| Let's get naked
Posted: 9/15/2009 1:29:58 PM | LMAO ... In answer to a man asking me if I still wear a two-piece bathing suit, I actually told him "Heavens No!!! I don't want anyone to go blind!!!" To which he said "I think you'd still look nice in a bikini."
So I bought one, wore it to the beach and have not put on a one-piece swimming suit since.
The day that I don't feel okay in my two-piece swimming suit ... then that will probably be when I start undressing in a closet ... if I have a partner - cotter
I had to buy a new bikini this summer, as my size has changed somewhat (no longer breast-feeding) Haven't bought one in over 10 years 
The woman at Zellers was showing me these
one-piece suits that have a spandex "girdle" built into them!Ack!! 
The day I would wear a one piece, I would probably be too heavy & out of shape to swim anyway. Thank goodness you listened to your man-friend, cotter.
I think we women are WAY too hard on ourselves. You don't look "a few extra pounds" at all, IMO. Speaking as someone reasonably objective, who is also "a few extra pounds". (I still think there should be another catgory in between "a few extra pounds & BBW. That's one heLL of a gap, IMO!)
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This happened to a lot of girls, even if the same was not put on the boys in the same family. When you are told over and over to cover this or that up always in that "tone" then you start to feel it is bad. - SmilingSalmon
Too true, we spend way too much time emphasizing the differences, instead of the similarities. We teach (well, not ALL of us), boys that taking a leak in a park is okay; they put urinals in public & school washrooms. I even discovered when we all went as a family to the Aquatic Center when my boys are young, even swimming pool change rooms, are different! How silly is that?! Although if I could change it, I would probably try the other direction. I would prefer boys to learn more body modesty, rather than girls less. JMO.
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For the sake of being real. Clothes don't hide that much. You can pretty much look at a person clothed and imagine how they look naked. So, whoever you're getting naked in front of shouldn't be too surprised. - TruGold
God, how I wish THAT were true! I don't know what kind of clothes you wear TruGold, but mine do an excellent job of hiding my excess.
Too much so sometimes, I think
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Do you ever see that commerical for the sports bra where the lady is handling a jack hammer? - maeflowers
I usually use the commercial breaks to eat or go to the bathroom, I'm afraid I missed that one! Sounds funny! I do collect funny commercials,
from an online download site. Some of them are just a hoot! Especially some of the banned ones.
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I'm thinking .... not all that many over 45 people (male or female) look as good undressed as dressed. - Ron9
Sad but true, Ron9 ) ) ) ) ) | |
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Posted: 9/20/2009 8:28:03 PM | | why does everyone get so panic at the thought of being naked in front of the other sex well I am a nudist and the body comes in all forms and i must admit that i like the naked body and yo as a 60 year old are in great shape and do not be affrid to hide it, I tell the person that i am going to go out on a date with that I am a nudist and when in my home I am always nude the funny thing is they will come over with me and always have they removed there cloths inside the door as i do and we can then sit down have a drink and feel more relaxed than those trying to impress by sitting there trying not to say something to offend one another try it some time you will see the true person you are with. | |
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Posted: 9/20/2009 9:13:44 PM | ^^^
can I buy a "." ?
Have you ever hear the song about tequila making her clothes fall off? That'd be about what it would take if I wasn't madly in love. 
In the meantime, I'm still going to the gym! | |
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Posted: 9/21/2009 11:58:05 AM | | B F D! We worry about such things too much. Do you really want someone perfect anyway? | |
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Posted: 9/23/2009 7:06:52 PM | www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_6I50oXAVM
"I just don't look good naked anymore"
This song is a hoot!
We need to laugh about our bodies and not feel so self conscious.... | |
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Posted: 9/23/2009 8:20:37 PM | | I love it!! I'm always out and in the sun, mountain top, swimming, beaches...being naked is not a problem. And others don't seem to mind seeing me naked either. | |
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Posted: 9/23/2009 11:11:57 PM | Hmmmm.....Well, I've got a lot of scars from surgeries and 2 lumps that are implanted devices. One on my right abdomen and the other on the right cheek of my a$$. Would I be comfortable, HELL NO! It'd be a major mood killer If she were to start asking about or mentioning the lumps and scars. I'd hope she would be polite enough to wait until afterwords.
Doyle | |
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Posted: 9/23/2009 11:19:48 PM | | If the sexual chemistry is right, and the foreplay has worked its magic, then the last thing I will worry about is how I look naked. 10 minutes later I might, but by that time it's too late. lol | |
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Posted: 9/24/2009 1:04:32 AM | | ^^^I agree! Goodness me, we're always thinking. That's what is so great about sex - you get to stop for a while! | |
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Posted: 9/24/2009 2:59:30 AM | I have also let the loud cutting remarks of the all too shallow men on here freak me out about it a bit. There are just so many here. Those are the dangers of the internet. People will make you feel worthless if you let them.
