| | Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis?Page 4 of 10 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10) | well ~ for what it's worth ~ I enjoy pretty babies ~ they don't arose me but please me with their perfection and tender tinyness, each a miracle and a gift of nature.
Babies ~ can be , very beautiful and a joy to view. So can puppies or even little piglets.
At my age ~ it's only a pretty heart shaped ass or shapely legs on a woman that turns my head, and only then might I wonder about the rest of her. ~ never being a hooter man.
But each of us is different in this area, ~ and since we are on this topic ~ I wouldn't think that it's just a matter of pecker size. ~ but I could be wrong. I see no beauty in a pecker! but I figure a woman might.
I like lips, full lips and an average size mouth. ~ Some women hardly have lips ~ just a pretty teethy smile and no lips ~ they must paint them on.
we're all different ~ ain't it grand?
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 6/2/2009 9:49:36 PM | Since I am not a man, I can only surmise as to why they might do this.
They think by showing you that they are uninhibited, you might be prompted to say, "Hey! you got a friggin' Dlck!!! Want to play hide the hotdog?"
They think there is no such thing as bad publicity.
They take secret pride that you are telling your friends or coworkers, "you should see this crazy ass dude that sent me a picture of his dlck last night. Like I've never seen one that small before."
or...
They are blatant exhibitionists and dont care who you are, what you are all about, or how their package looks, they just want to show their goods.
ya...weird!
Thank goodness the IM is gone, you never knew when suddenly, you were going to be graced with a full screen shot of his meat and 2 veg!!
And...I doubt there are as many women sending photos of their body parts as there are guys sending dlck shots..... not even close. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 6/3/2009 5:03:20 AM | Here's a thumbs up to men who "get off" sending out pic's......I think it's all in good fun...and always a thrill to see what you might be getting before you date someone.
http://guyswithiphones.com/
I must be "odd" but I have been sent "c*ck shots" and didn't mind at all.Actually,I sort of enjoyed them......hehehe...and have reciprocated.
Not sure I see the problem,but then again,having an open mind has always made me a bit more "game" for all things "outside the box".
I find it a LOT prudish that we can't check out EVERYONE'S junk.....before we hook up.....
OH............ SHAME ON ME! LOL
That being said.....I don't need an onslaught of DIC PIC's cumming my way....as I only need ONE....and his is PERFECT for me~
Lighten up....it's just a d*ck. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 6/3/2009 1:17:59 PM | well there you have it ! Some don't mind if you whip it out!
As a man, ~ I personally don't think that's my style to attracting desirable mates. ~ If I was gunned up with a yard of d1ck and a bucket full of balls , I'd feel no different. ~
and it's not the vision ~ but the act that I take exception to. ~ Yes, it's just a d1ck.
So would you enjoy such a person ~ going to the zoo with you and your niece?
Or defend you is a court of laws for murder when all the evidence is stacked against you.
I'd say no!
But maybe that's not what some are looking for. ~ If not, I completely understand.
after all it's just a date site ~ and light hearted fun is what it mostly about.
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| Why do women wear colored pubic/areola patches at the beach that look like their pubic hair in punk rock hair styles? Posted: 6/3/2009 5:06:33 PM | Malestrome, I am truly sorry for the pain you have suffered. We all have our stories of heartbreak and despair. Most of us overcome the challenges life brings us and come out on the other side, anew, stronger and wiser. I hope that is how it has been for you.
I guess I do live in a different world. We all have choices regarding the sites we frequent on the net, and what we allow to come into our life, so my experience, and those of my close friends are apparently not the same as yours. My assumption, as erroneous as it appears to be at this point, was based on the reponses in this forum. You dont hear men complaining about this to the same degree. Ergo....
I do believe in the law of attraction, so what does that say about the men who are constantly hounded by these women.....and if there wasnt a market for it, they wouldnt exist, so....who take responsibility for their existence? Perhaps the blame lies a the foot of your brethern who indulge and participant in their skanky antics. In other words, dont blame MacDonalds for selling a greasy, calorie rich, nutrient free product at a cheap price, while North Americans' waistlines bulge.... if people didnt buy that crap, McDonalds wouldnt exist....same thing goes for the skanks.
I am happy for you that you have your life back on track and hope you do find someone who can equal your lost love, however, if everyone has her memory to live up to, the search may prove exceedingly difficult. Best wishes in that endeavor. | |
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| I'm here for you. Posted: 6/3/2009 5:18:13 PM | Malestrome: I truly feel your pain my good friend. I am here for you if you ever just want to vent to another guy.
*golfgirl* : Extremely well said. You are so right, its the good men like Mr. Malestrome, myself and others that bear the brunt of the indescretion of our brethren. I'm trying to change things little by little, as you may have noted if you read some of my posts. I yearn for a world of total equality between the sexes. After all, to me, its all about LOVE! | |
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| I'm here for you. Posted: 2/2/2010 3:46:38 PM | I view it as an insult... its really like saying... I think you're 'easy' and the mere sight of my penis will make you want to have sex with me. Or lets cut to the chase... sex.
