| Let's get naked
Posted: 5/18/2009 10:51:54 AM | Years ago I met someone online and after months of talkin we decided to meet face to face. He had told me he was very good looking but when I saw him my defination and his was opposite, so my heart sank a bit. We were talking and all he would do is stare at me and it was unnerving. My mind was racing cause I didnt think of him as attractive. Then he took my hand in his and all these sparks flew. He was a big guy...6'4 but he was in body size almost double what my ex had been.
The minute he took my hand I never physically saw him again the same way, if you ask me now I'd say he is the best looking man I have ever saw.
So getting naked with the right person is never a problem, it is in how they view you. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 11:07:21 AM | It is all good, just as long as the both of us really want to get naked together......and once naked, still feel that desire to continue.......
I think I am the most self conscious when I end up with someone that is in better shape than I am, and that usually does not happen to often unless they are those hard working young ones that I have no reason to consider......
Most will seek the level of others that are similar to what they offer, and somehow that attraction is more when you both offer what you want.....
OT.......No matter what, candles or soft light will enhance not only the mood, but the offerings, and once comfortable with each other, there are seldom those limitations that exist when it comes to sex and enjoying each other.
Just my opinion.......   | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 12:14:36 PM | | if, by the time you get naked, you love someone, then you will be perfect in their eyes. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 12:20:34 PM | | at our age.....it is what is inside the box that counts more than the wrapping...or so I am told.... | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 12:47:33 PM |
OT.......No matter what, candles or soft light will enhance not only the mood, but the offerings, and once comfortable with each other, there are seldom those limitations that exist when it comes to sex and enjoying each other.
...Yeah candles that's it....need to buy lots of candles . And wine....
* Note to self* ...pick up case of wine and a box of candles.
...maeflowers | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 12:56:54 PM | This came up for me only lately. Not that I've only been "older" lately LOL but I hadn't been seen by anyone but my husband in twenty five years. (Except for a few instances of skinny-dippiung where everyone was a drunk as i was. Vision on all of us was a little blurry....
I think getting naked together is the perfect way for a middle aged man and woman to test their capacity for compassion and good humor, for those two qualities in that situation determine the difference between joy and terror. Fortunately I wasn't the only one in the room with life's scars.
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Posted: 5/18/2009 2:40:03 PM | Hey Mr. starman....
You ask..
"How comfortable are you getin nekid..??..!!! "
Me.....????
gettin nekid is my middle name.....
I specilly likes if I can find a gal willing to wear
that "cat suit" I have and
chase me around the house with the hair brush in my diaper..!!
Now TRUST me...
that beats the heck out of "flexing in my mirror alone"...
I'm just an ole fashioned conservative type of guy..
But seeing your query...
I just couldn't resist......
Take Care & Stay Safe...
More later....
---SoldierByte--- .. outta here.... | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 3:35:29 PM | | I am as happy as larry naked or in sexy lingerie ... it's afternoon sex or lights on for me and don't have any body issues though that hasn't always been the case. For years I had insecurities about my body, since my school days when I was teased endlessly for being skinny and flat chested and then in my late teens/early twenties when I put a copious amount of weight on. Then about 8 years ago I got to grips with myself and I did something about my body image and started seriously working out and haven't looked back. It has enhanced every area of my life .... so now I have a gorgeous firm body, look just as good naked as clothed and feel very comfortable with it being looked at butt naked .... | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 4:13:09 PM | | Pretty comfortable. I NEVER had a six-pack, so it doesn't bother me that I don't have one now. My body is not a kid's but it's still pretty toned and my upper arms have ripples. Have no apologies for what I see in the mirror or to any ladies. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 4:35:55 PM | | Personally really comfortable. We already accept each other and know each other and dont judge on the basis of looks. If not I dont have to worry about it cause I am not getting naked anyway. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 4:47:14 PM | | I honestly feel that if two people really care about each other that it shouldn't matter. If there is a problem then that person only wanted a quick "sex" fix and was shallow in the first place. That's my thought and I am sticking to it. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 5:27:53 PM |
I honestly feel that if two people really care about each other that it shouldn't matter. If there is a problem then that person only wanted a quick "sex" fix and was shallow in the first place.
Great way to put it Bunni!
I know what I look like. I have an accurate assessment of my body build for a woman my age. I am 54. My breasts are small, and because they are small they are still perky.
Things could be worse and they could be sagging to my navel. For the first time in my life the small boobs are working to my advantage, just so long as the guy is not a boob man.
My waist is thick. Even when I was thin I was thick waisted.
I have a nice ass. I am not thin, but my ass is proportionate for my body.
My thighs are huge! Well, they are not thin, and this is my worst body feature.
I have great hair, nice eyes, and a pretty face, and look younger than my stated age.
With all that being said, When I see myself in the mirror I look pretty good for a middle aged lady. What I might be lacking in terms of perfect body tone, I make up for in confidence.
If I am going to get naked with a man we have mutual attraction to each other on an intellectual, emotional and physical level. I don't get involved in casual sex. The man is wanting an intimate connection with "me", not just interested in getting his rocks off.
While younger I might have had concern about what a man thought about my body.
Now I don't give it a thought. I am confident, uninhibited, very giving, and enjoy my sexuality to the max. I have been told I am an incredible lover. The confidence is what makes me sexy, not the body. Since I have reached this phase of maturity I have never had the need to dim the lights or climb under the sheets before getting naked.
I guess I can thank my husband for this. Whether I was fat or thin or somewhere in between he told me I had a beautiful body. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If a man is wanting to make love with me, in his eyes he must think me beautiful, or he would not want to be my lover.
My current beau does not seem to hesitate to strip off his clothes. He has never verbalized insecurity about the width of his abdomen, or lack of muscle definition of his physique. I have never judged him for that. It is his mind, heart and soul that I love, and they happen to come in this particular body, so I love every inch of him.