IF YOU LET THEM.......is the key part of your observation.....Ms. Smiling.
That's why we evaluate people on their personalities and what they write in profiles & posts.......rather than how they might look naked.
This post is for the men who malign women........and their " not so perfect" nakedness............SUCKS TO BE YOU.........if you're using your computer as a Sears Catalogue, Sports Illustrated (Swimsuit Edition) or Playboy. Or, as a way to project your bile..............
Spins head.........................Spins it back in place........... | |
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Posted: 9/24/2009 5:09:14 AM | I do think that anybody who is going to allow themselves into a situation where you are naked with them is most likely to be perfectly happy with whatever you look like au naturelle.....
Otherwise, they would avoid the situation entirely. For that reason, the issue is not really worth worrying about..... | |
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Posted: 9/24/2009 7:10:35 AM |
anybody who is going to allow themselves into a situation where you are naked with them is most likely to be perfectly happy
I gotta agree with you rearguard2 ..!!
If by our age they "don't" know what to expect...
they deserve any fright or dissapointment they get..!!
---SoldierByte--- | |
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Posted: 9/24/2009 7:54:08 AM | LOL - good point guys...and you can get an idea from what you see anyway.
I went from a relationship with someone 7 years younger than me, to one with someone 9 years older - sure there were very natural differences, but unless I really thought about it and "looked"...I didn't really see. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 8:50:39 AM | | Ok. You're 54 years of age. Gravity happens. If this person truly cares about you then you've got nothing to worry about. Relax. Have fun. Stop trying to suck in your gut. If you're that concerned about it, go to the gym. Don't sweat the small stuff! | |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 9:38:24 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^What she said.
I must say at the age of 54, that when I have stripped off my clothes to make love with my man, the last thing I am thinking about is whether my body passes inspection.
When I was younger, yes I did worry about how I looked naked. Now, well if figure my guy is going to have a general idea what I am going to look like, he has seen me naked more times than I can count, and he still keeps coming back for more lovin' so I guess I am plenty good enough.
I figure the person next to me in bed is there because of who I am on the inside, not because I could be a Victoria Secrets Model. They are attracted to me with my clothes on, and getting naked carries with it the bonus of getting to make love. Making love with someone you care about sure trumps any less than perfect portions of my anatomy.
I am a beautiful woman whether I have flabby thighs, or am too thick in the middle.
I am sexy and vibrant and plenty exciting. As fun2bewith1958 states "if this person truly cares about me I've got nothing to worry about. So as she says, I relaz, and have fun."
I love every inch of my man's middle age body too. He earned those few extra pounds with life experience. There is more of him to love. I would not trade him in for a man with a six pack for anything. | |
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Posted: 9/26/2009 7:33:43 PM | | I agree with that completely...in the moment, I'd lose myself in the other person and not really worry about how I look.... | |
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Posted: 9/26/2009 8:37:44 PM |
I do think that anybody who is going to allow themselves into a situation where you are naked with them is most likely to be perfectly happy with whatever you look like au naturelle.....
...I sure as hell hope so cause once the clothes come off I'm past worrying. I've got other things on my mind.
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Posted: 9/27/2009 1:40:17 AM | | I like my 6pack....it's hidden under the insulation | |
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Posted: 9/27/2009 1:49:03 AM | | women after they have had children get a ..how should i describe this without saying an escalator...ok. i know all flabby and it kinda looks bad or unhealthy...stretch marks and stuff.like a bad boob job with scars and ..oohhhh...cept the stretch (scars ) can be reduced with healthy eating and gettin off the couch more often.plus the excersize reduces the chances of ostyporosis later in life......ya ya spell check. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2009 1:52:35 AM | IVE GOT N PROBLEM GETTING NAKED ITS ALL ABOUT AN OPEN MIND  | |
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Posted: 9/27/2009 8:06:46 PM | Fortunately, for most of us, those we date are older as well, which means their eyesight is faltering!
Seriously, though, c'mon, nakkie is good! Men are just grateful that you are. Have you ever had a complaint? | |
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Posted: 9/27/2009 8:24:44 PM | | Awww.....if I am naked with someone than I am pretty confident that we both like each other enough to show our secerts...besides I like show and tell.......... | |
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Posted: 9/27/2009 9:39:59 PM | <--has no problem being naked...
As a matter of fact, I am all for taking one day a week where thats all we do, stay naked! With or without a partner!
All for naked thursday's? Say Aye!!!! | |
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Posted: 9/27/2009 9:47:03 PM |
As a matter of fact, I am all for taking one day a week where thats all we do, stay naked! With or without a partner!
All for naked thursday's? Say Aye!!!!
Just one day a week? Lisc123, I would make a counter proposal that says lets make clothing optional from sunset to sunrise, seven days a weeks. Think of how much money we would save on pajamas. | |
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