| Casual blowjobs Posted: 7/11/2009 4:25:09 PM | | I am perfectly ok giving them in a FWB relationship or a more intimate monogamous relationship. I like doing it, as well as it puts me in the mood and usually gets him there faster (if that is an issue) | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/8/2009 7:10:53 PM | ^^^^OR.....maybe you have just made a few bad choices in your life. But I understand...it is much easier on your ego if you can blame every woman on the planet for your problems. How's that workin' for ya!!!??  | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/8/2009 7:21:30 PM | ^^^^ and if you follow his posts entertaining in a strange psychotic way.
Edit: And as you can see below trollish. Not going to play though. :) | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/8/2009 7:27:25 PM | OP I'm curious to know if you give casual cunnilingus. No relationship, no payback required. Just cause you enjoy giving so much.
Marcus, seriously, you must add a barf icon. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/9/2009 2:17:31 PM | it happens. sometimes there is guilt and sometimes...you feel empowered.
**** social norms. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/9/2009 8:53:27 PM | | Now I know what to do on the subway when I'm bored! | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/9/2009 9:04:22 PM | you mean like, oh , hi my name is xx...pleased to meet you , may I blow you???
lmfao
Right.

edit..lmao el mariachi...haha, yeah maybe I'll start taking the trax instead of my bike , hahaha....oh myyyyyyy
Oh. And ftr. I never do anything I feel guilty for. I just don't. I did have sex once (like almost 30 years ago) that I felt very guilty for. First and last. I'm usually a quick learner. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/9/2009 9:08:54 PM |
asual bj's are not that big of deal, it seems the younger generation of women prefer bjs before actual intercourse
So true. I think they even say it is not sex. Quite the opposite. Also, some people wrote there is nothing casual about BJs. Couldn't agree more. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/10/2009 8:41:14 AM | I can not imagine a situation where a woman would not sleep with a man but would let him stick his d1ck in her mouth and fvck her throat. I take that back, I did that ONCE when I was twentysomething, and never again.
There is nothing casual about a blow job. If it is done in a casual setting it is demeaning to a woman. She is being used.
In a committed relationship it is a loving gift of oneself to a partner who cares about you. It is a selfless act, endearing to the recipient, and can bond a relationship together. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/10/2009 8:55:06 AM |
Marcus, seriously, you must add a barf icon.
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/10/2009 3:01:19 PM | Baby, I hate to tell you that there is no such thing as a casual BJ. In some ways they are more personal than intercourse. If they are given with joy and abandon, they are a gift.
Have you considered an escort. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/10/2009 3:13:24 PM | I am looking at my commute with so much glee now!
Maybe casual just means that it's cool to ignore the guy afterwards. You know.. no cuddling, no small talk, etc. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/10/2009 6:03:04 PM | | U women are fantastic no matter if you do casual Bj's or not!!! | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/10/2009 8:12:10 PM | | Casual blowjobs are repellent. A real lady **always** wears an evening gown. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/11/2009 7:57:33 AM | A blowjob is the element of sex that is mechanically the same whether given by a woman or a man. But what is meant by a "casual" blow job? Do you mean that a "non-casual" blow job is something that is deliberately planned a day or so in advance, all the moves orchestrated? Is a "casual" blow job what you offer a guy at the bus stop while waiting for the bus and "non-casual" when decide to wait until you've got him in the back row seat in the bus? Or is "casual" when you don't know the guy, maybe never met him before, never seen him with his pants down, don't even know his name? And why is this thread apparently fixated with giving blow jobs being a woman's role in life? I have had blow jobs from men and I give blow jobs to men. I enjoy giving blow jobs to men just as I enjoy giving cunnilingus to women. I may have missed it in this thread but don't think there has been any "do you spit or swallow" which is the norm when BJs are discussed. Me? Spit or swallow? Depends upon the taste, usually swallow. Do you spit or swallow?  | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/11/2009 10:23:58 AM | | Billie0013, very interesting, not something I expected to read in this thread. I am assured that the best "casual" blowjob is performed by a man on another man. Many thousands of sex tourists return from the far east with tales of mind-blowing bjs, not aware that their receptacle was indeed male. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 9/11/2009 12:44:17 PM | Marcus, seriously, you must add a barf icon. There is one, : 38 : (take out the spaces) 
Methinks the OP has been watching too many porno films. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 11/9/2009 8:35:06 AM | | Yes, I have given casual cunnilingus. Does that make me a bad person; I would like to think not. What is wrong with wanting a beautiful woman to get off and to know that you want nothing in return, except the knowledge that you provided her with an orgasm? If anything it would make me a narcissus, but then again its not my ego that is involved. Now that I am older, I think that I just prefer to give that pleasure to the woman in my life. Plus, younger women are pretty damn aggressive these days. | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 11/9/2009 2:13:35 PM | I'm a thinkin.......most here have never heard of a rainbow.......it is common in the schools...... | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 11/9/2009 5:42:13 PM | I think it's interesting that some guy is trying to encourage women to do what they've always done (to give without getting much of anything in return) by giving out casual blowjobs. Oral is great, but with somebody who's gonna return the favor! Otherwise, get lost!
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 11/9/2009 5:46:05 PM |
most here have never heard of a rainbow.......it is common in the schools......
Never heard of this......a new course they're giving now?  | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 11/9/2009 7:25:02 PM | | I have a friend who works in the public school system (I'm just leave it at that) and they are finding out that many (not all) kids today do not consider a BJ a sexual act (just ask Clinton), they give them freely to their boyfriends and to the friends of their boyfriends, because the boyfriend tells them to (hard to imagine that but true)......so a rainbow is where the girl uses 4 different lips stick colors (2 on the upper lip and 2 on the lower lip).....not sure of the technique they use....but when done......it leaves a rainbow of colors .....well you get the picture I'm sure.... | |
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| Casual blowjobs Posted: 11/9/2009 8:19:29 PM | | Many many moons and summers ago I was with a gal I met at a seaside bar and we wound up down on the beach. And with drunken elegance I requested a “ blow job ” from my new friend. She declined with a wince... but then offered me oral sex. She thought “blow job” was too vulgar a term. I fell asleep through it anyway. | |
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