| Let's get naked
Posted: 6/6/2009 6:20:15 PM | | well, I have to say I'm 100% engrossed in what got me naked to have noticed how comfortable I was .. | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 6/6/2009 7:34:27 PM | Just get naked slowly, an article of clothing at a time. Each part will be appreciated and the sum of the parts greater than the whole. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 7:41:33 PM | | very comfortable, confident, not perfect, but who is and anyway i keep my eyes closed....... | |
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Posted: 6/6/2009 8:09:45 PM | | That's precisely why candles are considered so romantic. That soft light makes all of us feel just that little bit more "comfortable". Lord knows that physically I'm no prize nor am I going to dazzle anyone with my physical perfection. But I have to agree with those posts that say that once you get to the point of actually wanting to be naked with your partner, how you or he/she looks just won't be relevant anymore. | |
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| Let's get naked
Posted: 6/6/2009 11:51:31 PM |
But I have to agree with those posts that say that once you get to the point of actually wanting to be naked with your partner, how you or he/she looks just won't be relevant anymore
...Yeah well I'll let you know how true that is when it actually happens.
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Posted: 6/7/2009 4:10:25 AM | If you wanted to lose the love handles change your diet, then you should not get a hernia trying to keep your gut sucked in or have those love handles..
I am naturally shy person so my level of comfort has little to do with my body which is fine.
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Posted: 6/7/2009 9:51:13 PM | I like being naked. If somebody dont like seeing me being naked then dont look. I have so many scars that it just dont matter one onuce to me any more what other people think about me. Either look and accept it or just pack up and move on along........I have to live with all these scars from surgeries and accidents so every body else can or just go on and stay away if they dont want to accept me.....   | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 10:12:08 PM |
But I have to agree with those posts that say that once you get to the point of actually wanting to be naked with your partner, how you or he/she looks just won't be relevant anymore. Huh? Not relevant how he looks without his clothes, oh my yes it is. I see him naked and I have problems keeping my hands off of him, well maybe before he gets his clothes off too But yeah, I seriously love looking at my bf. I can shut my eyes and see his marshmallow buns! It is a nice well put together body that does it for me! I hope that he feels the same about me.
My sister gave me a needlepoint picture some 20 something years ago that says, "I may not be perfect, but I have some great parts." No one is perfect, but there are some great parts on us all | |
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Posted: 6/13/2009 7:19:16 PM | Love looking at the young bikinis at the beach, but they no longer look at me.
Love looking at my lady friends though they no longer wear bikinis, and they seem to love looking at me.
Nature can be compensating and kind in some ways!
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Posted: 6/14/2009 9:02:20 AM | I think this is funny.
The question of nakedness is two pronged. There is nakedness in a sexual situation and not in one.
Go to a nude beach. That is a non-sexual situation. Yes, both sexes look at the other as well as their own. The first thing that hits you smack in the face is that those bodies that you see in the magazines and movies represent maybe 3% of the population. That leaves 97% of us wanting. The human body is beautiful with all of its imperfections. I often joke, in this age of tattoos wherever, I always wonder what reaction I'd get if I approach a woman at a nude beach and ask her if I can examine her tattoos. :-)
And then there is nakedness between two people. That's beauty. To cross that threshold to enjoy one another with all of your senses of which to see is but one of five. Being naked around one another, to see, to touch, to arouse sensuously, slowly is fantastic. Ah, where is she?
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Posted: 6/14/2009 9:29:21 AM | Being alone in my house....I can run around naked and it doesn't bother me.
Being with a partner is different.
I went out with someone that was very critical of people's bodies. He pointed out other's flaws and constantly compared his self and others to what is fit and what isn't. I went through a period in my life where I had been overweight. And keep thinking this would be someone that would only care for you because of what you looked like nothing else.....once that leaves he leaves. Numerous times he told me how to get rid of my belly.....which I had a tumor and they had done major surgery and there is a small belly that will never be tight or flat again. And yes I am very fit. This was a man that couldn't run a block or walk more than a mile talking about being fit. And I workout six days a week.....tell me how to stay fit.......No I would have never got naked with him.....
But there was someone that I had fallen in love with.....the first thing he did whenever we were naked together was kiss my belly and tell me it was beautiful. He made me feel strong and wonderful being naked around him. I never was cease to be amazed at how strong and confident I felt around him being totally nude. And I never told him how much my stomach bothered me. For me this is a trust issue. I find out who I can trust before that taking off the clothes stage even gets close........I love feeling strong and confident with whom I with and to be naked with someone that is judging ever single thing about you isn't idea of having fun.
With someone that isn't critical or judgemental I can be myself....with others I would never take off my clothes and go there....... | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 9:24:00 PM |
So getting naked with the right person is never a problem, it is in how they view you. Ah yes ~ the *Right* person...waiting for the one who will appreciate that I am not a movie star, therefore cannot afford movie star modifications...for the one who doesn't panic when they read "a few extra pounds" on my profile. Honesty is the best policy. If Rubenesque was a choice, that would be the one I'd list. Yep ~ waiting for the *Right* one for me! | |
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Posted: 6/15/2009 3:56:28 PM | Now I have always stated to the lady I am with, I love your mind, heart and soul, it not only the body~ smile~ so lets get naked~
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Posted: 6/15/2009 4:04:46 PM | Well, I reckon I was poor when I was born. I came into this world naked and had to share my nakedness with a bunch of strange babies in one room. I could probably do it again at the right time, for the right man, and for the right reason. Lord help me if I go out of this world naked!  | |
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Posted: 6/15/2009 7:37:17 PM | Half your bloody luck getting the opportunity to get naked infront of a woman .... As for the 6 pack ... errrmmm .... mines a Keg!  | |
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Posted: 6/19/2009 10:25:27 PM | | Why would you keep your eyes closed? | |
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Posted: 6/19/2009 10:27:48 PM | | I look like sh*t naked. No women in her right mind would want to get naked with me. And they don't. so all is well. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 5:55:13 PM | My motto is Beauty is only a light switch away LOL  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 6:01:00 PM | waco..!!! so glad you put some life into this "nekid" thread..!!
and I agree with your "motto".......
I've found... that with the lights out....
the only way I knew who I was with...
was if they TOLD me..!!!!!
---SoldierByte--- | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 6:17:16 PM | | I think that is why the eyes go bad after 45. So you can't see eachother so clearly. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 6:54:28 PM | | I am usually not shy regarding my nakedness, and the lights can be left on.... | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 7:10:41 PM | | I think I am at the stage in my life where I am very comfortable in my skin and don't really worry about turning the lights off the first time........or any other time......... | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 7:21:18 PM | Dear Friends,
In my case, vanity may be that emotion that serves aesthetics the way fear serves safety.
-M | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 7:39:19 PM | As soon as it happens I will get back to you!
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Posted: 7/18/2009 9:48:26 PM | "I think getting naked together is the perfect way for a middle aged man and woman to test their capacity for compassion and good humor, for those two qualities in that situation determine the difference between joy and terror. "
"I will admit, my body is not quite as firm and perky as it once was....but hopefully he still finds me attractive and sexy regardless of all my jiggly bits"
To me that's another reason to date within your age group. They know you body has gone thru a lot of years, instead of dating someone much younger and used to a tighter body. I wouldn't be apprehensive with a woman close to my age, but a 30 something, I would.
Compliments and encouragement for your partner with probably ease things a little.
Ron | |
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