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Posted: 11/4/2009 12:01:56 AM | Better to have big flaps then big feet I reckon.....big feet look awful on chicks.
Seriously though, if you like her then you should like her lips really. Tell her its all beautiful (even if you think it isn't) and imagine if the shoe was on the other foot and women in your past had said to you "I really like you and all but by fcuk you have one ugly c0ck there"
It would probably affect your body confidence a bit too. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 4:13:00 AM |  Hilly...
This whole thread is just odd. I just cant imagine going on dates, really enjoying someones company, sweet talking them into bed.... AND THEN the big moment comes, she's there .... she's naked.... and the guy runs screaming from the room.... 'OMG you have an ugly VJ'...  Please ... please.... tell me this honestly doesnt happen.
I hear what the guys are saying too.... and in all honesty I dont think I've every seen an unattractive penis... probably because they've all been attached to someone I've wanted to shag the brains out of. For the life of me, I dont understand the ladies who inferr that there is such a thing as an ugly penis either.
Truly.. have people honestly become THAT shallow???? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 5:47:30 AM | ..................LOL. I remember the first time I saw an uncircumcised one...........didn't know what it was!!!
Aardvark!! (just saw that in the circumcision thread, and it bore repeating, lol)
Seems to me the relevant issue is not so much the size of the pvssy lips, but whether, when it first looms before you, the gate is gaping open, ready to entertain a guest, and honor a preceding invitation, or sealed tight shut (the jittery ones, lol), and you must first find the key to open the latch.
Big feet? LMAO!! An ex had unusually large ones, the ONE thing that even slightly unsettled her extraordinary confidence, so I dubbed her "Snowshoe", and explained to others within earshot that she was unable to pass through most doors sideways (but only when she was waxing "macho", lol). She was particularly proud of her pronounced arches, and her swimming pool footprint (only the edges showed wet). But yeah, kinda agree with Hilly- Frodo feet would be something I'd have to work around, not through. Lol | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:31:42 AM | My bad folks. Ausies have NOT made snipping illegal. However, it IS strongly discouraged; read here;
http://www.circinfo.org/parents.html
My lack of academic rigor has distracted us from the point, which is that when discussing uncut males, there are a fair number of responses from women that are certainly no less insensitive than the OP's to certain configurations of female natural genitalia. When those remarks surface, very few if any get called on it.
Are the skins of guys just presumed to be so much thicker? When women express revulsion at the sight/thought of an uncut male member are guys expected to just laugh it off? Some of you ladies on this thread sure let the OP have it for expressing his thoughts. I can see why too; they were more than a bit ignorant and immature. His lack of experience was evident, but he was honest about how he felt. Look what it got him; some very appropriate correction. My only point is that we strive to be more even handed in our criticsm of such comments across the board. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:19:06 AM | In reading the original post all I gathered from it was a question about something of which the OP essentially confessed to not know... thus the question. It didn't seem insensitive or negative at all. Just an inexperience and a search to learn how best to approach the situation positively with his companion. I saw nothing in the original post to warrant the instant attacks although I do understand that many come here simply to attack.
The OP mentioned somewhere the word "irritation"... for those that might know would her lack of interest in receiving be because of a physical discomfort with how the act is being performed and is there a constructive way to tell the OP how possibly to change how he performs the act to make it more pleasurable for her? | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:16:37 PM | | It could be genetics, or then again maybe she took a few shots of botox.. | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:49:02 PM | | It's genetic. It has nothing to do with activity, any more than a man can "grow" from maturbating or sex. Sexual activity doesn't change the shape of your genitals. My labia minora protrude past my labia majora, but it rarely causes discomfort. If it does for her, there's a surgical procedure to make them smaller. That's up to her. If you don't really care, then don't act like it's unusual, if it does matter, then please stop wasting her time, and yours. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 1:09:34 PM | Now that you've been clearly informed that it's purely genetics, how about making her feel good about her body?
Go down on her, tell her how sexy it is, tell her she's beautiful down there, tell her how you love her lips, tell her how you want to suck on them, how good she tastes, and how you coul stay down there for hours bcause she looks and smells and tastes so wonderful.
You would be doing her a world of good to give her positive reinforcements that she is beautiful in the nether regions. She will be able to relax and enjoy it, and possibly be able to orgasm.
You need to be more sensitive to her insecurities. How would you feel if you had heard negative comments about your penis all your life? And everyone else looked different from you? It would make you a bit insecure too.
Love her, all parts of her, and make her feel good about herself.
Beth | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 1:38:25 PM | | This whole subject is funnier than shit! I mean seriously if we are looking this hard for something wrong in a partner, well good luck is all I can say! Big Labia lips,wow | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 2:27:07 PM | why did the women answering get so angry?
Are your lips too huge and you are insecure about them? | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 4:42:21 PM |
This reminds me of Goldie Hawn in "The 1st Wives Club".............
Me, too!!! Lol. But, uhhh, she's lovable, and the guy in this thread, nuhuh. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 6:04:32 PM | It's genetics, dude. What should she think about little penises? They atrophied due to lack of sex? She might be questioning you!
Poor girl. I hope she finds a loving guy. | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 7:30:33 PM | I gotta agree lol. There's nothing wrong with an uncut**** and nothing wrong with a fleshy puzzy. 
I loved that website btw and am glad so many guys like big pussies.  | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 7:51:52 PM | Do you want a two bite burger, or a Big Mac! The more meat, the more you eat!!  | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 8:41:15 AM | | Genetics is right, and I know personally how embarrassing it can be. Mine stick out a little too and it is embarrassing enough just knowing that mine is different with out someone pointing it out. Some guys like it though. I have thought about having surgury to reduce them and maybe she would be interested in something like that. However if you bring that up make shure to tell her that you are thinking about how uncomfortable SHE is with it and tell her that it is just an option if it bothers her too much. DONT make it sound like you want her to do that. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 10:06:21 AM | | Honestly, if you're gullible enough to actually think sexual intercourse changes the shape of a person's genitals, maybe you should re-think being in a relationship. Everyone's designed differently. There's no "perfect vagina" or "perfect penis". | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 11:24:35 AM |
Go down on her, tell her how sexy it is, tell her she's beautiful down there, tell her how you love her lips, tell her how you want to suck on them, how good she tastes, and how you coul stay down there for hours bcause she looks and smells and tastes so wonderful.
I guess you worship every penis the same way even when you're repulsed by some. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 7:12:11 PM |
I'm sure there a lot of men who would be turned on by her shape and size.
Nope, not at all. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 7:12:22 PM |
just kind of gross to me. I don't really want to touch it at all. | |
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Posted: 11/9/2009 12:52:04 PM |
The OP isn't into big labia lips. What wrong with that?
Why the hostility?
The hostility is not because of the OP's preference, but because of his belief that big lips are caused by lots of sex/large penises. There's so much ignorance in the original post that it obviously enraged many people. | |
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