| Casual blowjobs Posted: 5/31/2009 2:56:44 AM | Anyone got any idea why "blowing" is what we men want?  | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 5/31/2009 3:47:30 AM | A hot blowjob from someone you fancy
is like discovering your first porn mag in your dad's stack as a teenager
it is terribly naughty
leaves you grinning
and even if you didn't come back to it you could always think back to it and smile ;-) | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 5/31/2009 7:25:41 AM | Based on the many replies, and my own personal feelings, I suspect you would tend to find more guys willing to provide this "casual" service than you would the women here. It seems the women here are divided into several key categories, those looking for a long term relationship, those in a long term relationship, some who are looking for ongoing intimate encounters, and then there are those looking for "employment contracts". So, your best bets would be the intimate encounter group, the pros or the bros.
Either way, I regard this post as just another horn dog guy looking to determine who might be the easy targets. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 5/31/2009 10:32:22 AM | Either way, I regard this post as just another horn dog guy looking to determine who might be the easy targets.
If that's the case, then why haven't I hit on anyone who contributed to this thread? | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 5/31/2009 10:47:19 AM |
Either way, I regard this post as just another horn dog guy looking to determine who might be the easy targets
Erm... and if he was?
Generally speaking this site is about finding a partner. Men do it one way and women, another. I reckon that glib reply could be patented and used regularly. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 5/31/2009 11:14:53 AM |
There is absolutely NOTHING casual about my BJ's.
Same here, but the "relationship" under which the BJ occurs could indeed be casual. Heh.
However, it is a fact that women who smoke are probably better prospects for your particular orientation.
Love these phony "facts" people love to flog around here. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/1/2009 7:20:59 PM | | I gave head before without being in a relationships. I think casual bjs are oky but casual sex isnt. Suck his****and move on. Ive done it before. Do it, forget about it and your done. Doesnt really bother me none i think. As long as he doesnt cum in or around my face, im okay with sucking him off =] | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/1/2009 7:55:08 PM | | Sexyangel you give bad bjs then. Very forgettable for both parties! | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/1/2009 8:19:15 PM | From a guy who didn't regret it point of view...
Had a girl who didn't want a full-blown (oh boy...pun factor) relationship with me but really enjoyed spending time with me and finishing off the night with a b/j.
At first...I was a little taken aback. Mainly because I really...no REALLY...love going down on a woman and she would not allow me to reciprocate. In time I learned that this was as pleasurable to her as it was to me and I got rid of my apprehensions and just let it be.
She taught me a lot about just letting things go sexually...and I'm thankful for the lesson :)
Paul ;) | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 2:25:13 AM | | Hello folks, well yes please, who,s handing these out?? | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 8:49:25 AM | Why is everyone talking about casual blowjobs...
Being a guy, I've given casual head(licking that p*ssy) to a few girls in my life time... I don't feel bad about that!
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 12:49:13 PM | | i`m sure you`re familure with gloryholes and obviously women and yes some men go there for the simple act of giving a blowjob to any random****that comes through the hole. i think their real motivation is the fact that it makes them feel dirty kind of like a gangbang does and the real thrill comes from the dirty feeling but indeed some women do love to just suck it and it`s usually quite pleasurable for us since they enjoy it so much too. the sad thing is that almost every woman i`ve ever known thought she was so good at it but wasn`t. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 12:56:33 PM | Well .... You have to either pay them .. or cover the cost of their intoxication .... ...and watch for chics with "Daddy issues" who seem pretty stupid ... theyll be vulnerable enough to trade that sexual service in exchange for simple attention....
Or take advantage of a girl who really likes you and will naively accept the notion that her performing that act without choice, desire or a true connection will keep you interested and "in love"
Awwww.... matters of the modern heart. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 12:57:57 PM |
I beg to differ, but BJs are anything BUT casual. They are a deeply sensual experience that make the man feel absolute power like a king and the woman performing it completely intoxicated in the intense pleasure she's giving her man (I would think).
LOL...I hate the word BlowJob because it sounds casual "just come blow me!" I Agree they are deeply sensual... nothing casual about it. I realize that each person (male & female) is different on how they think & feel as they experience it (receiving & giving). But for me yes, completely intoxicated in the intense pleasure I'm giving my man. (if we're taking a poll!) smiles...
They're probably OK as far as not being able to contract HIV through them, although you can get still get other nasty diseases from mouth to c--k or vice versa. I know for certain that every time I gave oral, I have tasted semen in small amounts even before he cums. I Believe you can contract HIV this way(at least the female)... Think about it...If the virus is found in the bodily fluids, then saliva & semen qualify as carriers...some disagree with me on that, but each must decide for them self...I respect myself enough to walk in wisdom & not in denial, and denial doesn't make me immune. We are each responsible for our own safety. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 1:17:10 PM | You find these types usually at the drug store picking up their valtrex 7 other mouth sore medications | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 1:49:58 PM | | No such thing as casual fellatio? For those who question the validity of casual blow jobs, you need only learn to play an instrument and get onstage. Looked mighty casual from where I was standing. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 2:22:50 PM | NoQuarterGiven-"hotness usually implies a long term commitment."
I find a lot of men hot on here. I had no idea I was in so many long term commitments with men I've never even messaged. Kind of an oxymoron huh? Sorry, but that's the crazy statement for the day. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 2:28:29 PM | | I have given them before and I see nothing wrong with it if we both know each other well and are agreeable to it. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 6/30/2009 2:40:04 PM | Well only once to the guy I met on here, but we knew each other for awhile first, kinda regretted it at first but sadly we never went any further. Would I do it again? NEVER!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 7/2/2009 12:57:00 PM | | I LUV EM PLEASE LADIES IF U LIKE DOIN IT GET AT ME ON MY PROFILE | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 7/2/2009 1:13:59 PM | Most women I know view a blowjob as anything but casual. The mere personal nature of such a pleasurable exchange reflects not only a serious attraction but also a strong emotional connection, regardless of the commitment level. I believe the "casual blowjob" is overblown in the minds of boys/men who prefer emotionless sex performed by desperate women that lack confidence. Fortunately, as Bob Dylan sings so poignantly "the winds they are a changing". I recommend dating a very confident woman that is in tune with her sexuality and who knows exactly what she wants, how, when and with whom. Add an emotional connection and brace yourself for a wild ride. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 7/2/2009 1:51:56 PM | | I've recently undertaken that notion. Up until a month ago , I felt I had to be in a relationship in order to be intimate with a person, something even as simple as a kiss or back rub. But then I was asked, "you had a relationship with your past partners, and how great did that go?!" . which really made me open up my mind a bit. I've been casual with a friend , and I'm taking a new page out of their book, and simply "doing what I want, when I want to" ofcourse not hurting them as well. but I no longer worry how it comes across, if it makes me look slutty or something like that. As long the person I am with has a mutual understanding, that is all that matters. In terms of blowjobs, I do enjoy it, and do it for me, as well as my partner. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 7/2/2009 3:27:32 PM | | There are plenty of women out there like this. I've had many offers and have let a few, and that's all they wanted. They asked for nothing in return, and said i want to do this for you. I'm not sure why really. Maybe they get satisfaction out of knowing they can make a man feel good? | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 7/11/2009 2:40:16 PM | | It takes me to long to cum that way for it to be casual. I love the way it feels and all, but some times I just can't get a nut that way. | |
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