| Thoughts and Suggestions from someone who has been there...
Posted: 7/5/2009 1:13:44 PM | Mountain Gal4Fun,
I totally agree with emlamNsea on this. My wife and I have done this more than a few times. You need to either know one of the guys or be in a controlled atmoshpere that is safe, like a good swingers club. For us, it went so well, and didn't screw anything up, we did it again with the guy five years later when he got out of a controlling relationship with his ex-wife. (Oh and it was two weeks before we got married!)
Good luck and be safe,
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| Thoughts and Suggestions from someone who has been there...
Posted: 7/5/2009 1:33:45 PM | Question: How should I arrange a MFM threesome? ?
Answer: Post the following question on a dating website forum, and choose the best 2 candidates based on their profiles, appearance, and geographic proximity to you:
"How should I arrange a MFM threesome?"
Word it just like that and you should have no problem finding volunteers. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/5/2009 2:24:55 PM | | If you have a boy friend, get him to pick out the third person--it is a lot of fun if you like being the "object of affection." Or you could let me know and I will be glad to get a friend and meet you. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/5/2009 3:05:57 PM | | Two guys and 1 girl sounds awkward as hell, and 2 girls and 1 guy sounds fun, but a lot of work. Especially if the guy has a hard enough time satisfying the one girl he has already. I wouldn't mind trying 2 girls at once, but I don't know. :\ | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/5/2009 5:43:01 PM | MFM threesomes are much easier to achieve than FMF ones. That's because men are perpetually horny.
If you look at the "casual encounters" ads on the web, for instance, there's always a good number of ads where two guys are looking for one woman. I even seen ads where a father and son want to have a threesome with a woman.
There are hardly any where two women are looking for one guy, unless there's a financial transaction involved.
Maybe you should try to hook up with a couple of men who are very good friends. That way, you'll have a decent chemistry all round. Just tell them. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:21:46 PM | | mick2521: I disagree with what you are saying regarding there hardly being anywhere that two women are looking for one guy. To the best of what I've heard from most women I've been involved with, women are much more open to this kind of arrangement. I understand that the prevelent way of thinking is that "only a woman truly knows how to please another women" comes into play here. You may be right in the respect that its perhaps more unusual for two women unattached to be looking for one man to please both of them, but situations where a woman is attached to a man, women I believe are open to a FMF more than the other way around. I don't honestly believe that two healthy hetorosexual males would be interested in a MFM. Father and son? I hope you are kidding about that. That to me is extremely rare and perverted. Personally I know I could never do a MFM. I also know that exchange of money or a "financial transaction" was you call it, would kill the spirit of it for me. The key ingredient for a FMF situation is to be with a woman, earn her trust, and slowly but surely introduce the possibility of another woman, slowly at first until she is comfrotable with it, then see what happens. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:54:50 PM | GoodmanGreg,
You seem heavily biased against the concept of MFM threesomes.
I'm not saying that two women aren't interested in looking for a man. However, my point is that it is relatively rare in the classifieds sections. Where FMF threesomes do arise, it's usually the case that one of the women is recruiting for her boyfriend or husband. She's doing it to make him happy, basically.
I personally don't consider this to be a true threesome. If the woman is recruiting another woman for the purpose of making her boyfriend happy, she's acting more like a prostitute. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:02:51 PM | You are right mick..I am biased. A MFM is not what I'm into. If you are into it, all the power to you, but its not for me. I don't read classifieds either. To me, word of mouth is always the best advertising.
I think your remark
If the woman is recruiting another woman for the purpose of making her boyfriend happy, she's acting more like a prostitute. is way "over the top" and totally inappropriate. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:57:06 PM |
I don’t want to damage one of my friendships, but I’m not totally sure about two strangers from on-line either. Also, I don’t want to shock whatever guy and his friend I ask because it’s not something that most southern belles usually approach their man about where I live.
If anyone has any suggestions let me know. I’d love to hear them!
suggestions?
Ok, my first suggestion would be don't do this... but since you seems to want to ....
1... You need a chaperone of some sort if you go with 2 strangers... maybe a big guy you trust, or a female friend with a black-belt... they can make sure things go the way you want... you don't want a MFM to turn into a MMMMMMMMMMMF thing if the guys invite a few friends...
2... Make sure there are no cameras and no cell phones... you can avoid hidden cameras by YOU picking the place... (such as a hotel). Hidden cams can be smaller than 3/4" x 3/4" and some can record nicely in almost total darkness.... You don't want to end up on the Internet...
3... You might want to do this in a place reasonably distant from where you live... you don't want to be walking into a bar with a siginificant other a year or so down the road and run into your tag-team buddies... again that's why you might want to avoid people that know you... One wrong word and you and there's a good likelihood your significant other might be over...
4... Avoid alcohol... a drink or two is fine, but no drunks...
5... Get both people thoroughly STD tested... and yourself prior to the event...
6... Have the guys understand that you might back out at ANY time... and that they have to co-operate... (the reason for a chaperone...) Because if they've worked themsleves up to it... you might end up with a rape instead of a fantasy fulfilled... remember, they will have a perspective on you, based on your MFM fantasy... and they may decide you're having sex regardless....
