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Posted: 10/23/2009 7:01:29 AM | I saw an ad on TV last night that said for 100 dollars in 60 days of working out I could get in shape to be sexy. I'm thinking of sending them an email asking if they could sell me a program for 60 dollars that takes 100 days. Maybe they will offer to split the difference and make it 80 dollars for 80 days. That's only a dollar a day and in less than 3 months I would be a sexy stud again. Then I could get naked and nobody need cry. I might even get laid. Sounds good, right? Sure, at first. Being attractive, having sex, lots of happiness, nothing to complain about.
On the other hand, would it be wise to run the very real risk of becoming at once irresistible and impossible to keep up with? To be loved and desired would be great. To be worshiped as a sex god makes me nervous because some women, they just don't feel they have done enough without sacrificing a goat. I would not want that on my conscience. | |
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Posted: 10/24/2009 9:11:57 AM | i dont know why but i have a very nice slim, yet muscular body, i have a very nice bum too,i have been told this by certain ladies, even though i am married, think on. | |
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Posted: 10/24/2009 11:41:25 AM | My new motto based on what I've just learned on POF forums:
... ... ... I love you and me naked-idity, but please, no kissing, no flirting! ... ... ...
To paraphrase recent reality: "Getting naked is gooood, but what's in a kiss and can men flirt are off topic for We, Dating Over 45."
Would someone please flip the sanity switch back to its "on" position. Thanks in advance.  | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 12:55:27 PM | The older I've gotten, the more comfortable I' am with my body. There's a great arts community around where I live and I've recently joined a life-model directory.
They take people from all ages and walks, with the only provisos being you are comfortable being naked in a room full of people and you can hold poses for 15 minutes.
My body's not perfect, but it ain't a train-wreck either! lol | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 4:18:41 PM | I have no prob getting naked. My wife till the end loved my bod and said I was the best equipped man she had ever been with. Perhaps I should list that as a positive in my profile, just seems a bit tacky at the least. And no matter how "equipped" I am, it still does not compensate for my total dorkyness and lack of refined social graces.
I think most women are more impressed with a guy if he is just genuinely nice and treats her like a Lady. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 4:53:27 PM | Let's get naked
I have a no compromise position on that,,,
I'm fat (but only on one side of my body, the other side is anorexic)
On the fat side, I have a flap jack boob, a love handle that's more like a cover on the mailwomans pouch and my butt cheek that almost reaches the back of my knee,,,
The horrible part is, I'll never know which side it'll be on until I wake up because it switches sides like Igors hump in Young Frankenstein,,,
The good part is that when I keep the lights off, the woman thinks it's blanket,,,
edit: I forgot to mention that I'm hung like a light switch | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 9:57:41 AM | Usually we have gotten comfortable knowing each other and it is a treat to watch each other unfold. I don't have a problem, if I am totally comfortable with my partner.  | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 9:39:29 AM | Hey, Starman.
Don't forget 'preening' in front of that mirror. Getting the last of those errant hairs back into place, at least in my case. Getting those caterpillar eyebrows and nostril braids under control.
In regards to your question? I truly enjoy being naked, whether alone or with company, and have no reservations one way or the other. In fact, I'm so darned comfortable with the notion that I joined a naturist resort for the past few years which has certainly led to some real eye-opening experiences. The major one? There are the most marvellous people in this place who have the saddest bodies one could imagine but really teach you to look past the packaging.
While on the subject, I can assure you that there's absolutely nothing better in the world than to meet your 'date', or whatever, in the altogether. Gets a whole bunch of nonsense out of the way right quick. My 16YO son, who was always reluctant to come for a visit there, sure changed his tune when he met a gaggle of glorious girls his age. The experience kind of spoiled him, tho': no drama there but lots of teenage angst in the textile world! | |
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Posted: 10/31/2009 12:54:04 AM |
My question is how comfortable are you getting naked with someone the first time? I'm a train wreck, so no, I'm not - at all. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2009 1:47:29 PM | To the original Poster.
