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Posted: 5/29/2009 7:39:15 PM |
I told both of them if I do it there will be something in it for me as well
I think you're missing the point. For women (or men, for the gay crowd) who enjoy giving casual blowjobs, GIVING the blowjob IS what's in it for them. They enjoy it. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2009 8:07:19 PM | | Not just casual blow jobs either. I never give a blowjob expecting there to be "something in it for me". I do it because it's a joy, a pleasure, something I love. It's the ultimate in power to be able to make a man weak with your actions. It's not an action to lead to something else but an action that is it's own end. Now maybe it leads to something else but it's about the act itself rather than about what I can get in return. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2009 11:03:34 PM |
whats everyones thoughts on casual rimming?
kinda doubt dats as common as a casual blow. ur ass dont breathe as well as ur****n balls. so if u meet a chick n she wants 2 giv u head (if ur clean, no smell, no fumunda) den it prolly wont b a prob. nothin new bout a random bj.
if she wants 2 lick ur ass, w/o wipin away any skid mark producing ass spooge (or even if she does), den id say go ahed n let her cuz how often is dat gonna happ in ur life? but dont kiss her after.  den u gotta make a choice: u know she'll do anything so do u keep her around 4 da sex or ditch her cuz she's nasty?
same applies 2 men. ive heard of chicks gettin propositioned 4 random cunilingus n sum welcome it freely. but a rim? most, not all, guys prolly wouldnt say no 2 da offer from a chick. but if a guy approached a chick n offered it, would dey say yes? i dont know... | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 12:13:47 AM | finding a "casual blow job" isn't something you would or should find "on here".
if that is what you want, then go and buy a hooker..or get some respect for women..then you may find a girlfriend who will agree to give you one.
otherwise, stick to using either of your hands...amd pretend. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 12:15:20 AM | I think Timex women are much more interesting.
Take a licking and keep on ticking.  | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 12:47:17 AM | Hahah!!! "Casual Blow Jobs!!!" Haahhahhaahahha~!!!!
Hey, how about casual kitty lickings, huh? | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 1:08:37 AM | " i definitely enjoy giving that pleasure and am quite good at it...but there is nothing casual about it...you only give that to someone who seems like they will call you tomorrow... "
If a girl does that and she's *really good*, I will definitely call her the next day...
and the next...
and the next...
etc. 
Cheers! | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 6:09:47 AM | Yes, I get the point and I agree with you and I a lot of times have given the blowjob because I do enjoy it and I enjoy giving them the pleasure as that is my pleasure.
What I'm talking about is some men who want a blowjob with no intention of giving anything back, such as a man you haven't met yet telling you he wants one and that is all he wants.
Hookers on every corner for a price. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 7:31:51 AM | yankeegirl, I'm kind of with you on that. If you want a random girl to go down on you then go pay for it. Some men are just cheap.  | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 7:36:05 AM |
Hahah!!! "Casual Blow Jobs!!!" Haahhahhaahahha~!!!!
Hey, how about casual kitty lickings, huh?
hey just as long as the kitty isn't nasty..I'm ok with that concept.. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:00:45 AM |
finding a "casual blow job" isn't something you would or should find "on here".
if that is what you want, then go and buy a hooker..or get some respect for women..then you may find a girlfriend who will agree to give you one.
otherwise, stick to using either of your hands...amd pretend.
Hookers, girlfriends, and hands are not in the realm of what I'm talking about. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:04:20 AM |
You posted this question to the women who might answer this thread with the golden words you want to hear so you can message them later.
So is that what happened? I mean I wouldn't know, but apparently you know me much better than I know myself, even though you don't know me. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 11:05:59 AM | Women willing to give 'casual blowjobs' when asked? Doesn't one ask themselves where that *ock may have been before you took it in your mouth?
For a man to ask a woman truly not known to him for a blowjob is the ultimate insult to a woman, imo. Is that all a man thinks you are worth - a quick BJ?
If a woman enjoys giving BJ's - that is her preference BUT wouldn't it be better and safer to give a casual BJ to a known friend? At least with a known friend you may know where the *ock has been before you take it in your mouth and not get a mouthful of possible VD.
For a man to ask a woman for a casual BJ and not willing to reciprocate with oral sex or sex is the epitome of a selfish self-centered SOB who has no respect for women. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 1:37:32 PM | Back in my twenties I think I did this once. Never again. There is nothing sexually exciting about having a man you don't give a hoot about fvck your face. I hate having a man thrust into my mouth while grabbing my head controlling all the action. I don't really have other experiences stand out in my mind but this really really bad situation.
Did not do it again until I fell in love with my husband. I also gave blow jobs to a man I was involved with for seven months. Much better experiences. I did it because I cared about the men involved.