7... If you go to a hotel (which I'd recommend, as they usually have Security if there's a serious problem) pay for the room up front... get the mundane stuff out of the way in advance...
8... Don't let them know where you live or your phone if you decide on strangers... you don't want them showing up on your door a month later drunk looking for more fun... and 8 buddies...
Afterwards, you may end up being a topic of discussion by the guys involved for awhile... so it might come back to haunt you... Which is why out of town people might be best...
And be prepared that some guy you meet later on, may not look as favourably on your experience as you might think.... and it might be a dealbreaker for him... | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/5/2009 8:13:59 PM | I, like most guy, thought this would be a piece of cake for you to arrange. After reading three pages of comments, many of them judgments, rather than assistance, I now believe I was wrong.
The best suggestion I've seen was to go to a swingers club. There you can view the potential partners, and then interview them on the spot. You might find two that fit your needs. If you don't like the pickings you can just play the "btch" and stomp off. It would be a safe environment.
In Canada, they have on premises swingers clubs where you could enjoy your choices, without going elsewhere. that would be best, because you could rely on the club or some protection, in case one of your partners went over the top.
POF is filled with judgmental people, isn't it?
ketch | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:05:43 AM | Typically, hetero males abhor the idea that a woman wants two guys because it makes them feel that 1 guy is not enough. Well said, but for some ladies, 1 is not enough, that NIGHT! LOL
Women are typically willing to entertain the idea or even the action of a FFM, because it turns the guy on. Unfortunately, it does not always turn the women on, and it begins to look /feel like a cheesy Cinemax porn film.
I really do not care what either choose. If a guy I am with has had it done, kudos, it is out of his system now, and hopefully he does not have an STD. Just neither of you dare say or make fun of or hold it against your next partner if s/he has done the same in their past.   | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:07:30 AM | Most everybody has some types of intriging naughty fantasies, however in our minds, our twisted little nafarious mind plots work out perfectly with no harm, no foul and no regrets.
In real life, our actions may bring unforseen sorrow, compunction and even dangerous results.
better to live our wild thoughts in our minds and feel the freedom of not doing something regrettable down the road | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:22:53 AM | One guy should be someone you know becasue men tend to get competitive in the sexual arena. You don't want to end up being the true "minority" in the room so a good idea to have a guy there who has your interest at heart whether he be a SO, BF or other.
PLEASE PLAY SAFELY!!! | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/6/2009 6:50:30 AM | | the best way and the most perfect way is to call me and ill come over with a buddy, or you and i will go out and find one. 3 somes are great. been in a few. you will love it!xxoo | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 8:11:14 AM | Being a woman gives you a big advantage in that many men would jump at the chance. You've got the looks to get what you want and pretty much any guy you like the looks of as well. Can't see any reason why you couldn't make this happen but it's probably not a good idea to do it with existing friends. Contrary to popular belief (and most male boasting) sex can and often does establish emotional connections for guys, particularly if they're already your friend.
If you do choose friends make sure its absolutely clear that this is just sex and that you aren't after continuous repeat performances (unless you want them). Also be aware that the guys may want some solo performances in the future so if you aren't into that you better be prepared. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
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Posted: 7/6/2009 8:20:31 AM |
Contrary to popular belief (and most male boasting) sex can and often does establish emotional connections for guys, particularly if they're already your friend.
Maybe in a one-on-one situation yeah...
But in a MFM I think the last thing the guys will want is to establish an emotional connection with a girl after watching his buddy do her too... More likely him and his buddy will go for a beer afterwards and tell everyone about it...
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:05:16 AM | hey. from a guys point of view there are some swinger websites you can go to www.foreplaymagazine.com and swinglifestyle.com and you can put a profile and add on those. that way they know exactly what you are looking for and they are looking for the same thing. also you can put ads on crigslists. or go to an adult bookstore and get some swinger magazines. those are the safest ways to do it because then you can chat and get to know the guys. and that way its also more secure.
i know from swinging expierence that you have got to like the people you do this with. craigslist aint all that safe but these other two you can see pics alot of times and they give emails and such that you can email back and fourth.
and i am from leesianah so i am a suthern gentelman. i dont think badly of you for wantin this. most of our gals are bi and into the same thing | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:08:58 AM | | It's kind of tricky. An old ex of mine were very open with each other. During a session one evening, we talked about fantasies and she said a mfm was one of hers. I raised my eyebrows of course, been then said WHY THE HELL NOT. We had a mutual friend who lived about an hour away, so we didn't have to see him all the time, so no awkardness. Had came over one weekend and stayed with us. After some drinks and music, things started happening. It went pretty good, so we repeated the next night. We repeated the scene 3 more times over the next 2 years until she got transfered and moved across the country. We also did the FMF for me several times with her best friend. | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/6/2009 10:57:10 AM | | Its tricky. i for one would not think about it with someone you are in a relationship with.i have had my share of 3 sums only one was a mfm. it was all good but for some reason either the other guy seems to want to make it a on going thing or the girl does. it might work for some but getting calls from agery loved ones is not my thing lol | |
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| How should I arrange a MFM threesome?
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:03:16 PM | Lila,
Save up your money and go to Vegas, check the selection at the local brothels until you find a place with a pair of guys that you want to try it with, then pay & play. Since your paying, your in control...they will do as you ask. | |
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