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 DeagleNINja2
Joined: 12/23/2008
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Why DO men send unsolicited pics of their penis?


Maybe it's not the guy sending it all?
Mine certainly has a mind of his own and I figure if I can two finger type he can probably one finger type...

Actually, that might explain why so many interesting conversations have abruptly come to an end.

 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 52
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 3:04:55 PM
pro-filer: I do see your point regarding laughter and you are absolutely right, it most definitely is the stupidity of men and I believe I have stated that somewhere in this thread way back. Come to think about it, we marvel at the vulva and breasts but depending how its presented to us, some guys may laugh at that too when we get solicitations from women who want so show their goods to us for whatever the reason.

The character mark is true whether you want to agree or not. If you truly disdain the pictures sent to you, you would delete them right away and not show them to your girlfriends or humiliate your guy friends. Again only my opinion. I wouldn't waste pixes on random penises or vagina's either. Its not worth it.
 outofthedesert
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 53
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 4:31:53 PM
I had one send me a photo and next to it was a TV remote. I don't know how big his remote is but the one for my TVs 3" is long and only 1/4 thick and the darn thing doesn't work half the time. And that was supposed to impress me?
 REDDRAGON.
Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 54
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 4:48:08 PM
Maybe it's not the guy sending it all?
Mine certainly has a mind of his own and I figure if I can two finger type he can probably one finger type...

Actually, that might explain why so many interesting conversations have abruptly come to an end.


You always were the smarter one ..........but I always wondered why you typed so slow....It just never made sense some times.
 DeagleNINja2
Joined: 12/23/2008
Msg: 55
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 5:43:35 PM

You always were the smarter one ..........but I always wondered why you typed so slow....It just never made sense some times.


I pass out at the keyboard more than others it seems...
Perhaps it's time I stop letting my penis fix me drinks?
 BBW2Love
Joined: 5/2/2009
Msg: 56
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 5:47:03 PM

Can we just fight back and laugh at womens' vaginas?


Only if they start sending you unsolicited coochie shots.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 57
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 5:59:04 PM
I got news for you. They do. Lots of them. Maybe 100 in a month.
 BBW2Love
Joined: 5/2/2009
Msg: 58
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 6:10:42 PM
All I hear is that you guys aren't getting any mail.

Now you tell me you are getting 100 unsolicited coochie shots from women on this site and others?

Remember porno spam doesn't count.

Porno spam does not count because this thread is about men who get their jollies sending women unsolicited c*ck shots.

The coochies only count if they are sent from women not porn sites. My contention is that the women who may do this are few and far between. Savvy?
 DocElffington
Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 5/24/2009 6:17:49 PM
WTF???????


How come I'm not getting any porno spam?

And yes, it DOES count!

All pof mail counts.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 60
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 6:23:26 PM
I get my fair share of mail so I don't know what other guys are complaining. I get mine.

I see what you mean. No I don't receive pics from anyone from this site, thank goodness, or else I would leave this site and never come back. But I get plenty of them in my other accounts. Why doesn't spam count? A pic is a pic is a pic. I get sick and tired of seeing coochies that are only trying to separate me from my hard earned money.

No matter how you twist and turn it. If you read what I posted earlier, its a disgustiong thing. I believe I gave some reasons as to why this phenomenon takes place so much, but far me to do anything about it, other than send good emails to good women I'd like to meet and hope they'd be considerate enough to answer me back.
 .Marc
Joined: 2/11/2007
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Posted: 5/24/2009 7:15:23 PM
#60 ... by that logic you're more or less saying that you'd be less offended by it if they were trying to sell you something. I don't think this is the case. Any sort of "spam doesn't count" statement seems ludicrous. I don't really think that anyone needs to take the intent of a flasher into account before they get offended or bothered by being shown something against their will. The only difference between the idiot at home and the spammer is that one is getting paid for it.
 ImNArtist
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 62
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 5/24/2009 8:42:18 PM
So, here is my question... Every guy has a****and yeah, I suppose that they would want to send a picture to prove its size or whatever. But why go to the extent of sending a gif of a cum shot????

