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Posted: 5/19/2009 7:31:55 PM | I am very apprehensive about my fat body. I don't look good nekkid.
But, if a man that I like is taking my clothes off, apparently he doesn't mind it!  | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 7:39:40 PM | Pretty comfortable, because it is what it is. I don't have the money to invest in improvements at the moment...  What freaked me out was it didn't send younger guys running and screaming in horror. Thank goodness, because I would have had to chase them down and that would have made sex very difficult! (JK)
Luckily I was blessed with very muscular legs and my body is proportionate--not HWP, which is what everyone wants, but my hips and bust are bigger than my waist.
I'm working on getting fit again, but in the meantime I subscribe to the "Garfield theory" that my body is in shape because "round is a shape".  | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 8:52:38 PM | I can honestly say I have no problem getting naked w/someone. I do work hard to keep my body fit, eat right and exercise. Of course there are a few areas we all are self- conscious about, they come with age yet with age comes dignity! | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 8:56:41 PM | | I can't face the prospect any longer. When I was dressing I noticed that my left buttock is one eighth of an inch lower than my right. It's a flaw too hideous, a sight so offensive that I could not bring myself to burden a woman with. Forgive me for even describing it here. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 9:09:46 PM | | I've always been pretty comfortable in my own skin, and I wouldn't be getting naked with someone unless we saw one another as beautiful.. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2009 10:23:53 PM |
My question is how comfortable are you getting naked with someone the first time?
Oh my. You just made me realize that it's been nearly 20 years since I've gotten naked with someone the first time... *hides behind couch* | |
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Posted: 5/20/2009 12:03:57 AM | My question is how comfortable are you getting naked with someone the first time? - starman89506
I am extremely shy & yes, it's very difficult for the first time with a new partner. Generally I make sure that he knows & understands this, as I will NOT be able to have the lights on,
for the first few weeks (or months). I have always been this way, even when I was young & slender, so for me at least, it's not body-image, but something else (no idea what, exactly).
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I'm thinking .... not all that many over 45 people (male or female) look as good undressed as dressed. - Ron9
That's certainly true enough, but in my experience, it isn't always age-related, either! | |
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Posted: 5/20/2009 9:25:16 AM | If you watch what you are eating you will not have those love handles, nor will you have to suck in your stomach.
But to answer your question I am very comfortable in my own skin..
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Posted: 5/20/2009 9:37:29 AM | I'm almost 52. I started working out again 4 - 5 days a week. I've lost 12 lbs and I look pretty damn hot naked.
I'm more comfortable now than I was a few years ago. | |
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Posted: 5/22/2009 6:21:56 PM |
And mae...any man would be stark raving mad to not see the inward and outward beauty in you!
...Well thanks Sans, now I just got to find a male that thinks exactly like you do haha
...maeflowers
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Posted: 5/22/2009 6:25:52 PM | | since i lost a lot of weight i look even worse than i used to, so it's something worrying to me... | |
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Posted: 5/22/2009 6:43:18 PM | My body is beautiful...so let's get naked...
Well...you should remember...that your face and hands are showing your aging...and you do not cover them in public place... | |
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Posted: 5/22/2009 8:14:42 PM | | I've never been with a man who sported a six-pack (unless it came from the LCBO) .. they liked my bulges and I liked theirs (all of em lol ...) so yeah, like some other posters mentioned, by the time I'm ready to take it all off I don't care what's hanging where ~ it's all good. ;D | |
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Posted: 5/22/2009 9:33:46 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^..........................................
Uh-huh! Why bother with a lousy six pack.. when you can have a whole keg? | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 12:41:04 AM | dnyed00:I am very apprehensive about my fat body. I don't look good nekkid. But, if a man that I like is taking my clothes off, apparently he doesn't mind it!
Interesting I should read this today, as I was with friends this week and one night while getting ready for bed I could hear them in the next room and had to smile. She is a rolly polly babe who is such a great person in how she acts and how she treats others. Some men may even call her fat if they saw her.
But her husband cannot get enough of her because she loves him with all she has. And she loves pleasing him and in doing so he loves pleasing here. To be honest I think many people would envy them.
~Beth~ | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 1:48:39 PM |
I think getting naked together is the perfect way for a middle aged man and woman to test their capacity for compassion and good humor
well said/ well thought
for those two qualities in that situation determine the difference between joy and terror.