Now in a new relationship and I give him head all the time. It is a gift of love. It excites me to pleasure him this way. The more I care about the man the greater my enthusiasm. With him I explained to him how I needed to be in control and to not grab my head. I have to be with a man I trust enough to let me do things my way, and stop when I choose. I love doing this for him and it has become a part of love making that we both enjoy. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 2:02:14 PM |
What I'm talking about is some men who want a blowjob with no intention of giving anything back, such as a man you haven't met yet telling you he wants one and that is all he wants.
I believe you are still missing the point. No one with any sense would argue this is something a significant portion of women would be into. But some like it. The OP was, for whatever reason, wondering about those women. Probably in hopes of hearing from some, but that's another issue. Sort of a broadcasting posting no-no, I'd always thought.
There is nothing sexually exciting about having a man you don't give a hoot about fvck your face.
For you. For some women, that's extremely sexually exciting. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 2:29:41 PM | Yeah for a gay man, I can understand that it would be good for them, they don't have to expose that they are a man if they are in drag, they are still able to keep it to themself. Of course transgenders that aren't finished would be the same.
I never met a woman that was just into giving BJ's, unless it involved money exchange. Don't get me wrong, I am talking casual, not women that are in relationships that want to please their man if he digs them. (Some men don't dig them.) Seems to me that it primarily is done as part of foreplay. That is my experience. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 4:03:05 PM | | esech, now you have.. Hi. My name is Kat. A straight woman not a gay man. Now, I don't give random strangers head but yes, outside a relationship simply to please myself rather than because my man wants it. If you don't understand the joy in it than you don't but some of us love it for itsone sake rather than just as part of foreplay. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 4:12:24 PM | Kathy, you know I respect you and find you to be a wonderful and intelligent woman, but really I meant irl. On the forums here there are women that I have read that have enjoyed a variety of things that don't shock me, but I personally don't.
See to be with a stranger would require him to be wearing a condom, I couldn't imagine believing their medical information from someone I don't know. Giving head with a condom on, yuck. But that is me.
I also don't have any form form sex with people I don't care about. So to suck on some guy's****that I don't know would make me sick, it wouldn't excite me. Again, that is me. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 6:09:30 PM |
I never met a woman that was just into giving BJ's, unless it involved money exchange.
Oh, you probably have. You just don't know about that particular facet of their sex life.
Perhaps not in your circle of intimate friends, but let's face it, we all know on an acquaintance basis hundreds if not thousands of people and there's no sensible reason to assume at least a handful of them don't have a variety of kinks that we'd have no call to know about. In fact, it might even be a relative or friend who's keeping her proclivaties on the down-low either because that's part of the thrill, or because they don't want to face the disapproval of the relationship-only sisterhood. You never know. Really. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 6:34:33 PM | | Yes, I have because I wanted to as well. I wouldn't do it if I didn't want to or like it. It was with a good friend of mine and I did it cause I was in love with him and thought it would lead to more. We did it for about 7 months and I enjoyed it too. We stopped because it wasn't getting more serious. I wasn't going to do just that forever. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 6:38:11 PM | | Yes it is being a selfish SOB who has no respect for women if it isn't returned or if love and time isn't returned to the woman. I am still friends with this person and still spend the same amount of time with him now without the bj so I know he does care, and the friendship is important. We started out that way and ended up that way, it's cool. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 7:11:03 PM | There was a thread a few months back that quoted a study that said only 17% of women enjoyed giving a blow job period. I hazard to guess that if you surveyed the 17% who enjoyed giving a blow job, a majority enjoyed giving a blow job to someone they are involved in a caring relationship with, and that a minority of women in that 17% enjoy giving head just for the pleasure of giving head.
I guess each one of us has their own particular likes and dislikes. I am not "IN" to casual sex of any form, and my unwillingness to perform a casual blow job is a reflection of this.
To me giving head is a gift of love. It would have no place in a casual relationship.
It is not a consolation prize for not being willing to have intercourse. The one time I did try oral instead of intercourse in a casual setting the experience was very negative and I would never put myself in that position again. | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 7:56:38 PM | | you know... i don't think i'd want to be involved with anyone that's throated a football team's amount of men. *shudder* | |
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Posted: 5/30/2009 8:16:08 PM | Casual..?? Im not into picking up radom men and just giving a bj BUT what do you think friends with benifits is? If that is your idea of casual then HELL YA. Love the reaction from the man!! Head is an art form.. if you like what your doing your good at it, so you get the best reactions which is a deffinate turn on.  | |
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Posted: 5/31/2009 1:54:29 AM |
If I don't want a relationship out of the guy then I'm more likely to give a casual BJ, because I don't care if he calls me the next day. Actually, I probably would prefer he didn't.
A casual BJ... and i don;t have to call you ever again? lol... I love the 21st century in America | |
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