Yeah, I've been sent a couple... it really ticks me off... just delete and move on with life. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/2/2010 3:58:58 PM | I have never received a pic of a guys penis. However, I have opened up a web cam expecting to see a man's face and there was a close up of his penis. My reaction was to shut the cam off and ignore his messages. I had another guy both foreign by the way who liked to take his pants off in the middle of our chats. He did start the conversations with a view of his face. I clicked off the cam and told him if he wanted to continue talking with me to stop doing that.
I do not use a cam sexually and have no interest in receiving pics or views like that. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/2/2010 4:11:17 PM | I too get the occassional penis shot sent to me. Always a shock. I now keep and few of the pics stored on my computer for when the next idiot sends me a penis pic. I always return the favour by sending him a picture of a bigger one. Funny how they never contact me again! | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/2/2010 4:51:08 PM | I'm not one to partake in such activities. No, it's not a shyness issue or size issue.
If I wanted to appear immature, I'd litterally show my ass.
As for the woman returning larger pics. Photoshop one between your legs and save the 1 pic as "me chillin' " then send it to the phone flashers.
Some may return with love texts. Block them, I guess... | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/2/2010 6:01:23 PM | I 'm sure they are playing the percentage game....they are after sex only.
I'm sure growing up you heard the story of the guy with balls, who would go directly up to women and straight forwardly ask them if they want to have sex.
He would get slapped sometimes, sometimes a mean look, but would score on occassion.
On these sites, it takes less courage....you are not face to face...they send an email and a picture. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/22/2010 7:31:22 AM | Because some are ignorant undiscerning****eeds who assume that, just because their are visual, women would be the same, so basically they are hoping to make you wet and blind with desire.
I'd forward it to his boss. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/22/2010 8:14:27 AM | Maybe their package is the best looking part of them? Who knows. I do know that if some random person sends me a picture of their goodies, I am not interested in getting to know them. They just took all the fun out of it  | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/22/2010 2:37:13 PM | Ive never done it, I think its stupid. But then again, its logical.
Sending an erect penis pic will get 3 responses. No response, an angry response or 'hey big boy, whatcha doin tonite'?
It makes men in search of a fling more productive and successful by attracting women who are turned on by such a pic.
On the other hand, having a huge penis is like wearing jewelry or driving fancy cars. Guys just love to show off. It doesnt matter if it gets you mad, or makes you smile, its still an ego boaster for them.
Same can be said about women who have breast and ass pics on their profile. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/22/2010 8:16:28 PM | Seems crazy to me, and I don't have any urge to try. But from what I've heard from the ladies, there's some small proportion of women out there who actually respond positively to this approach.
Apparently standing out on the street and propositioning every single woman who walks by for sex leads to a certain success rate too. It may even be the same women who agree.
But here's a thought -- from what I hear, lots of men approach women on these sites with some generic "Hey, howz it goin? U R Hot." email that could be copied and pasted 100 times. If that's the extent of a man's mental/emotional/creative ability, then maybe the penis pic really does represent him to his best advantage! | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/22/2010 8:41:39 PM | I've gotten a few penis pics, not sure why, I sent a pic of a penis back that was much bigger than theirs, strangely I didn't hear from the guys again, guess it wasn't the type of pics they wanted to see. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/23/2010 2:21:20 PM | Well I have had the reverse,Women have sent me pictures of their Private parts so I just respond by sending them mine, as it only seems fair to me to send her pictures of myself after she has sent me pictures of her !
What harm can It do ? we are all adults after all !!! we have al seen it before,
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/23/2010 2:25:20 PM | Quick note.
My ex sister in law met her husband online, chatted a few times via IM, during one message he sent her multiple pictures of his genitalia. She giggled about it, didn't find it offensive, and still met to have a date with him. Now its about 4 years later, they've been married for 3 of those and have a kid.
I guess its all in the delivery and the recipient. :p | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 2/23/2010 4:17:32 PM | | Yes, I have received numerous pics of their penis, without asking. I think it is because they are bragging about their body parts and think I will be impressed seeing a picture of it without seeing the actual size, who knows it could be a 2 incher. Men are more visual than women and think women are interested in looking at a penis on line. I much rather see the penis in person providing I am attracted to the man. I have had men that wanted me to send them pictures of my privates but I refused. I find this inappropriate and I don't want to take a chance of my privates being exposed throughout the Internet. | |
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| Why [b]DO[/b] men send unsolicited pics of their penis? Posted: 10/3/2011 5:51:31 AM | I have received 2 pics from pof men. The first guy was obnoxious when I told him I felt disrespected . He called me vanilla and naive. It hurt my feelings but I got over it. Here recently another man that I've been talking too also sent a penis picture but when I told him how I felt he apologized. So what am I to do. Forever punish a guy for a mistake he made. Or forgive him but ill be more cautious with my heart and maybe not have sex too soon with him since I'm now thinking that's all he wants. Dating is a gamble in itself. I deleted the picture. | |
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