As comfortable as she is. ... I prefer reality over everything else. IMHO.\\\
Be in peace. | |
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Posted: 11/1/2009 1:04:50 PM | I don't think you are asking a question. You are reflecting a discomfort you have about yourself! Otherwise, you wouldn't need to "ask" the question.
Obviously, everyone is different in terms of how he/she approaches a sexual relationship. Why not openly discuss your fears with your friends and get some feedback from them about how you present yourself.
Judith | |
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Posted: 11/1/2009 1:10:13 PM | Dear Sweet NTM:^^^^--sometimes its better to be silent.
I can teach you this.....just not today. (it was the light switch
comment.....women, too, can be "visual" creatures...I just have a vivid
imagination) | |
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Posted: 11/1/2009 10:19:09 PM |  Wow, I'd just love to worry about that...in front of someone I haven't known...Getting naked is simply easier if you can deal with the fact that as we get better, we also get older. Easier said than done. | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 5:28:25 PM |
Dear Sweet NTM:^^^^--sometimes its better to be silent. I can teach you this.....just not today. (it was the light switch comment.....women, too, can be "visual" creatures...I just have a vivid imagination)
Dear sweet morningsong:
you are correct and I should be ashamed for bragging.
it's more like a matchstick  | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 7:41:41 PM | its funny - when I was younger - never thought for a moment about barring all ... went through the years of "streaking" .... walked around the house with nothing on but a smile ..... I never had a problem .... I still think I'm pretty liberated and don't worry too much about it anymore ... I like to think I am still comfortable in my own skin - so to speak - however, the more I read these postings ... the more I think about it .... and I just realized - even tho I live alone, I wear a bathrobe most times ... not so free anymore .... maybe I am a little shy about it after all .....
jeez thanks everyone ... now I think I need to go talk to my therapist and find my inner me again .... | |
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Posted: 11/3/2009 8:07:12 PM | I walk around naked wayyyy to much...never did see how so many men can sit at the computer naked but I have seen a couple doing it and i dont know just seems a bit...werid to think the guy on the other end of an email is naked... | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 6:07:16 AM | | it`s bound to happen sooner or later, anyone expecting perfection is the fool in that situation. no bfd! | |
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Posted: 11/7/2009 12:08:45 AM | Letting ones self go to seed isn't attractive. But spending so much time in the gym at the expense of cracking a book isn't too hot either.
I just like partners who have realistic expectations of themselves, and of moi. | |
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Posted: 11/7/2009 1:14:49 AM | | hmmm. this thread started in spring. it's now winter. how about compromising and wearing a blanket? we can all flash each other when we find a match! | |
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Posted: 11/7/2009 5:24:17 AM | | Are you going to make an official pof function??? | |
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Posted: 11/8/2009 5:48:22 AM | | It's spring here in Australia and in my part we're starting our first heatwave for the year. After a walk along the beach with the dogs tonight and enjoying seeing the masses in all their degrees of uncladded-ness I'm working on the premise that brown fat generally looks better than white fat. | |
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Posted: 11/8/2009 1:55:22 PM |  Glad we're not all alone on this subject! Really enjoyed reading all the post, my feelings towards this with me being on the shy side(getting naked) is ... when you get right down to it, it's not what you got, but how you use it, for both genders! | |
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Posted: 11/8/2009 2:13:50 PM |
hmmm. this thread started in spring. it's now winter. how about compromising and wearing a blanket? we can all flash each other when we find a match!
It's summer down here, so I'll spend most of my time in shorts & t-shirt... and naked also when the opportunity presents itself! Deserted beaches and out in the great outdoors! | |
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Posted: 11/8/2009 5:34:52 PM | Well, having been a nudist all my adult life,I have no problem with it.For the rest of you who do, I empathize with you.And my 6 pack turned into a keg | |
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Posted: 11/8/2009 7:12:06 PM | I've got Dunlap's disease. I eat so much my belly dun lap over my belt.
Oops. | |
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