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Posted: 5/23/2009 6:13:50 PM | Well now...... be comfortable with the one you are with before you dive into that and are not comfortable. I doubt either of your are looking at imprefections at that point..... maybe later.
Just me. | |
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Posted: 5/24/2009 6:46:19 AM | If I get to the point to get naked with a man, you can bet he looks damn good for me
I love my body and don't care...if someone doesn't - he's free to go | |
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Posted: 5/27/2009 9:30:02 AM | I'm a nudist and lots of people have seen me naked, and it's never made me the least bit uncomfortable. And I've seen many people naked too, including the gorgeous ones and the ones who weren't, but I say "They're all good". So if I'm with a partner and the clothes are coming off (assuming we didn't meet at the nude beach--so far that's never happened) then nothing I'm going to show and nothing I'm going to see is going to worry me.
Oh, lack of pubic hair. It's got really common lately. I don't like it, but it's bad manners to complain at that point. | |
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Posted: 5/27/2009 10:23:02 AM | Seriously, very few of us over 45 look fabulous naked. And even then we still look older. I am proud to be my age. I have certainly earned everything, good and bad, that comes with aging. I was having a few issues with it but recently I have found a fun group of people who find nudity normal. I also do not like what I see in the mirror. I know I can change some things but I have decided not to wait until I have changed them to keep on experiencing the best parts of life. I have been boating with this group in an area set aside for nudity. I can't believe some of the compliments I have gotten- not creepy, just nicely. I never realized how accepting others are.
Our society worships youth and with that comes the fabulous body. As we age, we should enjoy and accept ourselves also and see the beauty in that.
So just get nekkid and have fun! | |
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Posted: 5/27/2009 10:24:27 AM | | Someone might find that flaw cute. Lighten up on yourself. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2009 2:20:45 PM | ZenBeth...I think what I am gonna refer to was one of your posts. I read one earlier this week about a couple on a motorcyle and how watching them just reaching over to touch the other.... showed their deep affection . I think we are all wanting that and when you find that deep relationship, the love... the acceptance... the caring... is automatically portrayed with just simple things as a touch. As you can actually feel the love flow through their fingertips to you. Looking deep within their eyes, can truly be the window to the soul. As the relationship grows and deepens, it is within that is truly is expressed in how we please one another. Yes, there has to be chemistry between the two but when it all boils down to getting "naked", all the lil hurdles and bumps are not even there. It is a deep expression from within.
So ladies, when it is the right guy! All physical barriers are gone! Be proud of who you are! | |
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Posted: 5/28/2009 3:32:24 PM | It is amazing how most imperfections and flaws seem to disappear when the two of you are in the same place mentally, emotionally, and physically.......
It becomes natural to want to share yourself with that person in multiple ways, and have them enjoy the total of you and what you bring to the table, bed, couch, carpet, etc.......you get my drift.....
The end goal is to maintain that place, and not have one move on to somewhere else without taking the other with you, and therein lies the rub. To many times, one will change in such a way, physically, mentally, or emotionally, and then the other has no choice but to notice and deal with it one way or another.
It is a shame when that happens, and the finger pointing, excuses, and all those blame things then come into play, and the two either work it out, correct it, or move on as a couple or individual.
I say play together, workout together, work with each other to maintain what each wants in the other and themselves, and enjoy the ride. If not, be prepared for change, because that will happen if paths or people take different directions, unintentionally or not.
Just my opinion.....  | |
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Posted: 5/28/2009 6:32:57 PM | I have no problem with being seen naked by a man if we've reached that stage in our relationship. One whole wall in my bedroom is mirrored. When I look at myself and don't like what I see, I start working on it. I stay in shape for me! When I gain 5lbs, I can usually lose it within a week. If a man doesn't like what he see's when he looks at me, no big deal. He can move on. So far, that has not happened.
I feel good. I feel sexy. My body is not perfect, but it's been well cared for and it shows. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2009 8:19:30 PM |
It is amazing how most imperfections and flaws seem to disappear when the two of you are in the same place mentally, emotionally, and physically.......
It becomes natural to want to share yourself with that person in multiple ways, and have them enjoy the total of you and what you bring to the table, bed, couch, carpet, etc.......you get my drift.....
Well said Deacon! | |
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