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 Lint Spotter

Joined: 8/27/2009
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triumphing despite the odds...would the means affect you having a relationship?
Posted: 9/17/2009 5:38:27 PM
Wow... I have to say I agree wholeheartedly with Sweetest.

As a single parent, I've taken some jobs that weren't exactly what I wanted but they put food on the table and a roof over my kids' heads. I love my children enough to do that for them and I take my responsibility as a parent very seriously.

It's true too, we are all selling ourselves - bartering our services for a paycheque.

Kudos to you sweetest for so eloquently voicing your opinion... and mine.
 MizBexReturns

Joined: 8/19/2009
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triumphing despite the odds...would the means affect you having a relationship?
Posted: 9/18/2009 10:52:02 AM
First, Sweetness...Bravo.


It's good that she's able to support, and provide for, them. But, has she sent the message that they must disrespect themselves, and sell their bodies, in order to succeed in live?


How is she disrespecting herself? Would it be better if she sat back and collected government funds instead of going out and finding work? Sometimes in life we find ourselves in situations that are less than ideal and it's bad enough that we have to fend for ourselves, but when you have children I imagine you would do WHATEVER it takes to provide them with the necessities of life.

You may think she disrespected herself for taking her clothes off, but guess what, we are born naked, but that is besides the point. I have to ask what do you think of what Bernie Madoff did when he was fully clothed? Compared to that, there is honor in being a stripper.
 PrimeWoman

Joined: 4/25/2006
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Posted: 9/18/2009 12:53:29 PM
OK, she became a stripper. I wouldn't absolutely assume she was also a prostitute.
It's probably a safe bet that she isn't into drugs and alcohol. Not absolute tho.
My question would be : What are her plans for the future?
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