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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 5/25/2009 9:58:00 AM | | Thank you so very much. I am going through this now as well, with days I almost can't do anything. You are so right, if he would leave me, he isn't the one for me, and I deserve more for myself. I am going to concentrate on becoming strong, for me, and my kids, and try to see this as an adventure (although going to Disneyland would have been ok too) lol. Thank you again.. | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/24/2009 11:30:19 AM | | I wrote this when I was last on this site and this is helping me remember that everyone can be positive. | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/24/2009 1:25:35 PM | | wow , talk about being right on time . i was just looking at this ladies profile and she said something like she is just on for the forums . i am new to this site so i checked it out and low and behold i was directed to these words of wisdom by some one who seems wise beyond there years . i just lost my love who went back to england after six months of being with her . i didn't know how i was ver going to get through it all . so many pictures and memmorries . i felt devistated when i saw her off at the airport , she told me its not good bye just seeya later. well as time went on it became good-bye as i dont see her comming back any time soon.i still talk to her but its getting colder and i am still in love with her . however my heart is broken and i miss her dearly . i like what you said though about her not being the one , because if she was then she never would have left . it made me realize that life goes on and someday i will find my true soulmate . thanks a million for these words that so truelly spoke to my heart ... | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/24/2009 5:16:40 PM | Thank you so much for this post. It helped me in what I am going through right now. I was just about to give in and begin to slip into a depression, but was fighting tooth and nail not to, and this was my life-line. I think things do happen for a reason and we may not know what the reason is at the time, but sooner or later, it always makes itself known. I know there is someone out there better for me than my ex (even though I still do have feelings for him but also realize he is not good for me) and I think that I am on the right track to finding them. It may not be soon, but I am on that track. Thank you again! Kudos!  | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/25/2009 5:50:27 AM | | For goodness sake I get tired of reading the same old bloody cliches "If he doesn't love you more fool him", what a load of crap. People fall out of love for many different reasons, to call someone a fool for not loving you is utterly ridiculous. Ask yourself why this person doesn't love you anymore? what did YOU do to erode his/her love for you? Instead of putting yourself on a fecking pedastal it might just be YOUR actions that caused your partner to fall out of love with you. | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/25/2009 3:31:57 PM | That's a cool post but your forgetting there's a flipside,
What about when your the one that's been forced to leave them because of their attitude towards you?
What about if you were driven to leave them because you couldn't take their anger that was always directed at you, even when you had done nothing wrong?
How do you tell someone that really still misses them and what they had now she is seeing someone else?
How do you tell someone everythings going to be ok when you see them together where you work everyday?
How do you tell someone everythings going to be ok when you send texts and keep up the pretence that your just sometime friends when really your just a memory? Where before you were really close friends that became lovers?
Complicated eh? Riddle me that one Batfans? | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/25/2009 10:32:01 PM | Very positive post. I really like it.
I believe that things happen for reason. But it's not so easy to think like that. I'm still hurting and so painful.
How can I get over it ? I really wish I was strong like you. | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/27/2009 2:37:01 PM | | to the original poster-NE Sunshine-I really, no REALLY needed to hear that-i cant thank you enough-you are a diamond. | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/27/2009 4:39:13 PM | Only God's love is constant and unwavering. All we need do is love Him back and trust in His grace.
The confusing part is, God exists within each and every one of us, so God is actually in the HEART of every relationship. But we ignore His love with the clutter of our minds and place our faith in the wrong thing, each other, when we're all limited.
While we CAN lean on each other for support, the truth is we're not strong enough to save each other from the emptiness of our own souls. Only God can do that. All we need to is relax and accept His love and grace. We do it every night when we fall asleep-! | |
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| Words for the broken hearted...
Posted: 11/27/2009 9:28:40 PM |  Lord, I had brain freeze for a moment and had forgotton all that! thanks so much for the reminder:  | |
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| At the end of the day, it IS all about YOU
Posted: 11/28/2009 3:01:29 PM | Sorry. In the end, it is and has to be about "you".
If you can't help even yourself, you can not help anyone.
I've always given whatever I had to any friend who needed or asked. At some point, I let everyone else, and I am also struggling with a heavy broken heart right now as a result of giving to that 'one' person I loved "more than myself."
And they took and took until I broke.
And they didn't care.
So, in the end, you HAVE TO think of yourself first. But that is in the end. Give of yourself certainly. But be able to recognize where 'the end' is and do not go any further.
Sadely, you can expect no one will be there when you need help.
Hopefully, someone is there for you in your time of need but don't expect that.
It's all about you. Believe it.
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| Your effort was the best word
Posted: 11/28/2009 3:09:00 PM | Dear nesunshine,
For whatever words reaches whomever reads your post, no matter.
You inspire me for having spent the time to write a post of that length, completely heart felt, honest and with good intention.
Let me also mention, coherent.
I am broken right now with pain I feel into my chromosomes.
Some of your words I hung on hoping for that 'click' where I finally let go of the pain.
Almost, but not yet. I'm not ready yet.
But I will be some day soon, and when I'm ready, I'll look back through your post and find 'all of those clicks' in what you wrote.
And I'll thank you again on that day.
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