Likewise, he is with me for my mind, and heart and soul, not my body. This past weekend we were talking about things men look for in a woman. Some of the things on the list were physical attributes. Now I know my boobs are small, and over the years I wished they were more ample. He very sweetly told me your boobs are just fine.
Now some may think my ass is a bit more than they would like. He said you have a nice ass. He said to him I was attractive and he thought I was beautiful. I have never felt like I had to cover up less than perfect parts of my body. I am sure before we got naked the first time he had a pretty good idea what my body would look like naked.
I am sure that a man is more turned on by a women with a less than perfect body who is comfortable in her own skin, and as a result can be uninhibited while making love,
than a woman with a model perfect body who had hang ups and insecurities and is worried about how she looks in this particular light. I have heard this from many men in the past, in discussion, ( not to be confused with a bevy of men who have been my personal lover).
Life is too short for me to waste time in bed with my lover worrying about whether he is judging me for my thighs. Likewise, I want my lover to think everything about him from the top of his head to the tips of his toes is an object of my desire. I want to touch and caress every inch of him, because it is him. To me he is incredibly handsome.
That is all that is important. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 5:41:41 PM | | The one that you're with, if they are totally into you, they aren't going to care about the dimples, wrinkles, or some bulges. What they really care about at the end of the day is YOU! Let's face it folks, those of us that are 45+ aren't going to have the body of a 25 year old. Murphy or the Law of Gravity is in our corner. There are more things to worry about than if we are "perfect". | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 7:59:39 PM | Just take off your bifocals and everybody looks great!!
Seriously, though, you don't get to be our age without our bodies having some wear on them. I don't expect perfect 20 yr old Barbies, and I would hope the ladies aren't looking for a 25-yr-old stud, either.
I'm more interested in who she is, and how she lives, and how much we enjoy each other's company than what she looks like. If you've got intelligent eyes and a warm smile, I'm so there!! | |
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Posted: 5/18/2009 8:23:04 PM | Artz :Isn't it funny how that "6 pack"can so easily turn into a Keg?
 Thats funny. Was with some friends who were kayaking and one of the older men 60+ changed out of his body suit and had the cutest little butt that sagged a wee bit. Made me smile and then he smiled at me and well it made me horny. A man with a great smile and his eyes on me makes me melt whether he looks like a keg or a six pack.
~Beth~ | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 12:37:01 AM | I wish you were here infoseekngeek...................LOL
You sound great - very down-to-earth and just the type of man I'm looking for! Oh and the fact that you wear glasses is good too................can't see all my flaws  | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 1:42:17 AM | I don't have a 6pak, I've got a keg. When I wear cordaroy jeans, you can hear me before you see me! I once lost my keys and found them a week later......in my navel!
I got bigger titties than Britney and my butts so big Sir Mixalot keeps asking me out.
If Im find woman that WANTS to get naked with me, I aint stoppin' to think that long about it!
>meaflowers<->Maybe a box of wine and a case of candles? | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 10:56:28 AM |
I once lost my keys and found them a week later......in my navel!
Dropped my towel the other morning after a shower, bent over to pick it up and a cup of water fell out my belly button!
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Posted: 5/19/2009 2:25:23 PM | | My mum once said "Never worry what you look like naked in front of a man... he'll just be so pleased that he's got your there nakedthat he won't see your flaws!" | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 2:54:39 PM | I have no problem with getting naked with my guyat my age..he makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world when we're together and gawd! he's gorgeous clothed or unclothed in my opinion. Yowza!!!!
And mae...any man would be stark raving mad to not see the inward and outward beauty in you!
Sans | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 3:16:16 PM | I know I am too busy looking at him to think about me. Of course getting my bod against his as soon as possible is another thrill.
With kitties, often the light of the TV has to set the mood. The candles get attacked and that isn't something either one of us wants to worry about. We prefer to keep our minds on what we are feeling. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 3:26:56 PM | ^^^^omg! I so can relate....just the other night my main coon scorched her beautiful tail on a candle that was lit when we were umm..., er...well anyway, she turned and looked at herself with her tail on fire in the mirror behind my bed and jumped straight up in the air when she saw herself ....and this is what romance is made for. LOL (We batted her tail out with the pillow which pissed her off royally and we still complimented each other on our nakedness even in the throes of a crisis..lol)
She's fine, btw...everyone knows I'll take a bullet for my cats rather than let anyone ever hurt them.
Sans | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 3:53:18 PM | strip poker is a fun way to get naked, -provided your not the one being delt all the losing hands
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Posted: 5/19/2009 3:56:08 PM | | ~OP~ I've been a nakie-phobe since I was about 5. Of course, that seems to disappear when I'm in love and stuff. The last man I was with left no room for doubt about his interest in my bareness so I suppose should I venture that route again in the future, I'd want someone just like him (well, except the other "stuff" that ended the relationship.) | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 4:50:48 PM | Well, for me, I most usually wear clothes that kind of show what is going on anyways.
I don`t have the body of a 20 year old, but it really isn`t all that bad. Secondly, I`m not going to be getting naked with anyone that I would be intimidated by in the first place. This probably includes men that are really into their own bodies and the bodies of who they pick. I would most probably be with a man that has a similar viewpoint to physicality as myself, and his body is probably in similar shape to my own. I honestly am probably not going to pick a perfect body Adonis anyways. I`m not into that. I actually find that a turn off. If all he is doing is talking about how he keeps his body up
and checking me up and down, there isn`t even a chance that he is ever going to see me
without clothes anyways. If I am going to be taking my clothes off with a man, it is going to be one I am totally comfortable with to do so in the first place------as it should be. | |
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