| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/19/2009 10:14:23 PM | | OP.... yes you can I have had 1 child by c-section.. and yesss sir i am still tight as ever =] and am able to have sex immediately afterwards. but if she wants more but cant really take you being in control.. suggest she gets in the doggy style position and takes control herself.. that is the only way i have ever been able to take a full fist. AND YESS THE ORGASMS ARE ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL.. I personally have had up to 15 in 1 round=O But like a few have already said please go slow, make sure she is lubbed up and it should go smoothe.. have fun. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/20/2009 12:10:24 AM | Hey, SpecialHeartedLady
Question for you?
Did you grow your moustache because your father had one or because your mother did? | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/20/2009 5:13:40 AM | | I just have to say something. I enjoy fisting. My partner likes doing it to me. It's not an everyday thing, just like anal. It's a "when the mood hits" thing. As far as the woman being damaged goes, I asked my man and he said he was been with women who were pretty loose yet he could not fit. I am tight and so was one other woman he fisted in the past. Just my two cents worth. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/20/2009 5:34:03 AM | In regards to the "SpecialHeartedLady says"....I've not a clue where being a pedophile comes into the pic. What are YOU thinking? You need to 'google' pedophile. It had nothing to do with what this man is asking...at all!
I agree, as far as the question goes....go easy....go slow..... lol | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/23/2009 11:16:17 PM | ok.. i'm sitting here reading this.. and while i'm glad that somebody is talking about it... and that i'm enjoying getting educated about this.. i'm crossing my legs and not letting my p ussy see the screen.. haha
i've had a partner in the past who asked about this.. i just couldn't do it.. i'm sure it's mind over matter.. but i just can't see how it doesn't hurt like hell. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/24/2009 1:04:34 AM | LOL just hope you know that once you get fisted, there is no penis in the world gonna make that thang fill up nice and tight again!
Now, would you rather fill some fantasy about having some man shove his hand up there, or would you rather enjoy good sex with a normal sized man? If you get fisted too much, you will be required to have vaginal rejeuvination after a while to get things back to a normal size, where regular sex is pleasurable again.
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/24/2009 6:55:14 AM | | I just have to say that having started reading this thread out of curiousity, I never dreamed I would have laughed so hard. Wow. Thanks for the abs workout. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/24/2009 7:19:12 AM | ...but I do wish the mods would delete her posts.
j!dub, that's pretty selfish of you. SpecialHearted is performing a community service right here, and we're all benefitting. The more I read her posts the more normal I realise how normal the rest of us are. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/24/2009 11:22:55 PM | The more I read her posts the more normal I realise how normal the rest of us are.
If only I'd paid attention in English lessons. All that money on my education... wasted. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 6/25/2009 4:48:48 AM | Nooooo.......not all women can enjoy fisting.......and
No......not every woman can stretch that much
and the pedophile comment........friggin classic!
no wonder men complain about uptight women on here all the time w/
examples like that running around! | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:31:16 AM | Google or Wikipedia are good resources for proper technique
Well trimmed nails and exam glove would be a good idea
Slow slow slow hand and the duck position for the hand is preferable
NO she does not have to have given birth
The female body can accomodate different sized genitals so the experience for each woman will be a little different as some women are shallow/deep or narrow/wide
Lots of foreplay and communication can make this a special experience for you both | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:43:30 AM |
Please tell me if you can fist a lady who has not given birth.
yep, done it, quiet a few times as it happends... | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:06:17 AM | | Heck, I'm lucky if I can get my****in a woman without her being in pain, there is no way a fist is going in there. Most women are not able to take a fist nor do they want one. . Just because a woman gives birth to a baby doesn't mean she can take a fist in everyday life lol. A woman's body goes through lots of changes and help from doctor in order to be able to give birth and even then its unpleasant for them. Women sitting around watching tv arent able to take something the size of a fist in their twat, don't be so ridiculous. If she can she's a freak plain and simple. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:53:45 AM | I think that from a lot of responses in this thread, some folks need to work on "to each their own" mentality. Just because you are not turned on or excited by something, does not mean that other normal and well adjusted people are not as well. With a lot of off the beaten path sexual activities there is a lot of mis-information out there and people treat it like gospel. I think it is called mythical knowledge. There is a scene from the Simpsons that sums it up..
"Homer: Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. Lisa, honey, are you saying you're never going to eat any animal again? What about bacon?
Lisa: No.
Homer: Ham?
Lisa: No.
Homer: Pork chops?
Lisa: Dad! Those all come from the same animal!
Homer: [Chuckles] Yeah, right Lisa. A wonderful, magical animal."
People "know" something the have assumed, or heard, and then treat it as fact. I think with fisting in particular, it suffers from a really bad name, with all sorts of negative feelings. The word Fist reminds people of real violence, which has no place in a healthy sexual relationship. I would like to make a motion that the name be changed to "Whole Hand Insertion" or WHI for short.. Fun to say.. reminds people of a video game, or the noise you make on a roller coaster.
WHI may not be for every woman, but for those it is for.. the sound is appropriate. :) | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/8/2009 1:21:36 PM | Fighting on the internet is like competing in the special olympics Even if you win your still retrated.
And specialheartedlady is very closed minded and odd I know, I met her. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/8/2009 1:52:19 PM |
Fighting on the internet is like competing in the special olympics Even if you win your still retrated.
This post is full of win. | |
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/8/2009 2:08:36 PM |
LOL just hope you know that once you get fisted, there is no penis in the world gonna make that thang fill up nice and tight again!
Now, would you rather fill some fantasy about having some man shove his hand up there, or would you rather enjoy good sex with a normal sized man? If you get fisted too much, you will be required to have vaginal rejeuvination after a while to get things back to a normal size, where regular sex is pleasurable again.
Beth
You know this from experience do ya'? 
or the noise you make on a roller coaster.
WHI may not be for every woman, but for those it is for.. the sound is appropriate. :) laugh:
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| A question for the ladies - Fisting
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:23:45 PM | j!dub: SpecialHearted~...what disturbs me most about your rants is not the stupidity of what you are writing...God knows there are enough fools with access to the Internet and a belief they have something to say.
Nope...it is when I looked at your profile and found that you have a graduate degree and are beginning work as a counselor.
That blew me away. You had no grasp of the OP. You were completely off base on the pedophilia stuff. And then you went after your detractors like a pit bull wanting to hump a leg. You really need to rethink a career choice you can so easily sabotage by trashing people's life with your casual opinion delivered under the persona of being a professional counselor.
Just my $0.02 worth...but I do wish the mods would delete her posts.
I concur 1000%!!! In the time that I have been on POF, I don't think I've ever read such bitterness. Very disturbing, and to think this person is studying to be a counselor is even more disturbing.
For sure not only the posts should be deleted, but the member themselves.
P.S. Fisting - not my cup of tea. Sounds EXTREMELY PAINFUL!!! And not the "good" kinda of pain either.......lol | |
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