I was having a great conversation with a guy when the talk turned a LITTLE sexual and that seemed to be the sign for him to send me SEVERAL full naked body shots (with erection) as well as a gif of a cum shot. WTF?
 dancecard
Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 6/2/2009 7:24:55 AM
hmm? ~ I suppose it's where their mind is at and they proud of their pecker ~ thinking that someone else might be as well.

Strange behavior for sure ~ it's not the first time I've been embarrassed with my follow man's behavior. ~

There is some twisted people among us, ~

I guess it's like maybe these young sweeties that keep wanting me to look at their stuff.

On second thought, ~ no it isn't either ~ I think that these girls want something from me ~ (I've never followed up on the "come hither") ~ I only know it's unrealistic to think they 'd be interested in an old war horse like me, and if they are letting go of it so freely, I sure don't want it.

So I don't know why young guys do this, ~ ? expecting some woman to say, "oh yea! that one's for me?"

Very, very few women's minds work that way Guy's ~ so stop it!

Dance
 TallDarkPassionate
Joined: 5/13/2009
Msg: 64
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Posted: 6/2/2009 8:52:36 AM
Hmm,

Maybe because my penis is so incredibly awesome, that it would be selfish of me not to share it?
Maybe because every time I look at my penis it puts a smile on my face, and I just felt that you could use a smile?
Maybe because my penis makes me so incredibly happy, and I just want you to be happy as well?

Who knows? Personally these days my penis only makes personal appearances, having never collected any royalties from previous photo shoots.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 65
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Posted: 6/2/2009 9:20:16 AM

To be quite truthful with you, I have absolutely NO IDEA what men get from doing this.

Maybe it's the only way those guys will ever get a woman to look at it.
 slybandit
Joined: 7/10/2006
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Posted: 6/2/2009 9:45:27 AM
Oh, a few ideas come to mind:

1. Er...stupidity? A much under-rated explanation for both much of human history and the present human condition.

2. They have not yet made the intellectual leap to the concept that the ladies will be far more turned on by a copy of their credit rating.

3. They decided to let the women know right away what was most important to them in their lives.

4. They got turned off by something the woman said, and wanted to make it 100% certain that they would not wind up dating them because they do not have the guts to hurt their feelings.

5. Testosterone poisoning. It's a growing public health issue.

6. They read on her profile that she wanted a man who was "emotionally available", and felt they had to prove it by sending a photo of the source of 90% of their emotions.

7. Repressed homosexuality. (Why that, of all things? Well, they're not stupid, they're just secretly turned on at the thought of the woman emailing the shot to all of her gay male friends. And the d*ck shot guarantees you will not be sleeping with that particular woman. Sounds str*ckly d*ckly to me...)

8. Narcissism...it's not just for women any more.

9. They were hoping she'd be awestruck by it in all of it's Glory and would insist on using it-- immediately. (Yes, this is really just #2 and #8, but I'm running out of ideas.)

10. They have learned from bitter experience that on-line exhibitionism is less likely to lead to further arrests.
 CREngineer
Joined: 3/5/2008
Msg: 67
Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?
Posted: 6/2/2009 10:47:12 AM
I am going out on a limb here but probably the same reason women send pics of their "cooter cat" Again gender specific, I truly hate that! If Freud is right and women have penis envy I am sure "some" would send it out so instead they send pictures of their JJ. Maybe "some" guys send pictures of the head they think with but again it is not gender specific!
 widowsdesire
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 68
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Posted: 6/2/2009 4:05:53 PM
well, my inbox is not flooded with photos, but over the past year since I have been single I have received penis shots from four men. One was from my current lover, so I don't think that counts. The other three were unsolicited. Two of the men the photos came from out of the blue and I blocked the sender from contacting me again. The third was from a guy on here who later became a friend, although we never dated, and never met face to face. The photo was a friend ship offer if I ever wanted to take him up on a friend with benefits arrangement.

