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A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/8/2009 9:24:53 AM

Truth, Adults make the best children-TruthinessInc


Great line. I'm borrowing this.



Laugh all you want... but these are the kind of people who end up on the news for raping... and the kind who destroy families.


Actually, they're not. People that seek to express these kinds of things with a partner are generally pretty harmless. It's the ones that suppress these urges (or any other sexual urges, really) because they've been taught that these things are bad and they are supposed to feel guilty about them that usually end up raping and commiting other kinds of perverse sex crimes.
 windloverr

Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 5/8/2009 9:44:48 AM
tattooednperky20 Kiddo, you are 22 years old, have never had children, have probably not had a lot of experience with very many vaginas, and are WAY short of a medical degree...PLEASE use just a bit of discretion and 1/defer to those who have been there; and 2/understand that JUST because you DON'T understand something doesn't mean it isn't so. First off, the MAJORITY of women DO NOT need stitches after child birth. The vagina is truly an incredible piece of engineering; and, YES, millions of years of evolution have indeed produced an organ that CAN INDEED stretch to many times it's original size, AND rebound back to "good as new". (and NO, I'm NOT talking about the male ego) NO, it is NOT an "instant" recovery; but, please, again, TRUST someone who has a couple of years on you, AND who has been there; you CANNOT tell the difference in the post child birth vagina, and the pre child birth vagina. My life experiences run similar to deerdog1; in that the loosest vagina I have ever experienced was from an average sized 19 year old who had NEVER had children. (I was 20 at the time, so don't freak, LOL)
 DeliVicious

Joined: 4/1/2009
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Posted: 5/8/2009 9:51:08 AM
to windloverr...Well put.I just couldn't stop laughing at some people's ignorance in such matters.But I get a kick out of those that make posts on subjects they have no experience in and judge those that have.
 no_1_bby

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Posted: 5/8/2009 12:57:27 PM

tattooednperky20 Kiddo, you are 22 years old, have never had children, have probably not had a lot of experience with very many vaginas, and are WAY short of a medical degree...PLEASE use just a bit of discretion and 1/defer to those who have been there; and 2/understand that JUST because you DON'T understand something doesn't mean it isn't so. First off, the MAJORITY of women DO NOT need stitches after child birth. The vagina is truly an incredible piece of engineering; and, YES, millions of years of evolution have indeed produced an organ that CAN INDEED stretch to many times it's original size, AND rebound back to "good as new". (and NO, I'm NOT talking about the male ego) NO, it is NOT an "instant" recovery; but, please, again, TRUST someone who has a couple of years on you, AND who has been there; you CANNOT tell the difference in the post child birth vagina, and the pre child birth vagina. My life experiences run similar to deerdog1; in that the loosest vagina I have ever experienced was from an average sized 19 year old who had NEVER had children. (I was 20 at the time, so don't freak, LOL)

Have I told you lately just how much I love you??? No??? Damn shame. I resisted jumping on pedophile/deviant lady and TnP... I'm glad someone sensibly responded.

I've had two children.. by c-section... and have had one guy try to fist me (without discussion or consent) and it was the LAST time he touched me. The current and I discussed it once time long time ago.. and after we'd been together a few times he said there was no way in hell he was going to even try it.

It's like anal sex... go slow, lots of communication, lots of lube, take your time. I've been told it feels great (fisting, not anal.. I know how THAT feels ;) ).. and *ahem* there are MEN that enjoy it too. ;) ;) But that's a WHOLE OTHER thread topic!!
 doink 1962

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Posted: 5/8/2009 3:29:17 PM
Oh no you didn't
 reliable2u

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Posted: 5/8/2009 5:59:23 PM
Few years ago, first time using the internet, downloading off lime wire, no shit of lie, this bald headed man put his entire head fully up women vagina. His whole head chin and all. and no I did not keep this.
 DeliVicious

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Posted: 5/8/2009 6:14:17 PM

Few years ago, first time using the internet, downloading off lime wire, no shit of lie, this bald headed man put his entire head fully up women vagina. His whole head chin and all. and no I did not keep this.


WHAT ?????!!!!!!

 Orgasminator

Joined: 5/14/2008
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Posted: 5/8/2009 6:45:48 PM
Oh thank you I was wondering where I lost my tuopee!

Dont mind a bit of fishing myself
Very relaxing
 TruthinessIncorporate

Joined: 12/27/2008
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A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 5/8/2009 6:57:39 PM
In case anyone was looking for the video in question...

http://www.uselessjunk.com/article_full.php?id=13359





Truth, cocaine’s a hell of a drug-TruthinessInc
 Leeanne

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Posted: 5/8/2009 7:06:20 PM

I once got into a real big verbal broo ha ha with this one woman..... we were in the process of getting to know each other, and I didn't know she was hard of hearing.

