would paint a clear image in my head of a 300 pound BBW shoving her used up bloody tampon down my throat. So far it has never failed me...yet.
 isntafraid

Joined: 4/9/2009
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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:09:21 PM
I tend to last too long. My gf moans, screams, ect- I tell her to shut up while I am working on a nut.
 leglover

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Posted: 10/2/2009 8:13:57 PM
I just imagine i`m in a long term relationship!
 ForeverLong

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Posted: 10/2/2009 8:30:18 PM
I don't have that problem. I have to put a lot of effort when I want to finish.
 GoodWitchBeth

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Posted: 10/2/2009 9:52:42 PM
LOL, I have to tell this...the bf is awesome with the timing, until he flips me over to doggie style and hits the 'cuss button', and then there's nothing he can do...because I say the nastiest things you have ever heard coming from anyone's mouth (and I normally do not use foul language at all), and once he hears that, he's lost! LOL

But it's all good, because my legs are shaking at that time, and the toes are curling and my eyes are rolled into the back of my head.

You just can't stop when your woman is screaming nasty things at you while you're giving it to her hard and fast! LOL

I'll be so glad when fishing season is over with, this waiting until Saturday afternoon for him to get here is killing me! LOL

Beth
 Genuinely Cool

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Posted: 10/2/2009 11:01:41 PM
Though climaxing at the same time is the best, that's not always possible. There will be times when a guy shoots to quickly. But he should still be hard enough, and to be able to keep it that way, until he get's her to climax. That's what I do when I just can't hold on any longer and I go first. And so far I've always been able to keep it going until she's also satisfied.
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