online dating service
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Relationships  > How should I interpret this      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 2 of 2 1, 2
 Author Thread: How should I interpret this
 brown_eyed_woman

Joined: 8/31/2008
Msg: 25
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 5/8/2009 8:46:09 AM
You are in charge of you. If it bothers you, dont answer the call/text. Ignore, block/delete. Use your power to control your life.
 tamzin01

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 26
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 5/8/2009 9:26:59 AM
Sounds like she just wants to know you're still alive and kicking, but doesn't want you back. Maybe she thinks she can be friends with you now.....only you know if you would want that or if it would still be rubbing salt in the wound. Personally, I think if this ended badly you're best just texting her back and saying "I'm fine but I'm happy getting on with my life without you".
 forum101

Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 27
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 5/8/2009 9:45:19 AM
Nip it in the bud!!! She is trying to use you as her back up guy. For when she has no one else on a string. Ignore, ignore, ignore. You dont want that crap in your life, or do you?
I think I would tell her first why you arent going to talk to her anymore. It might help toward her self-actualization.
 Sexy_Scorpion

Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 28
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:55:25 PM
why don't you BOYS pay attention!. All the girl was asking to see how you were doing. What is wrong with that? I'm sure a simple fine would do it! Anyone with common sense knows the more you ignore someone the worse things get. So nothing is wrong with women. You boys just take things the wrong way and blow it out of proportion!
Also, people make mistakes and that's what econd chances are for.


=P


The Professor!

 mcwr

Joined: 3/24/2009
Msg: 29
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:00:50 PM
Be assertive. Tell her to stop calling you, and let her know that further calls or texts will go unanswered.
 wces807

Joined: 3/17/2009
Msg: 30
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:05:06 PM
Just tell her you aint got time to wait on her making yourself unhappy. it sounds like the relationship was moving like molassis in February anyway. Tell her you have turned the page and if she wants to be friends tell her to ack like it.
 OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 31
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:17:27 PM
You know what man? Sit back and enjoy. Keep on ignoring her till it drives her insane.... and have a fun life. She's an ex for a reason no? Enjoy the situation.
 OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 32
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:19:00 PM
Ps. Talk to sexy scorpion....she be's hot..... unless she's your ex.... then keep ignoring her
 packagedealx3

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 33
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:25:36 PM
Don't waste your time wondering, it doesn't matter. If you have decided that it is over and she is not the one for you what she's doing doesn't matter. If you still entertain a relationship with her, ask her to get back together, otherwise I wouldn't talk to her at all.
 golfboy1701

Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 34
view profile
History
How should I interpret this
Posted: 7/12/2009 11:36:06 PM
I had exactly the opposite issue. I was in (what I thought was) a happy relationship. Then she started to kinda drift away, wouldn't return my calls, dodged my plans for weekends together (we were in school a couple of hours apart). It took a couple of months but eventually we were barely communicating, and then she calls me teary-eyed one day and complains that I'm ignoring her. Another month of silence after that and she "officially" broke up with me.

Fortunately, not all women are loopy like that. I'll send word back when I find the ones that aren't...
Page 2 of 2 1, 2
 
Show ALL Forums  > Relationships  > How should I interpret this