I asked her if she was into fishing.............. well I got slapped in the face!!! She was all flustered, shocked, huffing and puffing.... and stormed out of the coffee shop where we were.

I guess she misunderstood me huh.



I think I just pissed my pants laughing!!!
 emlamNsea

Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 61
WTF????
Posted: 5/8/2009 7:13:23 PM

GEEZ!

Males like the two of you need to find something more productive and RESPECTFUL to do with your time.

You both have pedophile written all over you!

Sickos. Disgusting PIGS!


Dude wants to fist a chick...how the hell does that make him a pedophile???

Just because you only have sex in the missionary position with the lights off on 5th Mondays of the month during leap years doesn't make everyone else a pervert...

GEEZ indeed.....
 emlamNsea

Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 62
So....
Posted: 5/8/2009 7:17:15 PM

The op is talking about doing this to young women who have not bore children yet.


...any woman who hasn't bore a child yet is a minor?

Get some therapy...and get laid....but mostly quit projecting your BS onto other people....
 emlamNsea

Joined: 4/19/2009
Msg: 63
OMG!!!!
Posted: 5/8/2009 7:20:02 PM

The op is talking about doing this to young women who have not bore children yet.


Pedophile!!!

I mean....MINOR!!!!

Do your parents know what you have been doing with pedophiles???
 emlamNsea

Joined: 4/19/2009
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OWG!!!
Posted: 5/8/2009 7:27:12 PM

A simple response to this is it is easier for women who have had children. I know that before I had kids I was tight even though I had a healthy sex life. The idea of fisting was just like losing my virginity, major ouch!

Well after and when with a knowledgeable partner(mainly a friend) I got this little idea. We had a healthy sex life but I seemed to want more when he used his hand. So each time I had him put more in and have the session prolonged. Eventually Four wasn't enough and I was wet enough to handle more. So we slowly added the next finger until I said it was ok to keep going. There will be a kind of suction that will happen to your hand. And you'll only be able to go a little ways in compared to your member. If it hurts stop immediately. but take a few sessions to get this going and don't make it a goal. If she likes a little spike of pain with pleasure then go ahead. For me it was the best experience I have had. I had so many orgasms from it that i couldn't get enough. But I am different and not all women like thing rough and ready. One great side affect of doing this is you get time to recover and then you go back to being almost as tight as a virgin again. Ahhh the healing powers of the vagina. Then you sir will get you reward in return for your service.


Pervert!!

Pedophile!!!

Do YOUR parents know what you are doing young lady!!!!????
 StraightUpOriginal

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Posted: 5/8/2009 7:30:43 PM
First of all, it is beyond my comprehension how any woman would get pleasure out of having a fist placed or should i say (jammed) into her twat. Not cool. In addition, when you decide to have sex it might be a little ........less tight after the fist has been all up in that. I suggest getting a blow-up doll to meet your needs for the fisting fantasy. Oh no.....the fisters are after me........better go....
 SevenShields

Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 5/8/2009 8:07:27 PM

GEEZ!

Males like the two of you need to find something more productive and RESPECTFUL to do with your time.

You both have pedophile written all over you!

Sickos. Disgusting PIGS!


Grow the FVCK UP!

If you can't handle a sex and dating page don't read it.

The last thing we want to do is be lectured by a woman who pimps her kids for a possible relationship.
 swtcarolinej

Joined: 11/11/2006
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Posted: 5/8/2009 9:02:50 PM
Straight-Up said it best..took the words right out of my mouth....Ive said things on these forums that they have kicked me off for.... how does some of this stuff get through???wondering..or "Just saying"
 meandsara

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Posted: 5/8/2009 9:37:00 PM
ummmmm sweetheartedlady.... i hope i don't get banned for this but i just can't keep my nouth (well i guess fingers) quiet.

maybe the fact that you can't grasp anyone's ability to want to try new things and expand their mind past what FOX news tells them (and if you get this and understand me i fvcking love you) is the main reason you are on a dating site and so bored with your life you have to try and flame a post that nobody made you view in the first place!

please be gentle forum mods lol
 CheshireCatalyst

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Posted: 5/9/2009 4:41:04 AM

Yeah, women are sexual deviants too. Since when would pedophiles have to be only female. The op is talking about doing this to young women who have not bore children yet.


I am 47 and have not borne children. By your definition, if someone tries to fist me they are a pedophile.

I always love reading the ramblings of people who have no real idea what they're talking about. But what's really scary about your post is that you are apparently a "guidance counselor."

