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Posted: 5/22/2009 1:32:09 PM | I'm sure that when you love someone every thought ~ every move and every action gravitate towards them. And when you finally tell someone you love them they know it already ... and words become superfluous ...  | |
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Posted: 5/22/2009 1:53:31 PM | I agree with the previous post. She nailed it, the feelings are going to push the words and if your feelin' it your feelin' it. Jason Mraz has a song called "i'm yours" and the lyric about not hesitating sums it up for me....
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Posted: 5/22/2009 1:57:15 PM | Butterfly,
[Ahem!!!] Why the man first. sounds a bit sexist to me!! The woman I loved last [we still love each other but she now lives 7,ooo miles away] told me that she loved me first. I was thrilled!!! Now everyday, years later, I kiss her photo and am happy to remember how much i love her. | |
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Posted: 5/22/2009 7:46:21 PM | Not on the first date! (Just kidding)
My ex asked me "are you falling"? which allowed me to make a joke or change the subject if I wasn't feeling him. But I was, and I said yes! | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 2:53:24 PM | IMO, the best time is when you find out she/he has the same feelings about you.
I LUSTED after them...kinda (they were a great fcuk)
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I ain't going back to that b1tch (yes, right now we are having a "down" period...it happens every 30 days or so I've noticed.
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Posted: 5/23/2009 9:16:07 PM |
When do you think is the right time to say I love you ? cause that is the way you feel inside without scaring him/her off!!!
Is there ever a good time? -- the Best time to say it is after you've shown it. Actions speak louder than words -- if you've demonstrated it (previously) on multiple occassions, then the words shouldn't come as a surprise. Nevertheless, I'd wait until that person has demonstrated loving actions in response to yours.  | |
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Posted: 5/23/2009 11:23:43 PM | ^^^^^
the Best time to say it is after you've shown it. Actions speak louder than words -- if you've demonstrated it (previously) on multiple occassions, then the words shouldn't come as a surprise.
Exactly my sentiments. Actions mean more than words to me....especially if you're going to profess one's love. | |
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Posted: 5/24/2009 9:46:30 PM |
picazzhole
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Posted: 5/25/2009 6:19:17 PM | Ya not into games if I feel something close to the beginning of love I tell them. I am too old for the games and dancing around the issue. | |
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Posted: 5/25/2009 6:39:45 PM | | I have been in this situation myself....I like to give them a little challenge....I give them a note...or a message of some type with 143 on it and tell them it is a secret message for them and have them find out what it means....some may come up with the answer and some may not but they have fun trying....and when they find out it means I LOVE YOU they will be touched and not scared because you can ease them in with this.....you can sign a text to them with 143....or write it on the mirror after a shower...or on the dirt on their car whatever.....its exciting. Good Luck | |
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Posted: 5/25/2009 8:33:14 PM | Better to SHOW love than TELL it in my opinion. But it's nice to hear the words too. I guess wait for a time when it doesn't come across sappy but is genuine.
Sex is a good band-aid for the gushing wound of grief, by the way. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2009 4:29:15 PM | | Actions speak much llouder than words...time is endless....right time, wrong time, when?...caring deeply about someone evolves into love...it's been said love at first sight is possible...seems more impossible to me...first you must fall in love with somene's mind...looks become more appealing whenever you have really taken the time to get to know a person....you must love the person, not their looks, their wallet or pocketbook...Actions speak volumes...do you find yourself frequently reaching out to touch the person's face, their hair, their hand, just hugging them for no reason at all...not sexual touches, but loving caresses...are you comfortable sitting in silence with the other person, contented to be quiet at times...do you enjoy their laughter? Does their sense of humor cause fatal attraction? Depending on how much time you invest in the other person will be the determining factor of time. So if this is the case, then yes, in four months, it would be quite possible to actually love someone. Three months is the basis of time to really get to know a person. Surely by that time, one of you has slipped into human nature in one way or another and revealed a not so pleasant side of your personality...do you hold that against the person? Do you find yourself doubting the relationship possibility at that point when you really see their human side? Or can you forgive and move forward? We are all living together in this maze, searching endlessly for someone to complete us...we are not broken, we are not sold short by the insatiable desire to find that one person that can add something to our lives...tread slowly, but never forget to be honest when you know its the right thing to do, which is always the appropriate thing to do. Lying eyes cannot hide! | |
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Posted: 8/13/2009 4:35:37 PM |
When do you think is the right time to say I love you ? cause that is the way you feel inside without scaring him/her off!!!
I've said it as soon as a couple of months and as long as a year. I've yet to say it and scare anyone off; usually they're on the same page or close to. Maybe I've just been lucky. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2009 4:39:18 PM | Bingo...you hit it...my guy fell in love with me within the first few weeks...it took me a little more time...anyway...from the moment we both could feel and knew that we loved each other deeply we never ever failed to express our love and gratitude towards each other. It was 10 months of pure love...then unexpectedly he dropped dead with a major heart attack...I left him that morning and he was fine...called him within one and 1/2 hours and said baby I am on my way home and I love you...his response...I love you...when I walked in the door I found him dead...point...
I was the last person on the face of this earth to express my love to him and vise versa!
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Posted: 8/18/2009 6:14:22 PM | Just because you have feelings for them does not mean you love them.
Clarify the emotion to yourself first, before confusing the other person with the word love, when possibly it is merely lust and the fact you have a new adventure. | |
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