| Let's get naked
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:59:51 PM |
Darkness is my friend. I think it's only natural to be a lil nervous about the whole thing in general. Ah, Ms. shinin' blue eyes, bein' a lil nervous at any time is just part of being human, but to then rob the viewer of the pleasure of a visual feast is just criminal - or should be! There is only so much we can see with our fingertips. TK
Ok, candle light or moonlight.
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 10/17/2009 1:40:42 PM | | Anticipation is fun! Nervous, not so much. Put that nervous energy to good use. Excercise. Make it easy on yourself, buy an eliptical so you don't have to deal with getting in the car,going to a gym, waiting for equipment, yada yada. Also the likelihood that you'll keep it up is bertter if it's convenient. I love it! If you do 20 minutes at the start of your day, you'll have more energy. You'll feel better and look better and this the great part--you gain confidence! You also gain control. Have fun! He's nervous too. | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 10/17/2009 1:49:08 PM |
. Excercise
Awww.....this makes you feel confident, sexy and assured that you feel your best....
The more I exercise the better I feel sexually.......and the more fun I have being seen naked....
I love elliptical..... | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 9:09:01 PM | | Excercise...that's a dirty word to me. I prefer to get my excercise playing, hiking, skiing, swimming, golfing, anything where I don't have to realize that I am excercising! Just moving and having fun. | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 10/17/2009 10:03:14 PM | You are right fun exercise works wonders. I have a 100 lb retriever, with looong legs. We walk daily, and in -40 we walk fast. lol
As far as getting naked goes, if I am really warmly comfortable. Then no probs, but if not, then I'll be wanting to sew my clothes to my skin. yeaa, all in the perspective. | |
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Posted: 10/17/2009 10:19:23 PM | its difficult, especially when you have a made a special effort to post a pretty hot pic, you then worry that the expectation is going to be a bit too high to achieve, some bits bigger other bits smaller, sometimes you feel you should `prewarn` someone that this isnt perfect or that, it can end up being a very stressful experiene!!
Uh huh...I always worry about their expectations. My body is not that of a 30 or 40 year old anymore and I too worry about the jiggly bits, and the not so perky boobs, I've given birth to three children....
My friends and I were having a bit of fun at work one day discussing this very thing. We decided that it was not best to lay one one's back when it was time to "do the deed"... things have a tendancy to flatten out.
So then we thought it best if we take the "upper position"...but that wouldn't work either cause then the girls are left to just dangle.
After much more discussion we felt taking an upright position, facing one another would probably work best and in low light.
...maeflowers | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 10/17/2009 10:53:15 PM | OMG.......I see a pulled muscle or two coming, or at least a cramp that will have you bouncing those parts around any way, as you try to stop the pain..
...As if I didn't have enough to worry about, now leg cramps...
I know what you're saying and I appreciate that. And you're right... in all probablity I will be so caught up in what I hope will be super hot sex I won't even give my nakeness a second thought.
You must realize by now that half of what I post is purely for entertainment purposes.
...mae | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 10/18/2009 5:45:02 AM | In the Lounge & not looking down at anyone
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Posted: 10/18/2009 5:46:42 AM |
You must realize by now that half of what I post is purely for entertainment purposes.
Oh yes....that I do realize.....sniff..... | |
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Posted: 10/18/2009 9:26:45 AM |
You must realize by now that half of what I post is purely for entertainment purposes.
Oh yes....that I do realize.....sniff.....
...My dear "rear" Hmmmm, so appropriate for this thread... Please, did say I not state "half of" what I post .
...mae | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 10/20/2009 7:18:07 AM | Woman on top sex with hanging breasts is a fine and excellent thing! Not anything a woman needs to worry about, more a treat that she offers a man.
In fact all this fretting over imperfect bodies is a total waste of time. Offer what you have and offer it willingly, and that's the #1 turn-on for anyone. | |
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Posted: 10/20/2009 4:49:05 PM | Now that was right on the mark | |
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Posted: 10/20/2009 5:35:55 PM |
Woman on top sex with hanging breasts is a fine and excellent thing! Not anything a woman needs to worry about, more a treat that she offers a man.
...Fine and excellent thing ya say.........well ok then
In fact all this fretting over imperfect bodies is a total waste of time. Offer what you have and offer it willingly, and that's the #1 turn-on for anyone.
Thanks.....some of us wimmens need to hear this type of reassurance from time to time.
...maeflowers | |
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Posted: 10/20/2009 7:19:12 PM | I have no problem getting naked as long it's under a Rubens painting, the lighting is good (candlelight is best), and I know he hasn't had any since the beginning of the war.
He would also be someone I know is mature enough to realize that neither of us are the god or goddess we once were. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 9:00:22 AM |
That is just it though isn't it? If the someone I'm with is mature about it and makes me feel really special, then I relax. Then I love being naked with him! (chance would be a fine thing though, hence why I'm on here! lol) | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 9:29:10 AM | | as comfortable as you are with yourself. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 9:52:43 AM | | Well, I have the body of a Greek God, so no worries about exposing it..... | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 4:11:10 PM | | Heck, I look so bad I even wear full long-johns in the shower. But, then that accomplishes part of the laundry, too. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 4:18:42 PM | | I dance around nekked singin' Natalie Cole songs, as long as a mirror is nowhere within 12 square meters | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 6:19:56 PM |
See Mae.....if you look at sex the same way as the entertainment value of your words, you would worry much less because just as you can snap out that sentence that requires reading between the lines, so you can with sex between the sheets.......
...So what are you saying? Put out or shut up?
Maybe if more of us would share in such a way, as we get to know each other, that there are no real surprises when the clothes come off, unless it is the surprise of how much better we are once together, than we were when not..
Huh?
...mae | |
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Posted: 10/21/2009 7:02:30 PM | Think about it my dear Mae.........and it is not ok to shut up when you put out......but only if you want to do that.....
...I have been known to be left totally speechless from time to time *wink*...But otherwise... Moi, stifle? Not bloody likely.
So HUH????......right back at you my dear!!
What can I say in my defense, I'm deprived. Apparently I'm also in need of "Replacement therapy".
...mae | |
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Posted: 10/22/2009 5:22:03 AM |
What can I say in my defense, I'm deprived.
Deprived or depraved? The former I can help with, the latter you are on your own... | |
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Posted: 10/22/2009 8:16:28 PM |
I have no problem getting naked as long it's under a Rubens painting, the lighting is good (candlelight is best), and I know he hasn't had any since the beginning of the war.
We all understand that there can be partners who expect Barbie or Ken. However, just by looking the woman over during dating most of us get an idea of what they will be "enjoying". A few wrinkles and a sag or two here and there I would expect and it would not be a deal buster. If my lover would come over the bed like a leopard in heat, oh my. Forget the few wringkles confidents and a bit of loving aggressiveness will dispell any fears of nekkidness. Pure-de-lust burning inside oif the two inlove individuals. Oh, Make sure the doors closed and the stereo is o0n loud.` | |
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Posted: 10/23/2009 6:32:37 AM | I'm just wondering how any two people could be dating, seeing each other enough to have reached the stage of "nakedness", and not have any idea of what each would look like naked.  Unless, of course they have been  the whole time. | |
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Posted: 10/23/2009 6:36:09 AM | | Good points, TrueGold. Just to want to get naked with someone would mean to me that I pretty much knew what to expect. Of course, there are always those with tattoos that are kept hidden until the last moment..... | |
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