Give your head a shake SHL.
 newblue1970

Joined: 3/7/2008
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Posted: 5/9/2009 5:57:33 AM

First of all, it is beyond my comprehension how any woman would get pleasure out of having a fist placed or should i say (jammed) into her twat

Well, StraightUp & SwtCaroline, I think its about time you expanded your comprehension! Surely you can understand that women like having something inside of them, getting that 'full' feeling. Some even like something in (gasp!) both holes to feel extra 'full'. And some like a fist inserted, after some careful practice of course.

As far as being 'less tight' - you do understand that the vagina was MADE to stretch right? A babies head is much bigger than a fist and after recovery it goes back to normal. Unless you think every woman that gave birth is now permanently 'less tight'...?

Maybe there should be a Vanilla Sex Forum where the horrified masses can talk about missionary sex and maybe having oral after being married. And this forum could be for open-minded folk who say "To each their own" and keep in mind that while something doesnt get off everyone, everthing will get off someone.
 daydreamer57

Joined: 4/12/2009
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Posted: 5/9/2009 6:21:56 AM
Then theres another that has no life....if A childs head can come out...I do think a guys fist can go in....not into that personally...and your prob payin someone at that!:
 no_1_bby

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Posted: 5/9/2009 6:22:00 AM

it is beyond my comprehension how any woman would get pleasure out of having a fist placed or should i say (jammed) into her twat.

And you should have stopped after comprehension. I don't offend easily.. but that one word (twat.. gah, I need to go wash my hands now) pretty much does it for me. *rolls eyes*

As has been pointed out already.. the vagina is a muscle.. it's been designed to stretch and *bounce back*.. altho that will depend on many factors. Genetics, muscle tone (Kegels people, Kegels!!), time..
 Reveal1K

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Posted: 5/9/2009 6:57:10 AM

Yeah, women are sexual deviants too. Since when would pedophiles have to be only female. The op is talking about doing this to young women who have not bore children yet.

Either way. This post is f-ing sick!

Laugh all you want... but these are the kind of people who end up on the news for raping... and the kind who destroy families.

Get a reality grip!

Oh yeah... and don't call me "sweetness."
You're an idiot.
 StraightUpOriginal

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Posted: 5/9/2009 8:41:50 AM
Well well well, my comprehension and common sense has told me this...... i seriously doubt that directly after childbirth a woman is going to have sex in the delivery room. Therefore, she will have time to heal up down there and regain elasticity. In addition the birthing process causes the release of oxytocin from the brain. Nurses give additional oxytocin to stimulate uterine contractions and assist in cervical dilation. Also, effacement occurs. Softening, thining, and increased ability to stretch. Fisting on the other hand is NOT a natural process, so no help from the body to "accomodate a fist" ! Silly goose, or should i say loose as a goose. I would love to see a man insert his penis in a vagina directly after having a fist slide in and out or circling all up in that. I prefer to climax, and a fist is not going to do it for me. Then when he inserts his penis, my walls will be a bit streched, so i won't be getting the stimulation i want. Did you put it in yet????? . Ahhh...what a waste, the fist should be used effectively and place directly in the face of chit talkers.
Ps. For those trying fisting, make sure to practice good handwashing and have him insert a condom over his fist. Latex is made to stretch you know?? Wow that sight makes me so wet. A fist with a condom over it. Ummm hmmmm.
 no_1_bby

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Posted: 5/9/2009 8:56:52 AM
There are many things that trigger the release of hormones that assist in fisting as well as many other things. Since you have no abillity to conceptualize the pleasure that the people that do this feel, and since you have no desire to attempt or participate in this.. why don't you stop lecturing everyone on how stretched out and abused their bodies are going to be. How do you know you wouldn't enjoy it if you've never tried it?? How do you know you wouldn't orgasm like mad? Seriously? Did you like food or exercise the first time you tried them? One of the main attractions to doing this, or so I've been told, is the sensation of feeling full.. not to mention that the knuckles are in position to stimulate the g-spot with a simple side to side motion. Imagine having that intense a stimulation right exactly where you want it most?

Fisting isn't just a sexual act. Keep in mind there's a level of intimacy and trust that goes into this. Because it's not as simple as penis-in-vagina sex, it takes time and lots and lots of communication to accomplish. Not really something that can be done in under 10 min. Not something you'd WANT to be done in under 10 min!!

If you can't be open minded enough to recognize that some people enjoy this and want it, perhaps you have made your last post here on the topic and would like to take your attention elsewhere. No one said you need to accept or want it. We get it. You don't understand the concept and have no desire to participate. *pat pat pat* Go away now so those who ARE interested can learn a few things.
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