When I have received photos like this I wondered what I did to make them think the photo was welcome. In the case of the male who became an online friend it was clear we were engaged in online sexual flirtation. I was not offended by his photo. In teasing sent some back to him, not nearly so nude, lingerie shots.

I have a file with men's photos that I have been sent. I have shown one or two of the photos to a girl friend and we say things like "wow can you believe the size of that c0ck" much like a man might look at a girlie magazine. They mainly are just stored in a file with my other photos. I think the next time I receive an unsolicited photo of a man's penis I might send him an unsolicited photo of another man's penis. I think that would be a way to get a message across. LOL Especially if the other man's penis is bigger than the one he sent me.

Photos however do not do it for me like real live flesh and blood. I don't get off by looking a naked man photo. In fact studies have shown that photos of babies arouse a woman more than photos of a naked man. Go figure.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 6/2/2009 4:22:15 PM

I don't get off by looking a naked man photo. In fact studies have shown that photos of babies arouse a woman more than photos of a naked man. Go figure.

To all the guys that feel the need to do this kind of thing, I hope you will widowsdesire's reply. If that doesn't you off, I don't know what will....
 ApplePieFacePlant
Joined: 9/13/2008
Msg: 70
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Posted: 6/2/2009 4:31:48 PM
Oh, good Lord. I'd rather receive an unsolicited naked man photo than a baby photo.
If some guy sent me a picture of his baby, and it was not a car, gun, hunting dog or flesh staff, THAT would make me run for the hills.
A BABY pic-no thanks. It's bad enough half of the people on here have them on their profiles.



In fact studies have shown that photos of babies arouse a woman more than photos of a naked man.
 OneMoondance
Joined: 5/20/2009
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Posted: 6/2/2009 6:47:44 PM
A few months ago I began seeing an someone. An intelligent guy, great conversationalist, he was a widower, a few years older than me, a prominent local businessman, you know a pillar of the community. Went out a few times and enjoyed casual conversation, a few chaste kisses. There were no sparks, the last time we were out together, I told him I didn't think there was potential for more.
Later that evening, he texts me a photo of his penis. WTF...not impressive in any way, shape or form.
A couple of weeks later, I'm reading the local newspaper and come upon an interview with him.The part of the interview that caught my eye was his explanation of how difficult it has been for him to find appropriate ways to interact with women since his wife died. Sheeshhh
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 6/2/2009 7:40:30 PM

I'm reading the local newspaper and come upon an interview with him.The part of the interview that caught my eye was his explanation of how difficult it has been for him to find appropriate ways to interact with women since his wife died. Sheeshhh

I am a widower myself, and although never in a million years would I ever resort to something as such as this and I'm not saying I'd advocating his behavior in any way, shape or form, but I would think right now, perhaps you should show a little compassion to this guy. Maybe he's a little confused and misguided, but under the circumastances, I would find it in your heart not to broadcast his indescretion.
 OneMoondance
Joined: 5/20/2009
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Posted: 6/2/2009 7:48:55 PM
I'm sorry his wife died. But I'm a widow. After my husband died I didn't start sending unsolicited pics of body parts to men. There is no excuse for his behavior. As to broadcasting his indiscretion, not planning to share the story with folks who know him. But, what a jerk!
 charminC
Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 74
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Posted: 6/2/2009 7:54:14 PM
Maybe it's the only way those guys will ever get a woman to look at it.


^^
a shred of truth here folks
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 6/2/2009 7:58:16 PM
charminC : And unfortunately, a very sad truth too.
They really are to be pitied, more than slandered.

I wish I could talk to guys like this and tell them to take pride. As my aunt (also our babysitter) used to say to my daughter when she ran around the house naked "Put your pants back on! Don't show everyone everything you own!".
Maybe these guys never had it put it to them that way.
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