| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/2/2009 12:21:55 AM | this one is easy; you are choosing bad guys; that should be where the focus is; many go just for looks, or the player types or something. You are choosing very badly and until you find out why you do, NOTHING will change.
Too many times women say all guys are dogs; no the ones you choose are. And if you sleep with them soon, it will be worse.
Outgoing could mean many things; a flirt, a tease, loves attention, or something else.
The same thing will happen unless you start looking more at character, then looks and having a mindless good time. The answer lies within | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/2/2009 8:09:48 AM | Bonandiz,
Don't let these people that tell you stuff isn't important get to you. Stuff is very important. Most of the women putting you down wouldn't look twice at a guy driving an 80 pinto with offers to take them out to mcdonalds. Now I will say nice cars/boats are only a means to an end; that end being having a good time. I love being able to drive over 120 on the interstate, it excites me. Can't do that in a piece of sh*t car. Thing is figuring out what you want and not settling for anything less. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/2/2009 2:31:42 PM | I have a suggestion for you, stop trying to find a guy and take some time for yourself. The right guy could come along when you least expect it. So go do the things u say you like doing shopping, clubbing and just dont try. Have fun.  | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/2/2009 4:26:13 PM | Sweetie, texting is fun. Yes, its cool and oh so modern. Shoot people didn't text each other just a few short years ago, so now thats its a hot fad its exciting to text.
But text has no tone. Smiles, laughs, sarcasm, humor, joy, surprise, body language and especially a gaze into your eyes is either nonexistent or its hard to interpret meaning when texting. Somehow 'LOL' doesn't rock me as much as hearing a friend really laugh --
To have a relationship via texting may be the wave of the future but I imagine the relationships won't be lasting very long. Your short two or three week relationships kind of come with the territory.
Don't get me wrong, I text alot. But I'm sure the lack of tone helped make my last relationship go down the tubes! She took me wrong, I took her wrong.
Once it starts getting good -- meet him or talk on the phone.
Yeah it sucks that its the old fashioned way, huh? | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/3/2009 4:55:37 PM | | I like your sunglasses personally and I ont think there is anything wrong with wanting nice things. we all do. Maybe since that has happened to you , you coulod be giving off the vibe that you are expecting it to happen. You know men any sign of neediness or insecurity and off they run. Computer ating is hard too. Your expectations are usually high and then you are disappointed when you finally meet. I think we all need to get back into life and off the computers. Nothing like a spontaneuos meeting. So much better for dating. Hope you find what you are looking for. So just relax and enjoy your date,.Dont worry if you will see them again and I promise things will work out better. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/3/2009 5:01:47 PM | hey sweet i know how u feel i planned to meet a girl i travelled over 200 miles for her to laugh in my face but i promise u huni u will find the 1 never go on looks always go for wats inside thats wat counts the most xxxxxxxxxx  | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/4/2009 11:43:45 AM | | maybe their is three side to you but i've never but been honest with any girl i've ever dated.also was gonna date why would you lie even to help yor cause its far more benifit to tell the truth | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:29:02 PM | The same thing is happening to me right now. I went on a date with a girl on wednesday night, we kissed and held hands and I thought it was going great and when I kissed her goodnight she said see you later. But since we went on the date she hasn't phoned or texted me since, and I'm wondering what the hell I've done wrong! What annoyed me with her is she said she's sick of being used, but now she's doing the same thing to me!
If she just comes out and says I don't think this is going to work out, then I could understand that, but instead of that she's just staying slient and keeping me hanging!
I have been used in the past and it just keeps on happening, you then think to yourself what's the point. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:47:36 PM | I know you're young, but stop having relationships by "text". It's hard enough to communicate with people right in front of you, it's impossible to get to really know someone by texting and emailing. Everyone is pretty good at putting on an act for 2 weeks, then the real person comes out - and that's if you're spending real time together not just texting and emailing!
Good luck, and post another picture - this one does not make you look serious about attracting someone great! | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:51:28 PM | | i lied,truth is everything to me but i will not get you a girlfreind or anything know one wants to hear the truth you all say you do but you rather hear half lies | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/4/2009 1:52:20 PM | | Good for you! No one should be "hurt" when a relationship is a few weeks old and conducted by phone! | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:36:00 PM | You have a good point.
I have been in the same place but then I changed my ways and now I don't have guys breaking my heart . Trust me those types of guys are always no good and I'm sure you can do better than them. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:30:45 AM | Join the club. I am in so much pain it is unreal. I married a man I dearley love in 1994. I already had 3 sons 2 of them grown and married ,at the time youngest son was 13. We were married for 15 years, in January 2009 my 35 year old son died, then March 4th 2009 my husband of 15 years just popped up said I want a divorce and left me.
LOVE SUCKS. and like you I am SICK of being hurt in love. | |
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| Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 7/6/2009 4:09:43 AM | | first of all, stop all that texting. if you just stick to phone calls, you can hear the tone and feel what they're really saying. and stop the IMing too. | |
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